love-and-marriage口语教学讲解课件

LoveandMarriageLoveandMarriage1爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。——张小娴“Menalwayswanttobeawoman’sfirstlove---womenliketobeaman’slastromance.”

——OscarWilde

爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。2

Whatisthelove?

Differentpeopleindifferenttimeshavedifferentdefinitionstolove.Nowadays,peopledefineditas:basedoncertainmaterialconditionsandthecommonidealoflife,twopeopleintheirheartformthemostsincereadmirationforeachother,andeagertobecomehis\herlifelongpartner.Itisthestrongest,moststableandspecificfeelings.

Whatisthelove?

Differe3I.Theessenceoflove“L”－Loyal（忠诚）Beloyaltoyourlover,whichisessentialforthetruelove.Withoutloyalty，lovewouldnotexist.“O”－Observant（用心）Itisthebridgeoflove,whichcanleadonetothedepthsofthesoulofanother.

Tounderstandlovebyyourheart,itcanmakelovemoresolid.忠于你的另一半，这是真正的爱情必不可少的，没有忠诚也不会有爱情.用心是爱情的桥梁，通过它能到达彼此心灵的深处。用心去理解爱情，才会让爱情更加的牢固.I.Theessenceoflove忠于你的另一半，这4“V”－Valued（尊重）Whenyouhavedisputeinsomething,youcannotimposeyourownwillonhim＼her.Youshouldrespecthis＼heropinionorchoice.“E”－Excuse（宽容）Thereisnoperfectmaninthisworld，andnoonewillnevermakemistakes,forgivinghis\hershortcomingsandmistakes,whichcanmakelovemorelonger.

当你们有分歧时,你不能把自己的意志强加于他＼她,而应尊重他＼她的观点,尊重他＼她的选择.世界上没有完美的人，也没有人永远不会犯错，原谅他她的缺点和错误，可以让爱情更持久.“V”－Valued（尊重）当你们有分歧时,你不能把自己5８０２３Ｌｏｖｅｉｎｎｕｍｂｅｒ８０２３6What’syourchoice:theoneyouloveortheonelovesyou?What’syourchoice:theoneyo7Iknowitisdifficulttochoose.Everyonehashisownideaaboutthechoice.ButIhopeeveryonecanfindamanheorsheloves,andthemanalsoloveshimorher.Iknowitisdifficulttochoo8Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.Debating:Collegestudentsfal9Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertrainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)Arguments:Financialburden;10Someusefulexpressionsinmyopinion...我的意见是....I'dliketopointoutthat我想指出的是....Personallythink......我个人认为......thepointisthat....关键是....,要点是.....inmyexperience....根据我的经验....butwhatabout....?但关于.....方面呢?whatmeantosaywas......我的意思是说....that'sagoodpoint.这个看法不错I'mafraidIdisagree.恐怕我是持反对意见的onthecontrary.相反的letmerephrasewhatIsaid.让我重申刚才所说的Someusefulexpressionsinmyo11FriendOftentravelsfrom

likehiddenlovestruggletimelong

Vindicatefailuregiveup

Successinsistfailureend

Datingnotharmonious

HarmoniousbeboringpredisposedtowardFeelinggoodmarriedThechartoflovedevelopmentFriendOftentravelsfro12love_and_marriage口语教学讲解课件13II.

TheessenceofmarriageLoveeachother(相爱)Thisisthemostimportantinamarriage.Anditshouldincludeloyalty、responsibilityandunderstanding.Livetogether(共同生活）Thisisthepurposeofmarriage.Itincludesthecombinationofthespirit,thebodyandthehousehold.Havebaby（延续自己的生命）Havingchildrenisanaturaldevelopmentofmarriage,andtorejectitmayleadtocrackstomarriage.II.TheessenceofmarriageLo14Threequestionsaboutmarriage:QQ1Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?QQWhatdoyouthinkmarriagestandfor?What'syourviewaboutmarriage?Threequestionsaboutmarriage15Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?

