大学英语口语loveandmarriage省公开课金奖全国赛课一等奖微课获奖课件

LoveandMarriage1/34【HappyAprilFools'Day】April1isnotanationalholiday,butiswidelyrecognizedandcelebratedasadaywhenpeopleplaypracticaljokesandhoaxesoneachother.2/34What’slove?"Lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou'resorry."----LoveStory3/34WhatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourBForGF?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors…4/34Thesweetestthingsyoucandoforagirlarethelittlethingsthatletherknowshe'sinyourheart&onyourmind.你能为一个女孩儿做最甜蜜事，就是从细枝末节中让她知道，你一直想着她，念着她。5/34Wesometimesignorethosewhoadoreus,adorethosewhoignoreus,lovethosewhohurtus,andhurtthosewholoveus.我们有时无视喜爱自己人，却喜爱无视我们人；爱上伤害我们人，却去伤害爱着我们人。6/34Theonewhotrulyloveswilldefinitelyneverleaveyou.Thoughhehasthousandsofreasonstogiveyouup,hewouldalwaysfindonetohangon.真正爱你人绝不会离开你。他纵有千百个理由放弃，却也总会找一个理由坚持下去。7/34We’dfadeintosomeoneatleastonetimeinlife，notforanyresult,company,ownershipevenlove，justformeetingyouinmymostbeautifuldays.-----一生最少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美年华里，碰到你。8/34我捧你时候，你是玻璃杯子。我松手时候，你是玻璃渣子。WhenIloveyou,youareadelicateglassheldinmyhands.

WhenIleaveyou,youarebrokenglassscatteredontheground.9/34【各种love】deep~深深爱;chaste~贞洁爱;devoted~专一爱;loyal~忠诚爱;tender~温柔爱;sincere~真挚爱;fervent~热烈爱;burning~炽热爱;intense~强烈爱;wild~狂热爱;~atfirstsight一见钟情;~story爱情故事;~triangle三角恋爱;~affair风流韵事。10/34【各种恋】初恋PuppyLove/FirstLove，单恋/暗恋unrequitedlove，暗恋haveacrushon,网恋Internetlove,热恋honeymoonphase,苦恋bitterlove,师生恋teacher-studentlove,同性恋homosexuality['hɒməʊ,seksjʊ'ælətɪ],三角恋lovetriangle,夕阳恋sunsetlove,双性恋bisexuality[baɪsekʃu'æləti],姐弟恋toyboylove11/34【搭讪佳句】1.YoulooklikesomeoneIknow.Haven'twemetbefore?你跟我一个朋友长得好象。我们之前见过吧?2.That‘sagreathaircut.你发型很不错。3.Areyouherealone?一个人吗?4.Ilostmynumber,canIhaveyours?我把我电话号码弄丢了，你能够把你告诉我吗?12/34【“名花/草有主了”怎么表示】比较常见表示有bespokenfor或betaken，指已经有些人拥有全部权已被预订。She'salreadytaken.她已经有男朋友了。或者说offthemarket例：Yo,dude.You'dbetterquitchasingafterher.She'soffthemarket.老兄，你最好别追她了，她已经名花有主了。13/34【怎样用语英语表示你现在感情状态】1.single单身；2.inarelationship恋爱中；3.engaged已订婚；4.married已婚；5.inanopenrelationship开放式关系；6.widowed['widəud]丧偶；7.separated['sɛpəretɪd]分居状态；8.divorced[dɪ'vɔrst]已离异；9.domestic[də'mɛstɪk]partnership未婚同居关系；10.CivilUnion同性婚姻

