寂寞之上没有更上的寂寞

寂寞之上没有更上的寂寞TheHeartofLonelinessisLonelinessoftheHeart---Asasociety,peopleoftenhavesuchfeelings---虹吸出体外，抽缩得越来越小。从此便找不到自尊的影子。Sittinginabaramidthehustleandbustleofdowntownluxury,youwillsuddenlyfeelcoldlonelinessandfindthatitissomeoneelse'satmosphere.Iamasifamuddyradishandpickledinajarofsaltwaterthatotherpeopleprepareit.Theonlyjuiceofmybodyhasbeenalsosiphonedout,shrunksmallerandsmaller.SincethenIcannotfindtheshadowofself-esteem.ft---泰ft固然伟大，但我个体弱的小老头，横竖拿它没办法，便望而却步，便心存忧郁。Cuddlinginthesoftsofa,Iwatchthedazzlingscreen.Thescreenislikeamagicmirrorwhichshowswhatthereisandwhathappensintheworld,whatisrightandwhatiswrong,whatisincrediblyrichandwhatisvividfashion.But,gradually,yourpatiencehadbeeneatenawaybytheboredomandloneliness.Nomatterhowkeepchangingchannels,thedejectedmoodalwayshidedinyourhearts.WhatIhaveseenisalwayssomeoneelse'slandscape.It'ssooverwhelminggorgeousthatIdon'tknowwhattodo.WangZeng-qihadexpressedhissimilarfeelingsintheTarzanandston--Taishanisofcoursegreat,butIamasmallweakoldman,unabletoclimbthetopofthemountain,insteadgiveitup,andhencesinkintomelancholyThisisalsolikeyouseekingshelterintheheavyrain:thebuildingwithalargewideeaveinthefardistancepresentsyoujustagloomypicture,butwhatyoustronglyneedrightnowinisonlyasmallumbrella.Thisshowsthatindividualliveswhyoftenfeelloneliness,sadnessandhelpless.Itisbecausetheexcitingandsuperficialworldhasgreatlyincitedpeople'sdesire,andrenderedthemunabletoremainwhattheyare.Butthisworldisfullofalluringstuffeverywhere,butnothingisintheirpossessions.Thus,Itisaverynaturalthingtohaveakindoffeelingofdesolationinthedisentrancement.Asforthepeopledrivenbystrongdesirewhocanstillbecontentwiththelittlethingstheyhave.Infrustration,asortofhumblenessaccompanieseverywhere.但有些人，却不被这种卑微所折磨，比如文人---Butsomepeoplearenottorturedbythishumbleness,suchaswriters---Forthem,theseeminglyfluffysunlighthaswarmedupthebodyeveninthedarkestroom.Thebooksarelyingquietlyontheshelves,andjustglanceatitfromafarwillgiveyouthepleasureandquietnessasifwanderingaroundbetweenthelines.Whatisimportantisnotthesunwithgoldtexture,northebooksembodythenatureoftime,butrathermoreistheirsimpleneeds.Asimpledesireoflifewillnotdistracttheirmindandcovetothers.Theyaresatisfiedintheirspiritualworld,lonelinessbuthappy.弱的汪曾祺在面对巍峨的泰ft处世做人，要量力而行，不强求自己能力之外的物事。Thissituationgivesausefulinsight:howeveralluringandprofusethetemptationintherealworld,thesocalleddesolate,confusionandthesenseoflosswillceasetobotherusifweignorethemandliveourownlife.ThefrailelderlymanWangZengqihadnotfeltself-pityinthefaceofMountTaibutrathershowanindifferentsmile,andtookhisfriendLinJinlandrinkingricewineatthefootofMountTai.Watchingtheyoungpeopletrudginglongonthetrail,heevenfeelsproudly:Yes.Icannotenjoyclimbingthetopofthemountainastheyoungpeople,sowhat?Icanenjoythepleasureofdrinking.Whenhesummedupslang,namely:inlifewecannotstraintoomuchlikeachicktryingtogulpdownthesoybeans.Thatis,onemustknowwhathislimitandactaccordinglywithoutstraininganddoingsomethingbeyondhim..这是一种生活智慧。Thisisawisdomoflife.安于自己的人生理想，安于自己的生活趣味，还有什么不可释怀的苦恼？---不拥有森林，未必就不能闻松香。Whatkindsofdistresscannotrelieveifwesticktoouridealandcontentwithwhatweenjoyinlife.OnreflectionIthinkhehadhiswisdomintwosources:First,hisownlifeexperienceandrationalthinkingbasedonhisexperience.Helikedtoponderoverhislifebyreadinghisbook.Second,theperceptionhedevelopedfromthemyriadofbookhehadread.Hewasamongthosewhocouldsettletobook,andtheculturalmessagesfromtheremotepasthadbeenassimilatedintotheveryfiberofhisbeing.Asthesayinggoes:youdonthavetobeintheforesttoenjoythefragranceofpine.知堂在《自己的园地》旧序》中说“我因为寂寞，在文学上寻求慰 得到了相当的效果了。反正寂寞之上没有更上的寂寞”依照这样的逻辑，悲苦之上没有更上的悲苦，失意上没有更上的失意 人只要定低了生活标杆，缩减了对身外的欲求，细小的所有，就是大有；些微之所得，便会得到大的满足。ZhitangsaidintheTheOldprefacetoMyOwnGarden:"Iamseekingcomfortinliteratureoutofloneliness, andachieveconsiderableeffects.Anyway,theheartoflonelinessisthelonelinessofheart.Inaccordancewiththislogic,thereisnomoremiserybeyondmisery,andnomoredejectionbeyonddejection Aslongassetalowbenchmarkoflife,curbthedesireofmaterialpursuing,meagerpossessionswillbecomegreatwealth,andlittlegainswillgetgreatsatisfaction.基本生存条件的情形下，居然快乐地生活了两年，写出了一部精神盛典《瓦尔登湖拆人们：人，完全可以生活在自己的精神世界里！MartinHeideggeralsosaid:Thosewhopoeticallydwellintheworldalsosavorarealpleasurebyquietlylisteningtothesoundofthewind.HiswordswereverifiedbyThoreau,anAmerican,whohavelivealonehappilyinaplacecalledWaldenPondfortwoyears,andcomposeaspiritclassicWaldenonthesituationofhavingbasiclivingconditions,whichwarnedpeople:peoplecanlivesolelyintheirownspiritualworld!在世界上，还有一群在生命本质上与文人一样的人 那就是清贫而幸福的农人。为什么茅屋里有不断的歌声？质朴的脸上常堆着麦子一样的灿烂的笑容？盖因为他们只索求自己真正需要的，没有过剩的欲望。他们与文人不同的是：他们虽然“琢磨”出了生活的本质，却连一句多余的话都懒得说了。Intheworld,thereisanothergroupofpeoplewhoarebasicallythesameaswriter thatispoorandhappyfar