Youngpeopletendtothinkthatreallifeasdramatic（激动人心）andfascinating（迷人的）asitisinthenovelsandmovies,whilemoreexperiencedadultsdisregardthisopinion.Adultsthinkthiskindofnaive（天真的）daydreamwillonlybedestroyedbylaterexperiencesandeveryoneshouldlearntogetusedtotedious（适应）everydaylife.Whatdoyouthinktheromantic16What'syourviewaboutmarriage?

Manycouplesliveahappylifebecausetheirmarriageisbasedontruelove.Onthecontrary,somepeoplemarryformoneyonly,andtheirmarriageisdestinedtobeafailure.Marriagebasedontruelovelastsandcannotbeeasilysplitupwhereasmarriagewithoutlovedoesnotendure(持续）andmayendindivorce.What'syourviewaboutmarriag17Whatdoyouthinkmarriagestandfor?1.Marriagestandsforsomeresponsibilities.Ifyougetmarriedwithsomebody,youshouldbehonesttohimorher,andnotdoanythingthatisnotfaithfultoyourlove.Whatdoyouthinkmarriagesta182.Loveismarriage’smother,buttherearealwayssomepoororphans（单亲）.Peoplemarryfordifferentreasonsandnotonlyforlove.Maybetheymarryformoney,forpromotion,forrepayment,forparents’orsomeothers’orders,andevenjustforsex.2.Loveismarriage’smother,19TherelationshipbetweenloveandmarriageSomethinkmarriageisthetomboflove.Theothersthinkloveisapreludetomarriage,marriageistheultimategoalofloveIthinkloveisthefinalgoalthatmarriage,ifyourloveisnottomarry,it'snotrepresentthatyourlovefinallyresultswell,Ithinkmostofpeoplearemarriedwiththeintentionofit,soIthinkthatloveistheprocess,ofcourse,thepurposeofmarriageisanothernewstartingpoint.Therelationshipbetweenlove20Howdoyouthinkaboutit?

Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bridebridegroom(groom)groomsman(bestman)bridesmaidweddingceremonyweddinginvitationchurchweddingtraditionalChineseweddingweddingreceptionweedingdressweddingmarchhoneymoonHowdoyouthinkaboutit?

Can21WeddingVowsI

,takeyou

,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessoronhealth,toloveandtocherish,tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.WeddingVowsI,takeyou22WeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.WeddingtraditionsInsomewes23What'syouropiniononthehugecostofawedding?ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip....)What'syouropiniononthehu24FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?FreeDiscussionHowwillyoupl25BetweenChinese

andWesterners...WestChinaDescriptionofadate;Descriptionofadate;Pretty,cute,smart,humorous...Height,Occupation;Educationbackground,Family....LoveatfirstsightTimebreedslovetransientLastlongAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackground,socialrelations"Marryyourmatch"LoveMarriagearrangedmarriageHighdivorcerateMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesIndependenceineconomyandAlliscommon.ShareeverythingthoughtTotalequalityMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehomeHousehusbandBetweenChinese

andWesterner26Whatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourwifeorhusband?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors...Whatareyourmajorconsiderat27FreeDiscussionIfyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussionIfyourparents28Whywillpeoplechoose“blinddate”?Willitreplace“freelove”eventually?Whyorwhynot?Doyouthinkloveneedstesting?Giveyourreasons?Isromanticlovethemostimportantconditionforalongandhappymarriage?Ifnot,whatelse?Whywillpeoplechoose“blindd29marriagelovemarriagelove30Absencetoloveiswhatwindistofire.Itextinguishesthesmall;itinflamesthegreat.(RogerdeBussy-Rabutin,Frenchwriter)

离别之于爱情好比风之于火，它能将小火熄灭，使大火熊熊燃烧。(法国作家比西-拉比旦.R.)

