Unit+1+Knowing+me,+knowing+you+重点单词检测 高中英语外研版（2019）必修第三册

必修三U1重点单词——Knowingyou,knowingme人与社会一.重难点词回顾课文1知心阿姨badperformanceinasubjectconflictwithclassmatestotalmessmembermadcourtdisappointedbehaviourletoffsteamtotallyawkwardembarrassedashamedconcentrateonsomethinglooselipssinkshipssituationtreattrustadmitunderstandableresolveconflictshaveachatstrategyrepeatapproachrepairfriendshiptendtosignalpullone’sweighttipforgivesomeonecriticisesomeonejudgepeoplecomplainaboutpeoplelookonthebrightside课文2善意的谎言interpersonalrelationshiptipsforahealthyrelationshipforgivesomeonecriticisesomeonecauseembarrassmentcomplainaboutpeoplecomfortprotectothersfromtruththemajorityofussowhatextentjustifyimprovethesituationencourageencouragementfrankcommenthideinadvanceemotionalquotientintelligencequotient二．词汇汉译第一篇：Absoluteagony!OurAgonyAuntanswersyourquestions.DearAgonyAunt,I’minatotalmesshere—hopeyoucanhelpmeout!I’m17,andamemberofourschoolbasketballteam.I’mcrazyaboutbasketball,andprettygoodatittoo,whichisprobablywhyIwassomadwhenwelostourlastmatch.Weplayedwell,butIfelttheteamwereletdownbyonemember,ourpointguard.Thepointguardisakeyplayer,butitwaslikehewasn’tevenonthecourt!Disappointedbyhisbehaviour,Isaidallthistomybestfriend.Iwasjustlettingoffsteamreally,becauseIwassoangry,butthenmyfriendwentandtoldeveryoneelsewhatI’dsaid.Thisissototallyawkward.I’mreallyangrywithmyfriend—whatshouldIsaytohim?AndshouldIsayanythingatalltomyteammate?Embarrassedandashamed，Ican’tconcentrateonanything.Pleasehelp!BenDearBen,

ThereisanoldAmericansaying,“Looselipssinkships.”Thismeansthatifyouspeaktoomuchaboutsomething,especiallytopeoplewhoyoudon’tknowsowell,it’llcauseallkindsoftrouble.Thesituationhereissomuchworsebecausethe“looselips”wereyourbestfriend’s.Treatedthisway,you’resuretofeelhurt—weshouldalwaysbeabletotrustthoseclosesttous,andithurtsevenmorewhenwefindwecan’t.ButIhavetosaythatit’spartlyyourfault,isn’tit?Youadmitthatyouwere“lettingoffsteam”.Itisunderstandableinthatsituation,butweshouldalwaysthinkbeforewespeak.Here’swhatyouneedtodo.First,apologisetoyourteammate.Ifyoueverwanttowinanymorebasketballgames(andI’msureyoudo!),youneedtoworktogether,andthatmeanscommunicatingwitheachotherclearlyandresolvingconflicts.Sohaveachatwithyourteammate.Tellhimdirectlyandhonestlythatyouweretalkingwithoutthinking.Then,talktoyourfriend.Friendshipshouldbeoneofthegreatestthingsintheworld,butsometimesitcanbedifficult.Again,yourstrategyisclearcommunication.Tellyourfriendyou’reangrywithhimforrepeatingwhatyousaidandmakingthesituationworse,butthatyouwanttomoveon.Approachedinthisway,yourfriendshipwillsoonberepaired.Thirdly,andperhapsmostimportantly,thinkaboutyourownbehaviour.Don’tsaytoomuchwhenyou’reangry!Filledwithanger,youtendtosaywhatevercomestoyourmind.Thisgivespeoplethewrongsignal.Takeadeepbreath,calmdown,andalwaysremember:thinkfirst,speaklater.Ifyoufeeloneofyourteammatesisn’tpullingtheirweight,thenraiseyourconcernsinaprofessionalwaywithyourteamcoach.Ifyouthinkaboutotherpeople’sfeelingsaswellasyourown,you'llsoonfindeverythingworksout.Goodluck!AgonyAunt第二篇：LittleWhiteLiesWrittenmorethantwohundredyearsago,theselinesbyWalterScottremainoneofthemostwell-knownexcerptsofScottishpoetry:Oh,whatatangledwebweweave,Whenfirstwepractisetodeceive!Weallknowthathonestyisanimportantvalueandthatlyingiswrong,butwhocanhonestlysaythatthey’venevertoldalie?Perhapswecomfortourselveswiththeknowledgethatmostofthelieswetellare“whitelies”:littleliesthatwetelltoprotectothersfromthetruth.We’veallsurelyhadtheexperienceofsomeonecookingamealforusthatwedon’tlike.Themajorityofusdon’ttellthetruth—welieandsaythatthefoodis“delicious”.Orifafriendasksuswhatwethinkoftheirnewhaircut,wesay“It’sgreat!”,evenifwethinkit’sawful.Buttowhatextentcanwejustifytellingwhitelieslikethese?Oneofthemainreasonsfortellingawhitelieistotrytomakeothersfeelbetter.However,whenwelieandsaythatsomeone’shaircutlooksgood,orwhenwesaythatweloveamealthatwesecretlyhate,arewereallyhopingtoimprovethesituationforsomeoneelse?Perhapsweareinfactlyingtoprotectourselvesfromthedisappointmentandangerofothers.Anotherreasonfortellingawhitelieistogiveencouragement.Sayforexamplethatyourfriendasksyouwhatyouthinkofhissinging.Youofcoursesaythatit’swonderful,despitesecretlythinkingthatyourcatcansingbetter.Stopforamomentandconsiderthatperhapsyourfriendwantssomefrankcommentsfromyousothattheycanimprove.Orperhaps,theyneedtoknowthattheyshouldlookforadifferenthobby.Finally,wemayalsotellawhiteliewhenwewanttoprotectothersfrombadnews.Ifyou’vehadabadday,doyoutellyourparentsaboutit,ordoyouhideyourtearsandliethatyourdaywas“fine”?Ifthelatter,don’tyouthinkyourparentswouldwanttolistentoyouandunderstandyourfeelings?Wouldn’titbebettertorespecttheirconcernforyouandaskfortheiradvice?GoingbacktoWalterScott’slines,wemayfindevenwhitelieshaveresultswecannotknowinadvance.Perhapsthemealyousaidwas“delicious”willbeservedeverytimeyouvisit.Wouldyourfriendtrustyouropinionagainifhefoundoutyouhadliedabouthis“wonderful”singing?Howwouldyouexpectotherstotrulyunderstandyouremotionsifyouonlysharedgoodnewsinsteadofbad?Moreover,howwouldyoufeelifyoudiscoveredthatthepeopleclosesttoyouhadbeenhidingthetruthfromyou?短语及重点句型英译短语学科上表现不好和同学有矛盾融入其他同学的困难一团糟我很生气对他的所做作为失望发泄怒火这太蠢了祸从口出解决冲突改善这种情况做好分内的事情商智商保护别人不去知