Parenting-Styles-(教育子女的方法)课件

Doyoulovechildren?Doyoulovechildren?Aretheylovely?Aretheylovely?AngelsAngelsDreamyangelsformanyadultsDreamyangelsformanyadultsWhatdoyouthinkofyourparents?Whataretheirstrengthsandweaknessesinbringingyouup?WhatdoyouthinkofyourpareInwhatwayareyougoingtoparentyourchildren?StrictasatigermotherorlionfatherKindasalenientmotherordotingfatherInwhatwayareyougoingtop

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TheTigerMotherAmyChuawithherdaughterWhyChineseMothersAreSuperior

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ByAMYCHUA--TheTigerMother

ThevastmajorityoftheChinesemotherssaidthattheybelievetheirchildrencanbe“thebest”students,that“academicachievementreflectssuccessfulparenting,”andthatifchildrendidnotexcelatschool,thentherewas“aproblem”andparents“werenotdoingtheirjob.”WhyChineseMothersAreSuperiHowdowetreatouroffspringinfuture?HowdowetreatouroffspringThereare2differentparentingstyles:goodandbad.Thoughallparentswanttobethegoodkind,it’snotthatsimple.FiveDifferentParentingStylesParentshavedifferentbackgrounds,childhoodexperiences,culturalbeliefs,temperamentsandapproachestoparenting.Additionally,kidsthemselveshavedifferentneedsandpersonalities.

Thereare2differentpare1.AttachmentParenting(依恋型)Thegoalofthisparentingistobecomehighlyattuned(adjusted)toachild’sneedsandmaintainthisclosenessasachildgrowsanddevelops.Thisstyleplacesgreatimportanceonthebondingthroughco-sleeping.Theparentsusuallysleepwiththechildinthesameroom,sometimeseveninthesamebed.1.AttachmentParenting(依恋型)

Theattachmentparentingmayproducekidswhoareoverlydependentandparentswhoareexcessivelyexhausted.

Theattachmentparenting2.AuthoritarianParenting(独裁型)

Authoritarianparentsinteractwiththeirkidsthroughcommandsanddirectives.Theyleavenoroomfordebate,andtheirchildrencannotmaketheirowndecisions.Theparentsmaintainstrictdiscipline.Authoritarianparentingmayproducekidswhoarelessindependentorwholacktheabilitytothinkforthemselves.Anditcandestroyachild’sself-confidenceandresultinteenagerebellion.2.AuthoritarianParenting(独裁3.PermissiveParenting(宽容型)Permissiveparentingisthepolaroppositeofauthoritarianparenting.Apermissiveparenttendstorespondpositivelytothedemandsofthechild.Wishesarefulfilled,toysarepurchased,and“wants”generallyarehandledlike“needs.”Inmanycases,kidsgetlivethecarefreechildhoodthattheirparentsmaynothavehadintheiryouth.3.PermissiveParenting(宽容型)Apermissiveparentusuallytriestobefriendswiththechild,insteadofassumingtheroleofauthorityfigure.Parentsmaypacifytheirchildrenwithgifts,gamesanddistractions.ApermissiveparentusualUsingthepermissiveparentingstyle,youmayraiseachildtohaveastrongsenseofindividuality.Youmayalsoraiseaspoiledbrat(monster).Usingthepermissiveparen4.AuthoritativeParenting

(权威型)

Authoritativeparentingcombinesthebetteraspectsofpermissiveparentingandauthoritarianparenting.Authoritativeparentshopetoraiseawell-adjustedkid:Haveexpectationsforthechildthatincreaseasthechildgrowsolder.Don’tignorerebellion,andstandstrongwhenachildrefusestodoastold.Explainwhythingsaredoneacertainway,notjusthow.Makeaneffortnottobeintimidatingordomineeringallthetime.4.AuthoritativeParenting(权威Thechildrenraisedinthissituationwillberesponsible,self-monitoringandself-confident.Theywillbeabletomakedecisionsaboutrightandwrongbasedonasolidfoundationofethicalinstructionanddiscussion,andnotjustbasedonalistofdo’sanddon’ts.Authoritativeparentsdon’trelyonpunishmentastheonlymeansofcorrectingbehavior.Thechildrenraisedinthi5.ActiveParenting(积极主动型)