Absencetoloveiswhatwindi31Everymanisapoetwhenheisinlove.(PlatoancientCreekphilosopher)每个恋爱中的人都是诗人。(古希腊哲学家柏拉图)

Everymanisapoetwhenheis32Firstloveisonlyalittlefoolishnessandalotofcuriosity.(GeorgeBernardShaw)

初恋就是一点点笨拙外加许许多多好奇。(英国剧作家肖伯纳.G）

Firstloveisonlyalittlefo33Byallmeansmarry,ifyougetagoodwife,you'llbehappy,ifyougetabadone,you'llbecomeaphilosopher.(Socrates)

不管怎么说还是结婚吧，娶到好老婆，你会幸福；娶到坏女人，你将会成为哲学家。

已婚已婚Byallmeansmarry,ifyouget34Aftermarriage,husbandandwifebecometwosidesofacoin;theyjustcan'tfaceeachother,butstilltheystaytogether.(HemantJoshi)

结婚之后，老公和老婆就成为一枚硬币的两面；他们就是没法面对自己的另一半，却仍然待在一起。

已婚已婚Aftermarriage,husbandandwi35Menmarrybecausetheyaretired,womenbecausetheyarecurious;botharedisappointed.(OscarWilde)

男人结婚，因为他们已经疲倦了；女人结婚，因为她们感到好奇了，结果两人都大失所望。

已婚已婚Menmarrybecausetheyaretir36Whatisthemarriage?Theformalandpubliccommitmentoftwopeopletospendtherestoftheirlivestogether.Whatisthemarriage?Theforma37

Allshallbewell,andJackshallhaveJill.Allshallbewell,38LoveandMarriageLoveandMarriage39爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。——张小娴“Menalwayswanttobeawoman’sfirstlove---womenliketobeaman’slastromance.”

——OscarWilde

爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。40

Whatisthelove?

Differentpeopleindifferenttimeshavedifferentdefinitionstolove.Nowadays,peopledefineditas:basedoncertainmaterialconditionsandthecommonidealoflife,twopeopleintheirheartformthemostsincereadmirationforeachother,andeagertobecomehis\herlifelongpartner.Itisthestrongest,moststableandspecificfeelings.

Whatisthelove?

Differe41I.Theessenceoflove“L”－Loyal（忠诚）Beloyaltoyourlover,whichisessentialforthetruelove.Withoutloyalty，lovewouldnotexist.“O”－Observant（用心）Itisthebridgeoflove,whichcanleadonetothedepthsofthesoulofanother.

Tounderstandlovebyyourheart,itcanmakelovemoresolid.忠于你的另一半，这是真正的爱情必不可少的，没有忠诚也不会有爱情.用心是爱情的桥梁，通过它能到达彼此心灵的深处。用心去理解爱情，才会让爱情更加的牢固.I.Theessenceoflove忠于你的另一半，这42“V”－Valued（尊重）Whenyouhavedisputeinsomething,youcannotimposeyourownwillonhim＼her.Youshouldrespecthis＼heropinionorchoice.“E”－Excuse（宽容）Thereisnoperfectmaninthisworld，andnoonewillnevermakemistakes,forgivinghis\hershortcomingsandmistakes,whichcanmakelovemorelonger.

当你们有分歧时,你不能把自己的意志强加于他＼她,而应尊重他＼她的观点,尊重他＼她的选择.世界上没有完美的人，也没有人永远不会犯错，原谅他她的缺点和错误，可以让爱情更持久.“V”－Valued（尊重）当你们有分歧时,你不能把自己43８０２３Ｌｏｖｅｉｎｎｕｍｂｅｒ８０２３44What’syourchoice:theoneyouloveortheonelovesyou?What’syourchoice:theoneyo45Iknowitisdifficulttochoose.Everyonehashisownideaaboutthechoice.ButIhopeeveryonecanfindamanheorsheloves,andthemanalsoloveshimorher.Iknowitisdifficulttochoo46Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.Debating:Collegestudentsfal47Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertrainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)Arguments:Financialburden;48Someusefulexpressionsinmyopinion...我的意见是....I'dliketopointoutthat我想指出的是....Personallythink......我个人认为......thepointisthat....关键是....,要点是.....inmyexperience....根据我的经验....butwhatabout....?但关于.....方面呢?whatmeantosaywas......我的意思是说....that'sagoodpoint.这个看法不错I'mafraidIdisagree.恐怕我是持反对意见的onthecontrary.相反的letmerephrasewhatIsaid.让我重申刚才所说的Someusefulexpressionsinmyo49FriendOftentravelsfrom

likehiddenlovestruggletimelong

Vindicatefailuregiveup

Successinsistfailureend

Datingnotharmonious

HarmoniousbeboringpredisposedtowardFeelinggoodmarriedThechartoflovedevelopmentFriendOftentravelsfro50love_and_marriage口语教学讲解课件51II.

