Views on love and marriage in“Pride and Prejudice”分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

ViewsonlovemarriageandPrejudice‖分析《慢偏见》的情观和姻观

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Introduction

1、JaneAustentheof31.1Austen..................................................................................................................BackgroundofPride2、FourandinandPrejudice.......5in52.1.1CollinsandCharlotte’sMarriage.............................................................................2.1.2LydiaandWickham’s...............................................................................72.1.3JaneandBingley’sMarriage.............................................................................1.4DarcyandElizabeth’sMarriage...............................................................................Austen’sConceptaboutLoveandMarriage............................................................4、

.................................................................................................................................14References.......................................................................................................................Acknowledgements.........................................................................................................Abstract"PridePrejudice"isAusten'sfourdifferentthisnovelisverymanyreadersarousespeople'sunlimitedthinking.ThistoprobeintotheonlovedmarriageinandPrejudice‖.Thatis:loveandmarriageareassociatedwith,buttotallylieonsocialstatus.Themarriagebasedisatruemarriage.notopposesformoney,butalsoisagainsthastymarriage.ShegreatimportancemarriageregardsthebetweenmenthecornerstonetheandPrejudice‖;viewpointoflove;viewpointmarriage;摘要《傲慢与偏见奥斯汀的代表以讽刺为基调描写了四种不同形态的婚姻观和爱情观，时至今日这小说仍然吸引着多读者，引发了人们对婚姻的观察和无限思考文就是通过这四段婚姻的详细的分析，来探讨《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观。笔者认为：爱情婚姻财产和社会地位相互关联但不仅取于它以爱情、相互理解及相互尊重为基础的婚姻才是幸的婚姻。奥斯汀既反对为金钱而结婚，也反对草率结婚。她强调理想婚姻的重要性，并把男女方感情作为缔结理想婚姻的基石。关词《傲慢与偏见》；爱情观；婚姻;2ntroductionAustenhumorouslyinthe"PridePrejudice"aofmarriage-relatedinrelaxednovelofmantheirtheyoungtheirhowmothersson-in-lowinscenes.Bystudyingthestriveportrayseveralmarriagelovemarried,ofisThiswasAusten'sinvolvingnotonlythesocialmoney."Thebachelorwhoaithasbecomeuniversallyrecognizedtruth."[6],thatistruth?InfourmarriagesvividlyBritishlifetheworldstateofof18centuryto19thcenturyinaconservativestate.1.andtheofPrideandJaneAusten(17751817，ofwritermiddle-classinofwithrealism.Fromauniquesheleftsiximmortal.Herworkswerefullofrichconflictsinhumoroussatiricalstyle,sowereas"theofsimplicity".Inthecontentnotverywideweretolifeofmiddle-classThethemewasbetweenmenandIn"Simple"worksJaneAusten,us,trulyaccurately,thesociallifethesocialmarriagewellasbetweenmiddle-classwomenatthatAndsheherviewsmarriage,orindirectly,byphenomena.Shebelievedthatjustforwrong,butmarriageofnomoneyShealsofranklytheinseparablerelationshipbetweenfamilyInlongaintelligent,3socialbarriers,shewouldidealAustenwasinamiddle-classfamilyvillageEngland,sopeopleinherwereallwithenvironmentwasfamiliartoItdifficultreaderstotheofthoseworkingthebottomtheatthattime.AtthethetheFrenchRevolutionIndustrialRevolution,Herwasalwaysfromthewalk,talk,dance......Althoughthiswrittensomepeople'sshestilltoSheoncesaidthatshewasoninchesofivory‖.Austenwasmarried,butmarriagethemeofInhermarriageofmiddle-classpeoplewasalive.TheBackgroundofPrideInthisgreatbook,authoramplydemonstratedviewonlovemarriage.Intoanalyzeofview,weshouldfromofhergreatworks.tosocialconditionsinBritain,goodmarriageforawomanwascritical.wasassociatedwithBritishofwomeninsociety.In19thcentury,womenwerenotwellrespectedwiththeonesinthepresentsociety.wasbetweenwomanandman.WomenwereconsideredtoinferiortointermsofcentralofwomenwasforcedtobeatTheirrolestodealwithfamilyaffairs,takingcareoftheforthehusband.