Activeparentinginvolvesacontinuingquestonthepartoftheparentstoimprovetheirparentingskillsandstayabreastofnewdevelopmentsinchildpsychologyandteachingmethods.Activeparentstakeaproactiveapproachtoparenting,asopposedtowaitingforproblemsorissuestodevelopbeforetheyareaddressed.Theytrytobeattheproblemtothepunch(dosthbeforehand)

andincreaseachild’sawarenessofaninevitableproblembeforeitarises.5.ActiveParenting(积极主动型)Besidesdevelopingtheirchildren’sself-esteem,confidenceandresponsibility,activeparentshopetoaugment(boost)theintegrity,characteranddecision-makingskillsoftheirchildren.BesidesdevelopingtheircWhatdoyouexpectfromyourchildren?Doweexpecttoomuchofourkids?Ortoolittle?WhatdoyouexpectfromyourcOurexpectationsofchildrenstartasfantasieswhenwearechildrenourselves.Wemayexpectourchildtobethefirstintheneighborhoodtoachievedevelopmentalmilestones;toexcelatschool;tohaveagreatpersonalityandbelikedbyeverypeer;tobephysicallyagoodsport;andtobeofgoodcharacter.Aperfectchild!OurexpectationsofchildrButrealityalwaystrumpsdreamyexpectations.ButrealityalwaystrumpsThebestwaytodeveloprealisticexpectationsistopayattentiontothechild’stemperamentandpersonalityandlearnabitaboutchilddevelopment.Thebestwaytodevelopreal留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房

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联系我们：中国:400-078-3006,info@6邮编:100872,北京市海淀区,中关村大街甲59号,人民大学文化大厦1206A室英国:+44(0)114-2753836,info@6110ProvincialHouse,SollyStreet,Sheffield,S14BA,UK留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房公众媒体：企业新闻FaMostofthepeoplehopetohaveasuccessfulcareer

andproduceexcellentchildrenMostofthepeoplehopetohaveDoyoulovechildren?Doyoulovechildren?Aretheylovely?Aretheylovely?AngelsAngelsDreamyangelsformanyadultsDreamyangelsformanyadultsWhatdoyouthinkofyourparents?Whataretheirstrengthsandweaknessesinbringingyouup?WhatdoyouthinkofyourpareInwhatwayareyougoingtoparentyourchildren?StrictasatigermotherorlionfatherKindasalenientmotherordotingfatherInwhatwayareyougoingtop

AmyChuawithherdaughters,LouisaandSophia,attheirhomeinNewHaven,Conn.

TheTigerMotherAmyChuawithherdaughterWhyChineseMothersAreSuperior

?

ByAMYCHUA--TheTigerMother

ThevastmajorityoftheChinesemotherssaidthattheybelievetheirchildrencanbe“thebest”students,that“academicachievementreflectssuccessfulparenting,”andthatifchildrendidnotexcelatschool,thentherewas“aproblem”andparents“werenotdoingtheirjob.”WhyChineseMothersAreSuperiHowdowetreatouroffspringinfuture?HowdowetreatouroffspringThereare2differentparentingstyles:goodandbad.Thoughallparentswanttobethegoodkind,it’snotthatsimple.FiveDifferentParentingStylesParentshavedifferentbackgrounds,childhoodexperiences,culturalbeliefs,temperamentsandapproachestoparenting.Additionally,kidsthemselveshavedifferentneedsandpersonalities.