TheessenceofmarriageLoveeachother(相爱)Thisisthemostimportantinamarriage.Anditshouldincludeloyalty、responsibilityandunderstanding.Livetogether(共同生活）Thisisthepurposeofmarriage.Itincludesthecombinationofthespirit,thebodyandthehousehold.Havebaby（延续自己的生命）Havingchildrenisanaturaldevelopmentofmarriage,andtorejectitmayleadtocrackstomarriage.II.TheessenceofmarriageLo52Threequestionsaboutmarriage:QQ1Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?QQWhatdoyouthinkmarriagestandfor?What'syourviewaboutmarriage?Threequestionsaboutmarriage53Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?

Youngpeopletendtothinkthatreallifeasdramatic（激动人心）andfascinating（迷人的）asitisinthenovelsandmovies,whilemoreexperiencedadultsdisregardthisopinion.Adultsthinkthiskindofnaive（天真的）daydreamwillonlybedestroyedbylaterexperiencesandeveryoneshouldlearntogetusedtotedious（适应）everydaylife.Whatdoyouthinktheromantic54What'syourviewaboutmarriage?

Manycouplesliveahappylifebecausetheirmarriageisbasedontruelove.Onthecontrary,somepeoplemarryformoneyonly,andtheirmarriageisdestinedtobeafailure.Marriagebasedontruelovelastsandcannotbeeasilysplitupwhereasmarriagewithoutlovedoesnotendure(持续）andmayendindivorce.What'syourviewaboutmarriag55Whatdoyouthinkmarriagestandfor?1.Marriagestandsforsomeresponsibilities.Ifyougetmarriedwithsomebody,youshouldbehonesttohimorher,andnotdoanythingthatisnotfaithfultoyourlove.Whatdoyouthinkmarriagesta562.Loveismarriage’smother,buttherearealwayssomepoororphans（单亲）.Peoplemarryfordifferentreasonsandnotonlyforlove.Maybetheymarryformoney,forpromotion,forrepayment,forparents’orsomeothers’orders,andevenjustforsex.2.Loveismarriage’smother,57TherelationshipbetweenloveandmarriageSomethinkmarriageisthetomboflove.Theothersthinkloveisapreludetomarriage,marriageistheultimategoalofloveIthinkloveisthefinalgoalthatmarriage,ifyourloveisnottomarry,it'snotrepresentthatyourlovefinallyresultswell,Ithinkmostofpeoplearemarriedwiththeintentionofit,soIthinkthatloveistheprocess,ofcourse,thepurposeofmarriageisanothernewstartingpoint.Therelationshipbetweenlove58Howdoyouthinkaboutit?

Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bridebridegroom(groom)groomsman(bestman)bridesmaidweddingceremonyweddinginvitationchurchweddingtraditionalChineseweddingweddingreceptionweedingdressweddingmarchhoneymoonHowdoyouthinkaboutit?

Can59WeddingVowsI

,takeyou

,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessoronhealth,toloveandtocherish,tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.WeddingVowsI,takeyou60WeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.WeddingtraditionsInsomewes61What'syouropiniononthehugecostofawedding?ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip....)What'syouropiniononthehu62FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?FreeDiscussionHowwillyoupl63BetweenChinese

andWesterners...WestChinaDescriptionofadate;Descriptionofadate;Pretty,cute,smart,humorous...Height,Occupation;Educationbackground,Family....LoveatfirstsightTimebreedslovetransientLastlongAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackground,socialrelations"Marryyourmatch"LoveMarriagearrangedmarriageHighdivorcerateMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesIndependenceineconomyandAlliscommon.ShareeverythingthoughtTotalequalityMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehomeHousehusbandBetweenChinese

andWesterner64Whatareyour