简·奥斯汀在傲慢与偏见中对婚姻的态度

JaneAusten'sAttitudetowardMarriageinPrideandPrejudice

Contents

Chapter1Introduction ………1

1.1ABriefIntroductiontoJaneAusten …………1

1.2ABriefIntroductiontoPriceandPrejudiceChapter…1

Chapter2DifferentMarriagePatternsinPrideandPrejudiceChapter ……………2

2.1JaneandBingley …………2

2.1.1alittlebitofresistanceandhappiness…………… 2

2.2Carlo-tiandCollins…… 3

2.2.1Affordablefeelings……… 3

2.3LydiaandWick-ham…………… 4

2.3.1TheWorstmarriage………4

2.4ElizabethandDarcy……………5

2.4.1Mature,rational,happyandhappy …5

Chapter3JaneAusten'sattitudestowardmarriage………7

3.1Theinfluenceofpersonalityonmarriage…………7

3.2Thebasisofahappymarriage…………9

Conclusion…………… 10

References…………… 11

Abstract

JaneAustenandPrideandPrejudicehavebeenlovedbythousandsofreaderaroundtheworldsincetheadventofthisnovel.Thisisoneofthefavoritepillowthatmanyfemalefriendshavelisted.

ThispaperfirstanalyzesthedifferentmarriageobjectandmarriagepatternsofdifferentpersonalitychoicebyanalyzingthefourmarriagesofMr.Bennettdaughters.Amongthemareaffordablemarriagesthatonlylookatmaterialwealthandsetanexamplestogotoelopement,aswellashappymarriageswhereemotionsandemotionscoexist,andbothpersonalityandspiritualneedsaresatisfied.Theauthor’sownviewifmarriageandlove:reasonandemotionarethebasisofmaterialhappiness

Keywords:rationalmarriagefoundationspiritualneeds

JaneAusten'sAttitudetowardMarriageinPrideandPrejudice

Chapter1Introduction

1.1ABriefIntroductiontoJaneAusten

ThestoryofPrideandPrejudicehappenedinthelate18thcenturywhenBritaintransitionedfromcapitalismtocapitalistindustry.Inrurallife,people'slivesandthoughts,especiallywomenattitudestowardmarriageandlove.ThisbookwasthefirstworkdonebyAustin.Originallynamed"TheOriginalImpression",itwaslaternamed"PrideandPrejudice"andwasofficiallypublishedin1813.

Inthelate18thcenturyBritishnovels,therewasafemininetrend,fullofsadnessandmelancholy.Inthisbook,Austinusedclear,smooth,wittylanguagetomakethestoryupsanddownsandcomedy.Herstoryistight.Stickingtoreallife,warmanddelicate,depictingtheordinarylifeofordinarypeopleinthecountryfromarationalpointofview,atthattime,thesocietysetoffastreamofcleanliness.Becauseofthis,herworkopenedtheclimaxofrealistnovelsinthe1930s.

1.2ABriefIntroductiontoPriceandPrejudiceChapter

JaneAustenwasborninaruralpastor'sfamilyanddidnotreceiveformaleducation.Herknowledgebenefitedfromtheencouragementandguidanceofherfatherandbrother,andshewasnevermarried.

Chapter2DifferentMarriagePatternsinPrideandPrejudiceChapter

2.1JaneandBingley

2.1.1Loveisalittlebitofresistanceandhappiness

JaneistheeldestdaughterofTheBennett.Sheisgentleandlookssweet.SheisagoodwifeofIKEA.Shehasalmostnootherpeople'smistakesinherconcept.Sherarelytalksaboutoreventhinksthatothersarethere.Disadvantages.Herinclusivenessandacceptancearestrong,andevenherfatherwouldthinkthatshewouldbebulliedbyherservantaftershegotmarriedbecauseshewastoogoodtospeak.Janehasthebestrelationshipwithhersecondsister(Elizabeth).Thetwooftensharetheiremotionsinabedatnight,andtheirsistersarealsothemosttrustedpeople.Attheball,Janeistheprideofhermother,becausesheisverygentle,understanding,andverypolite.

