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Unit3

DailyVerbalCommunication(II)1第1页ObjectivesLearnthesocialfunctionsofcomplimentsandcomplimentsandcomplimentresponsesLearnthedifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishcomplimentsLearnexpressionsofgratitudeandapologyinEnglishandChinese2第2页

CONTENTSI.Warm-upcasesII.DetailedStudy:ComplimentsandcomplimentresponsesSocialfunctionsofcomplimentsDifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishcomplimentsCommonresponseformulasofEnglishandChinesecomplimentsExpressionsofgratitudeandapologyinEnglishandChineseIII.CaseStudyIV.SummaryV.Assignments3第3页Case1.AnInvitationtoDinnerI.Warm-upcasesQuestion:Ifyouwerethedirectorandchosentomediatethissituation,whatwouldyoudotoensurenottooffendeitherparty?HowwouldyouexplainBart’sbehaviortoManual?HowwouldyouexplainManual’stoBart?4第4页Case2.TheCancellationoftheDinnerPartyComment:1.InNewZealand,afriendcanopenlyprovideconstructivecriticism.IfStandidnotmakesuchsuggestionstoafriendinhiscountry,thefriendwouldbeangrythatStandidnothelphimwhenhehadthechance.2.InPhilippines,apersoncannotbeafriendandacriticatthesametime,oratleastnotinpublic.Stanshouldfindsomeotherway(acceptabletotheFilipinos)tovoicehiscomments.5第5页Case3Whyshouldtheydolikethis?Comment:1.TheBritishpeoplemaintaintheiretiquetteandsocialmannersevenwhentheyareveryexcited.2.TheFilipinocoupledidnotintroducetheirFilipinofriendtohim3.TheFilipinosweretalkingintheirownnativelanguage.NodoubttheBritishfeltleftout,whichisunacceptableandrarelyoccursonsocialoccasionsinBritain.4.Whenimmigrantsmeetinaforeigncountry,theytendtotakenonoticeoftheirsurroundings/peoplearound,whichisconsideredtoberudeandrequiresattention.6第6页II.ComplimentsComplimentandcomplimentresponsesB.SocialfunctionsofcomplimentsC.DifferencesbetweenChinesecomplimentsandEnglishcompliments(semanticformulaandsyntacticformula)D.CommonresponseformulasinEnglishandChineseE.Differentculturalassumptionsaboutcompliment7第7页Complimentsandcomplimentsresponses

Fishingforcompliments“Growingflowersismyhobby,butI’mnotmuchgoodatit”------“Buttheseflowersarebeautiful”“IwishIcoulddoaswell!”8第8页Fishingforcompliments“Ireallyknowlittleaboutthesubject.”-----“Well,Icertainlydon’tknowanybodywhoknowsmorethanyoudo!”9第9页Socialfunctionsofcompliments1.Tocreateorreinforcesolidarity2.Togreetpeople3.Toexpressthanksorcongratulations4.Toencourageagingpeople5.Tosoftencriticism6.Tostartaconversation7.Toovercomeembarrassment10第10页DifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsW:ItiscommonforamantoinformallygiveawomancomplimentsonherlooksorclothingC:Itistakenasakindofflirtationifamancomplimentsawoman11第11页■Chinesepeoplecomplimenteachothermuchlessfrequentlythanwesternersdo.■Chinesepeopletrytodrawalinebetweencomplimentandflattery

■Chinesepeopleinterpretother’spositivecomplimentsasarequestforpossessingsomething.12第12页TheSemanticFormulaEnglishcompliments:Adjectives

VerbsThiswasagreatmeal.Youlooksonicetoday.Youdidagoodjob.Ilikeyourhaircut.Iloveyourglasses.Ireallyenjoyedyourclass13第13页ChinesecomplimentsAdjectivesadverbs

verbsYourskirtisverypretty.Thisroomisreallygood.You’rereallyanexperiencedteacher.Youdidthejobverywell.Youtreatpeoplesincerely.Iespeciallylikethecolorofyourblouse.Youdeservebeingpraised.14第14页TheSyntacticFormulaNPADJ

PRO

V

ADV

OEnglish:NP

is/looksreally

ADJ(53%)Yourblouselooksbeautiful.Youaresoefficient.

Ireallylike/love

NPIreallylikeyourhardwoodfloors.That’sreallyabeautifulcar.15第15页Chinese■YouVADVYoudidthejobwell.■NPisADJYourcoatisreallybeautiful.■PROisADJNPThat’sawonderfulwallcalendar.■PROVOYoudeservebeinghonored.■IlikeNPIlikethispicture.16第16页ResponseFormulasofEandCcomplimentsAmericanEnglish

A:Thisisreallyanicesweater.B:I’mgladyoulikeit.

A:Youdidagoodjob.B:Thankyou/Thanks.Chinese:

A:Yoursweaterisverygood.B:Iboughtitonlyfortenyuan.

A:Youdidthejobverywell.B:That’stheresultofjointefforts./There’sstillmuchroomforimprovement.17第17页■

Generallyspeaking,nativeEnglishspeakerstendtoacceptthecomplimentswhiletheChinesetendtoeffacethemselvesinwordsalthoughtheydofeelcomfortableaboutthecompliments.Sometimeshumorousresponsescouldbeusedwhenwithintimatefriends.18第18页CulturalAssumption“Good”referstoone’shealth,appearanceandmannerinbothEandCcultures“Losingweight”meansgoodinEculturebutnotgoodinCculture“puttingonweight”canbeacomplimenttoChinesebutoffensivetoAmericans19第19页III.ExpressionsofgratitudeandaplologyTheexpressionsarefarmorefrequentlyusedinEnglishthaninChinese.Chineseoftenneglectminorfavorsespeciallyamongfriendsandmembersoffamily.Theythinktheexpressionsofgratitudeandapologyunnecessaryandeventiresome.20第20页SomespecialChineseexpressionsItdoesn’tmatter.