Thereare2differentpare1.AttachmentParenting(依恋型)Thegoalofthisparentingistobecomehighlyattuned(adjusted)toachild’sneedsandmaintainthisclosenessasachildgrowsanddevelops.Thisstyleplacesgreatimportanceonthebondingthroughco-sleeping.Theparentsusuallysleepwiththechildinthesameroom,sometimeseveninthesamebed.1.AttachmentParenting(依恋型)

Theattachmentparentingmayproducekidswhoareoverlydependentandparentswhoareexcessivelyexhausted.

Theattachmentparenting2.AuthoritarianParenting(独裁型)

Authoritarianparentsinteractwiththeirkidsthroughcommandsanddirectives.Theyleavenoroomfordebate,andtheirchildrencannotmaketheirowndecisions.Theparentsmaintainstrictdiscipline.Authoritarianparentingmayproducekidswhoarelessindependentorwholacktheabilitytothinkforthemselves.Anditcandestroyachild’sself-confidenceandresultinteenagerebellion.2.AuthoritarianParenting(独裁3.PermissiveParenting(宽容型)Permissiveparentingisthepolaroppositeofauthoritarianparenting.Apermissiveparenttendstorespondpositivelytothedemandsofthechild.Wishesarefulfilled,toysarepurchased,and“wants”generallyarehandledlike“needs.”Inmanycases,kidsgetlivethecarefreechildhoodthattheirparentsmaynothavehadintheiryouth.3.PermissiveParenting(宽容型)Apermissiveparentusuallytriestobefriendswiththechild,insteadofassumingtheroleofauthorityfigure.Parentsmaypacifytheirchildrenwithgifts,gamesanddistractions.ApermissiveparentusualUsingthepermissiveparentingstyle,youmayraiseachildtohaveastrongsenseofindividuality.Youmayalsoraiseaspoiledbrat(monster).Usingthepermissiveparen4.AuthoritativeParenting

(权威型)

Authoritativeparentingcombinesthebetteraspectsofpermissiveparentingandauthoritarianparenting.Authoritativeparentshopetoraiseawell-adjustedkid:Haveexpectationsforthechildthatincreaseasthechildgrowsolder.Don’tignorerebellion,andstandstrongwhenachildrefusestodoastold.Explainwhythingsaredoneacertainway,notjusthow.Makeaneffortnottobeintimidatingordomineeringallthetime.4.AuthoritativeParenting(权威Thechildrenraisedinthissituationwillberesponsible,self-monitoringandself-confident.Theywillbeabletomakedecisionsaboutrightandwrongbasedonasolidfoundationofethicalinstructionanddiscussion,andnotjustbasedonalistofdo’sanddon’ts.Authoritativeparentsdon’trelyonpunishmentastheonlymeansofcorrectingbehavior.Thechildrenraisedinthi5.ActiveParenting(积极主动型)

Activeparentinginvolvesacontinuingquestonthepartoftheparentstoimprovetheirparentingskillsandstayabreastofnewdevelopmentsinchildpsychologyandteachingmethods.Activeparentstakeaproactiveapproachtoparenting,asopposedtowaitingforproblemsorissuestodevelopbeforetheyareaddressed.Theytrytobeattheproblemtothepunch(dosthbeforehand)

andincreaseachild’sawarenessofaninevitableproblembeforeitarises.5.ActiveParenting(积极主动型)Besidesdevelopingtheirchildren’sself-esteem,confidenceandresponsibility,activeparentshopetoaugment(boost)theintegrity,characteranddecision-makingskillsoftheirchildren.BesidesdevelopingtheircWhatdoyouexpectfromyourchildren?Doweexpecttoomuchofourkids?Ortoolittle?WhatdoyouexpectfromyourcOurexpectationsofchildrenstartasfantasieswhenwearechildrenourselves.Wemayexpectourchildtobethefirstintheneighborhoodtoachievedevelopmentalmilestones;toexcelatschool;tohaveagreatpersonalityandbelikedbyeverypeer;tobephysically