Mr.BingleyisawealthyyoungmanfromthenorthofEngland.Heishandsomeandhandsome,andheissingle.BecauseherentedtoNether-fieldPark,hebecameaneighborofMr.Bennett.ThearrivalofthisgoldenbachelormadeMrs.Bennettveryexcitedbecauseshehadfivedaughterstobemarriedandneededtofindthebestcompanion.

AfterMr.Bingleystayedatthenewmanor,hetookawarmdancewithhisgoodfriendMr.Darcyandhiscousin.TheBennettandtheirfivedaughterswereinvitedtoparticipateinthenewneighbor.Danceparty.Thegirlswereveryexcitedwhentheythoughtaboutmeetingnewfriends.Thedancewasaveryimportantsocialwayatthetime.Youngboysandgirlswerelookingforwardtoattendingtheballandmakingnewfriendsorevenlookingforthemattheball.Apartnerwhoisinlovewitheachother.

Inthefirstdance,Mr.BingleyandJanehadagoodrelationship.BingleyinvitedJanetobehispartnertwice.Theywereveryhappy.Inotherpeople'seyes,thisisaverysuitablepairoflovers.Inparticular,Mr.Bennett’familyisverymuchlookingforwardtotheirdaughtersbeingabletoassociatewithsuchagoodyoungmanandmarryhim.

Intheaftermathofthiscontact,Mr.LangleycouldnotcoverhisloveforJane,andhisfriendslookedinhiseyes.BecauseJanewasnotgoodatrevealinghisownvoice,hehidthisfeelinginhisheartandaddedtothecourtesyofBingley,buthedidnotshowitboldly.SointheeyesofBingleygoodfriendDarcyandhiscousin,JanehasnoloveforMr.Bingley.Becauseoftherelationshipbetweenbirthandfamily,theyarenotright.Theythinkthatthesetwopeoplearenotsuitable,especiallythepredecessorandclimbingbehaviorofmotherandsister,whichisverycontemptforthem.SoatthestagewhenJaneandBingleywerewarmingup,DarcyandcousinpersuadedandadvisedBingleytoleavetheNether-fieldParkandlostcontactwithJane.

Janewasveryannoyed.Shedidn'tunderstandwhyhesuddenlyleft,sowiththeencouragementofhersisterElizabeth,shebravelywenttoLondon,hopingtomeetBingleythere.Afterafewtwistsandturns,Bingleyknewsheintentionsforhim,andhewasreluctanttogiveup.HefinallymadeasuccessfulmarriagetoJane.Thetwomenlovedeachotherandwenttoahappymarriageintheblessingsofeveryone.AndbecauseBingleyhasawealthyincome,theirmarriedlifehasagoodtaste.

Thisslightlyresistivelovermissedtheopportunityintheinitialinteractionbecauseofpersonalityreasons,butfortunatelytheytreatedtheirfeelingswithasingledegree,didnotchangeeasily,andfinally,withthehelpoffriends,boldlyconfessedtheirfeelingsandharvestedhappiness.

2.2Carlo-tiandCollins

2.2.1Affordablefeelings

CollinswasthenephewofMr.Bennett,becausethedaughtersoftheBennettfamilydidnotinherittherightsofthefamilypropertyandtheestate,butCollinswantedtochooseoneofthemostaffordablewivesinMissBennett.ThepropertyoftheBennettfamilywasinheritedbyhispeaceofmind.Heisbotharrogantandflattering,botharrogantandhumble.Collinslooksabitridiculous,butalsoabitclumsy,butalsoveryarrogant,butalsoveryscheming,goodatbargainingpower,becauseoftheappreciationofthelady,Mrs.CatherineDeb,apastoroftheparish,andthenmoreArrogant,pretentious.Hisnakedreasonformarriagewastofindawomanwhocouldmanagethehouseandsetagoodexamplefortheparish.Thisnakedmarriageviewisscary,andwheredoesmarriagehappinesscomefrom?