14/34【分手理由】1.I‘vemetsomeoneelse./There‘ssomeoneelse.我另结新欢了。2.You’rereallytoogoodforme./Idon‘tdeserveyou.我配不上你。3.Ijustdon‘tloveyouanymore.我不爱你了。4.Ireallydon’twannabetieddown.我不想被束缚。5.Themagic'sgonefromourrelationship.我们之间爱情魔力已经不见了。15/34It‘sover.我们缘分已尽。We‘renotmeantforeachother.我们命中注定不适合。Ineedsometimealone.我需要一个人过一阵子。We'rebetteroffasfriends.我们做朋友比很好16/34【wedding】求婚:proposal媒人:matchmaker订婚:engagement未婚夫:fiance[fi'ɑːnse]未婚妻:fiancee[,fiən'se]婚宴:weddingfeast婚纱:weddinggown新郎:groom新娘:bride男傧相:bestman女傧相:bridesmaid证婚人:witnessofwedding婚誓:weddingvows花童:flowergirl嫁妆:dowry['daʊri]蜜月:honeymoon17/34Marriage再婚:remarry重婚:bigamy['bɪɡəmi]试婚:trialmarriage包办婚姻:arrangedmarriage近亲结婚:intermarriage老少配:MayandDecembermarriage如意郎君:Mr.Right闪婚:flashmarriage一夫一妻:monogamy[mə'nɑɡəmi]

离婚:divorce18/34Haveyoueverattendedawedding?Howdoyouthinkaboutit?Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bride新娘bridegroom(groom)新郎groomsman(bestman)伴郎bridesmaid伴娘weddingceremony结婚仪式weddinginvitation婚礼请柬churchwedding教堂婚礼

traditionalChinesewedding传统中式婚礼outdoorwedding户外婚礼weddingreception婚宴weddingdress婚纱、结婚礼服Weddingmarch婚礼进行曲honeymoon蜜月19/34【“我不嫁给你”各种恶搞说法】高中水平:Iwillnevermarryyou.高考:NeverwillImarryyou.四级:YouarethelastmanIamwillingtomarry.六级:UndernocircumstanceswillImarryyou.GRE:Ifyouwerethelastmanintheworld,Iwoulddefinitelyremainsingle.20/34I______,takeyou______,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessorinhealth,toloveandtocherish,‘tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.Weddingvows21/34WeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.22/34ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120,000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip…)

What’youropiniononthehugecostofawedding?23/34FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?24/34Differentunderstandingofloveandmarriage

betweenChineseandWesterners…

West

ChinaAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackgroundsocialrelations“Marryyourmatch”Love＞Marriage

↓HighdivorcerateMarriage＞LoveMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesDescriptionofadate:Pretty,cute,smart,humorous…

Descriptionofadate:Height,Occupation,Educationbackground,Family…LoveatfirstsighttransientTimebreedslove.

LastlongIndependencyineconomyandthought

Alliscommon./ShareeverythingTotalequalityHousehusbandMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehome

25/34MarryYou---BrunoMars26/34Ifyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussion27/34Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveTheclaim(theProposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoregoodthanharm.Referencearguments:toenrichthelifeexperience;topromotethegrowthofyourmind;tosupporteachother;pureenvironment/withoutinterference;plentyoftimeformutualunderstanding;easiertofindtruelove;firmemotionalfoundationhappyrecollections;...28/34Debating:

CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.

Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)…

29/34Someusefulexpressionforadebateinmyopinion…我意见是……I’dliketopointoutthat我想指出是……PersonallyIthink……我个人认为……thepointisthat……关键是……,关键点是.....Ibelievethat……我相信……inmyexperience…依据我经验……butwhatabout…？但关于……方面呢？30/34whatImeantosaywas…我意思是说……I’mafraididisagree.恐怕我是持反对意见。Idon’tthinkso.我不那样认为。onthecontrary.相反。allright，butdon’tyouthink…？好吧，但莫非你不以为……that’sagoodpoint.这个看法不错。that’snot（entirely）true.那不（完全）正确。well…whatdoyouthink（about…）？…你以为怎么样？letmerephrasewhatIsaid.让我重申刚才所说31/34Storyreproduction

Afarmerwholivedinasmallvillagesufferedfromaseverepaininthechest.Thisneverseemedtogetanybetter.Thefarmereventuallydecidedthathewouldconsultadoctorinthenearesttown.Butashewasamiserlypersonhethoughthewouldfindoutwhathewouldhavetopaythisdoctor.Hewastoldthatapatienthadtopaythreepoundsforthefirs