KarateisafriendofElizabeth,27yearsold,single,withoutproperty,andsheacceptedCollinsforsurvival.Thestartingpointforherchoiceofmarriageistohavethemostbasicmateriallifeguarantee.Asforlove,sheisneverwithinherconsideration.AfterCollinsself-righteouslyproposedtoElizabethandwasdecisivelyrejected,heimmediatelyturnedhistargettosomeonewhocouldpromisehimtomarry.Intheirview,itisnotimportanttohavesuchacombinationoflove.Aslongastheyhaveahome,lifecanbeguaranteed.

Thesetwopeoplearemarriedintheabsenceofemotionalexchanges,sotheyaredestinedtohavelittleexchangeofideasaftermarriage.Thewifeisresponsiblefortakingcareofthehousework,thehusbandisresponsibleforworkandmakingmoney,andthereisnoexcessiveintersection.ThiscanbeseenatthehomereceptionofElizabethafterthemarriageofCarlo-tiWhenherfriendElizabethcametoherhome,shereceivedherfriendandbroughtElizabethintoherpersonalworkassoonassheenteredthehouse.Italkedintheroomanddidn'tstaywithmyfriendsinthelivingroomofthegeneralreceptionguest,becauseshesaidthattheywouldnotbedisturbed.Herhusbanddidnotreceivetheguestswithheranddidnotparticipateintheexchange.Itcanbeseenthatthecouple'sfeelingsarerarelycommunicated,andemotionalresonanceisevenmore.

2.3LydiaandWick-ham

2.3.1TheWorstmarriage

LydiaistheyoungestdaughterofBennett.Shelacksdisciplineanddiscipline,andshehasnoscorn.Shedoesnotneedbrainthinkingwhenshedoesthings.Whenshehearsthatthereisacorpstocome,sheisexcitedandwantstousethemost.Thecontemptuousapproachattractsothers,aslongasthemanwholooksalittlebetterinappearancecanappealtoher,sheissatisfiedandsmug.SowhenshesawthefabulousWick-ham,shedidn'tknowwhy,shedidn'teventhinkaboutWick-hamlifeanddebt,anddidn'trealizethatitwassuchabadperson.Intheend,hewasabletorunawayfromhimregardlessofhisfaceandhisfamily.Alltheyhadwastheimpulseoftheyoungandtheoriginallust,andtherewasnoshadowoftruelove.

AndWick-hamisalie,onlyknowingwhoissquandering,withoutasenseofresponsibilityandgratitude.HedeceivedLydiainarhetoric,butdidnotcareaboutthefeelingsofherfamily,anddidnotthinkofbeingresponsibleforLydia.HeturnedhisbackonDarcy,whogrewupwithhim,andslanderedhim,causingElizabethtomisunderstandDarcy.Intheend,heandLydiawereabletogetmarriedandhecouldhaveajobthatwastheresultofDarcy'shelp.

Theirmarriagedidnothaveasubstantialsenseofmarriagefromthebeginning.Instead,theircombinationbroughtalotoftroublesandevenshametofamilyandfriends,buttheydidnotcareaboutit.Theyacceptedthesupportoffriendsandfamily,evenFrequentlifeaftermarriageisoftenembarrassingtoaskthesistersforhelp.AndWick-hamdoesn'tthinkit'ssoshamefulandugly.Heseemstohavenevertriedtochangethesignsofthepoorsituation.Frombeginningtoend,heisamanwhodoesnothaveasenseofresponsibility.Theirmarriagelifeisoftenchaoticandchaotic,onlyamarriageofemptyshells.

2.4ElizabethandDarcy

2.4.1Mature,rational,happyandhappy

ElizabethistheseconddaughterofBennettfamilyandoneofthemostprouddaughtersofMr.Bennett.Althoughshedoesnothavetheappearanceofafascinatingappearance,sheissmartandcute,hasastrongopinion,andhasastrongself-respect.Sheknowswhatshewantsandhowtochoosethings.Shelovesherfamily,caresabouthersisters,andneversuccumbstoherinfrontofherdignitaries.Sheisflatteringandisagirlwithpersonalityandconnotation.Whenaskedaboutherage,shedidnotfeelinferiorbecauseshewasaoldersinglegirl.Whenhersister’slovefell,sheactivelyencouragedhertobravelypursueherhappinessandhelphersistergotoLondontofindBingleywhenshewasproposedbyCollins,shedaredtoconfronthermotheranddecidedtorefuseonthespot.WhenDarcyfirstproposedtoher,sherefusedDarcybecauseshehadmisunderstandingandprejudiceagainstDarcy,andwasnotconfusedbyhiswealth.Finally,shecrackedprejudiceinrepeatedcontactsandreturnedtoDarcy.Reallyunderstand,andlovehimalittlebit.Shewillnotmakethingsagainstherownmindandjudgmentbecauseofthesecularvisionofhersocietyorhermother'spersecution,andshedoesnotloseherselfinthefaceofmoney.Evenifsheencounterssetbacks,shewillbravelymoveforward,notreluctantly,willbebraveandinsistonpursuingtheloveandmarriageshewants.

Intheeyesofothers,sheisreluctant,butitisheruniquenessthathasattractedDarcy,whofellinlovewithherinherrepeatedcontact.

Mr.Darcy,whohasanoblebirth,hasapamperedlifefromayoungage,andhashisfather'spersonalguidance.Thisgiveshimasenseofsuperiority,andheisnotgoodatwordswhenheisfacingstrangers.Itoftengivespeopletheimpressionofbeingarrogantandindifferentandrejectingpeoplethousandsofmilesaway.Butthefamilymemberswhoarefamiliarwithhim,includingtheservants,especiallylikehimtorespecthim,becauseonlyafterhehasdeepcontactwithhimwillheunderstandthetrueone:treatfriendswithsincerityandnofalsehood,treatthesisterwithcare,treattheservantwithcourtesygentleman.Hisfaceiscoldandindifferent,andhelooksarrogant.Infact,hecanalsoacceptthecriticismandimproveit.

WhenDarcyfirstproposedtoElizabeth,shewasrejected.Shefeltthathewasarrogantandunreasonable.Healsobluntlysaidmanyprejudiceagainsthim,eveniftheseprejudicesweremisunderstoodinlatercontacts.ButDarcyreflectedontheirargumentsandrealizedtheirlackofcharacterandservice,andworkedhardtoimprove.Elizabethalsoapparentlydiscoveredthesechangesinherlatercontacts.Sheslowlyeliminatedthemisunderstandingandprejudiceagainsthiminthefaceofrepeatedfacts,andslowlyfellinlovewithDarcy,breakingthroughthewealthandthedoor.Thebondageofideasendsupbeingmarriedandhappy.

Chapter3JaneAusten'sattitudestowardmarriage

3.1Theinfluenceofpersonalityonmarriage

Lidia'scharacterisfrankandfrivolous,andshedoesnotmovehermind.Therefore,whensheisfacedwithachoiceoflovemarriage,sheislikealittlesparrowwhocanonlybeawkward.Itseemstobebusybuthasnodirectionandpurpose,soshewillbeVicHamswindledtorunaway,butshedidn'tknowhowmuchtroubleshehadbroughttoherfamilyorevenshame.Shedidn'tevenknowwhereshewaswrong,sohermarriagewasdestinedtobetheworstandmostpainfulone.

Carlo-tiisveryclearthatherfamilyandherownplacearenotdominant.Inordertosurvivehermarriageisheronlywayout,shedoesnotdaretohopetopursuetoomuch,aslongaslifeisguaranteed.Therefore,shedidnotcareabouthergoodfriendElizabeth'sviewofherchoiceofthemostaffordable,futurelifeisguaranteedCollins,eveniftheyhavenofeelingsandnoresonance,butaslongasthereisahomeoftheirownsatisfaction,havetheirownhouseSheisveryhappytotakecareofher.Therefore,themainthinginhermarriageistotakecareofherownfamily.Itisnotimportanttohaveanycommunicationwithherhusband.Thisisthenecessarymarriagemode.

Janeissweetandgentle,andisthebestchoiceforamantochooseaspouse,butsheistoobravetomeetpeoplewhoarenotbraveenoughtoshowup,sothatshealmostmissedthefateofBingley,butfortunatelytheydidnotgiveup.FromthestoryofJane,theauthortellsusthatinthefaceofwhatyoulike,youmustbebraveandhardtopursue.Ifyouwaitforotherstoguessyourownmind,youwillmissmanyopportunities.Happinessneedstobegraspedbyyourself.

Elizabethisaveryopinionatedgirl.Sheisaverybravegirlwholovespeopleandlovesherthings.Sheisclearandclearinherfacewhenshechooses.Influence,couragetopursuetheirownhappiness,sohermarriageisdestinedtobesuitableforherown,butalsohappy.

3.2Thebasisofahappymarriage

Reasonandemotionarethefoundationofmaritalhappiness.ThemarriagebetweenElizabethandDarcyisthehappiestandmostsuccessfulpairinPrideandPrejudice.Theircombinationprovesthenecessityofreasonandemotionforthehappinessofmarriage.AlthoughthemateselectioncriteriaoftheBritishupperclassinthe16thand18thcenturiesemphasizedtherighttothedoor,itdoesnotdenythatloveandaffectionareprerequisitesformaritalhappiness.

Loveisunconditional.Onlytwopeoplewhohavealoveheartknowthefeelingintheheart,soitisoftensaidthatloveisromanticandsweet,andpeopleareintoxicated.Marriageandlovearedifferent.Marriagemustbesupportedbymaterial.Marriageisveryspecificandtrivial,anditisalsoveryrealistic,becauseitisaboutthreemealsaday,food,clothing,housing,andtheparentsandfamilyofbothsides.Therefore,marriageismuchmoreimportantthanlove.Itisunrealistictohavearelationshipwithouthavingtoeatordrinkwithoutdrinking.Ahappymarriageisboundtobeacombinationofloveandreason.Withoutanemotionalfoundation,itiswrongtomarryforproperty,moneyandstatus.Thenewmarriageviewpointthattheauthorwantstoexpressisthattheidealmarriagemodelshouldbemenandwomen.Thereisacombinationoffeelingsandreason,andthereismaterialasthebasis.Thiskindofmaritalviewisclosertothecurrentsociallife.Thisisthereasonwhythisnovelhasbeendeeplyenthusiasmandlong-lastingsinceitsinception.Austin'sadvancedideologicalrealmhasbeenconvincedbypeople.

Thearticleistheexpressionoftheauthor'smind.JaneAustengivesusaveryimportantrevelationthroughPrideandPrejudice:Reason.Fromherwork,wecaneasilycometoaconclusion-----intellectisthegoodcharacterofman.Truehappinesscanonlybeobtainedthroughreason;andreasonistheresultofacomprehensiveunderstandingoftheindividual.TheauthorshowsthereadersthefailureoftheirmarriagebydepictingthelifeofLydiaandWick-ham,Carlo-tiandCollinsmarriedlife,instarkcontrasttoElizabeth'sreason.Thisnovelnotonlyproposesanewconceptofmarriage,butalsoanalyzesthecomplexityofhumannaturethroughtheshapingofcharacter.Inthenovel,variouscharactersareconfusedbytheoutsideworld,pretendingtobethemselves,foolingothers,deceivingthemselves,andonlyfacingthetrueself,knowingwhatisreallywhattheywant,andtryinghardtopursuelong-termhappiness.

TheprotagonistElizabeth,ontheappearanceandcharacter,sheisnotasgoodashersister,sheisnotasgoodasMissBingerly,butsheisthefather'smostlovedandprouddaughter,andthearrogantDarcycan'thelpher.BecauseElizabethisawomanwhopursuesspiritualindependence,thisisrareintheerawhenthemaleruledalmostallofthem.Itiscommendabletohavesuchaquality.Shedoesnotusebeautifulappearancetoimpressothers,butusesherspiritualcharm