‖(ZhuHong,P34,1995)thatthatwomenshouldbeofwomenwerepatiencedeference.Theymustrecognizeinherentinferioritymen,somustrestrictwithoutAlthoughthestatusofwomenofthemexpressedaboutdestiny.Atmanygettingmarried,stayingatasmaidsworkingasthefamilyTheofafamilyfemaleteacherwasverylow,thelowItwasverydifficultfortochangeoroutofnowouldlikebeforever,therefore,for4women,thosedidnotproperties,marriedwasonlygoodwayforgainrespect,stabilitysocialstatus.Austenfullycriticizedatthattimeinworktookpointsaboutherviewonlovemarriage.2.FourMarriagesandtheIdeasonLoveandMarriageinandThetheordinarylife,feelingsoftheordinarypeople.Theywereorganizedaharmonioustheauthor'sskillfulTheworkmainlyfourmarriages.Twoofthemweremainassistedbytheothertwoassistantmarriages.andElizabeth’sloveandmarriagewasthemainthemeofthiswork.Afterundergoingmanysetbacks,Darcy’sarroganceandElizabeth’sprejudiceeventuallyeliminates,theloversfinallygotmarried.ThemarriageofElizabethsisterJaneandDarcy’sfriendBingleywasanotherclue.Theydeeplylovedeachother,buttheyeremultiblocked,theirveryThemarriagesreflectedtheotherpointofviewinpositivewaythatbeonwhichwastheintheauthor’sopinion.Thestoriesseemtoordinarylives,feelingsandupaharmoniousorderundertheothersconcepts.thebetweenexamplewiththemarriagebetweenLydiaandWickham,maketortuousandricher.‖(ZhuHong,P12,1985)MarriagesPride2.1.1.CollinsandCharlotte’sMarriageThearticlementionedofhowever,herveryfull.CharlottewasisintelligentmuchbyElizabeth.Butshewasinfinancialdifficulties.Ifdidnotmarried,sheliveinherbrother'shometobeaspinster.KosslynbeenrejectedbyElizabethtoproposeto5Charlotte•agreedwithouttheleasttomarrythoughshethatwasawasveryboringandthatnotloveherandhisso-calledforimaginarybecausefor"maynotthewomentobehappy,itisalwayssafeforwomen,itcanbebycoldIn"PridePrejudice"marriage,thecontroversy,becausetheythoughtthatistoounrealistictobetrue.CollinsandCharlottemarriagemadeabrutalfootnoteforElizabethromanticandhappylove.IndeedwecanthatAustenwascriticalopinionoftheatthattimefromthefateofCharlotte:Inthesociety,nofuture.Elizabethwasanwouldnotafoolfornotmarryshedidnotlove(suchtheDarcyatofstory);howeverwhosixElizabethwasapragmatist.Inaspinster,whowouldinsociety,shemustfulluseofopportunitytomarried.AsAustenthatwaswillinghimwasfortheofproperty.alsoconfessedto"YouIamaromantic.Ibeenofperson.Ionlyaskforhome.withMr.Collins'scharacter,andIconvincedchancehappinessisasfaircanonthemmarriage"(......Iamromanticknow.IneverIcomfortablehome;andconsideringMr.Collins’scharacter,connections,andsituationinlife,Iamconvincedchancehappinessisasfaircanonthemmarriagestate.)Andevenafteralwaysfeltthat"IfMr.Collins,theoutsideofhouseacomfortableplace".wastheirapurerelationofTosomeextend,ofmarriagesissocialtragedythatisconcealedthegorgeouscover.Throughdescribingsuchamarriage,Jane•AustenwantedtotellthereadersainBritishatthatthatcriticalfactorinmarriagenotmoney.Actually,itwasthanintheUnitedKingdomatthattime,evenintoday'sthisviewisverycanbeacceptedbymostwasinwhichloveWenotCharlottevastof6"Charlottes"tooitnotentirelytheirfalseperhapsinreallifecannotbreadforever.2.1.2.LydiaandWickham’sMarriageThesecondmarriageisbetweenBennettthirddaughterLydiaandWickham,thesonofhousekeeper.Originallyhebyhisfamilyfriends.However,hedowninofhisHegotintosohegetmoney,becamehissocialthroughwhichalsoawaytoapproachtheHeamanwithoutanyresponsibility.doesnothingexceptassailingwithobscenities.wasonlyrecreation.hisheenticedLydiaandloveforshelovedtoworkwasbyherGettingloveofaboyherdream.wantedtoaim－gettingbyloveandexaltingherbeautyhypocritically,forgotwhoshewasandwasbeautifulgirlinworld.Theirnotthefromtheyeloped.WhentheshebelievedloveawouldnotmarryLydia,isnotcharmingnothingtoattracthim,whonotloveherbutofherfamily.ThemarriagewasadmittedwiththeofmarriageconsideredbescandalinBennett’sfamily.ButMrs.Bennetwasnotdisgracefulthismarriage.WhenCollinsthenews,hethemarriagetorevengeearlyofproposaltoThismarriagewasonewithoutlove.Theydidn’thavetherealmeaningofmarriage.TheywantedtotheirSowesayisakindofimpromptuwithoutloveandresponsibility.couplestheexperienceofmarriageunchangingone.Ofkindofbe2.1.3.JaneandBingley’sMarriageInnovel,BingleyJanetheirlovealthoughthereweremanybetweenthem.withhelpofDarcyandElizabeth,theyandahappyBingleyandJanehadmanyintheir7characters,wasthetosuccessoftheirTheydignity,ofgoodTheygoodbreeding,insight,strength,confidence.Theydidn’tshowtheireasilytothesocialcriticismtooForJane,alwaysconcealedtruefeelings,whichgaveothersanillusionthatshedidn’tloveBingley.ForBingley,heyieldedeasilytocriticismofJane’ssocialpositionandeasilyacceptedthesuggestionsofandwhichconsumedthebetweenJaneandhim.theforcesfacilitatedtheirmarriage.thebetweenBingleylovewerefactorsoftheirandhappyWithmanyincaneachothereasily.importantofall,thewithinterestcanlivetogetherinahappylife.Becausesupportbetweenthem.Theydidn’tcarethedefectsoftheirpartnerseventheydidn’tseeanyfaultsineachother.Justastheoldsayinggoes,ofafeatherflocktogether,peopleofmindfallintothesamegroup.‖2.1.4.DarcyandElizabeth’sMarriageElizabeththein"PrideandloveandwasthreadthroughtheAtthebeginningof"recognizedtruth"mentionedinthenovel,allgirlsinwantedtoagoodElizabethadifferentinterpretationforthatneedoffamilypropertybutalsowomen,thetimemustbeunderstandingbetweenMr.wasfirstElizabethwasatfirst,soonturneddownCollins'sproposalofmarriageshedidCollinsandcouldnotfallinloveElizabethwasimpressedbyWickham’selegantbehavioranddemeanor,butshestillnotwantchoosehimbehusband.ShetoldauntthatshethebetweenshewouldnotfallinlovewassecularcavitysmartacommonwithElizabeth.isnotrichmanandlackoflaterdiscovered8faceofItnotaffectprincipleElizabethoptionalhusband.Wickham'sexposuretopovertylethimoutsidethescopeofhusband.ButwhyElizabethDarcyisahandsomeElizabethstatedanswer:"Why,withaofoffendingandinsultingyouchoosetotellmethatyoulikedmeagainstwill,yourreason,andagainstyourWasnotsomeforincivility,ifIuncivil?course,prejudiceforaboutwhichaimpactElizabeth’refusalDarcy'smarproposal,butwasthatElizabethhatedforattitude.ElizabeththebutDarcyacceptedtheTheirmarriagewasbasedonDarcy'softhemarriagefactors.WhenheraskedthowlonghadfalleninwithDarcy,replied:"ItbeensograduallythatIhardlyitbutIbelieveImustitfrommyfirstbeautifulatPemberly."(Austen,2004:275)Ontheonehand,revealedElizabeth’stheitalsothoughts.Itwaswhichreflectedattitudeformoney,marriagelife:marriagebasedonnomoneywasundesirable.SoshevisitedDarcy’sluxuriousPemberLeeGarden.AftervisitingtheManor,shefeltthattobePemberLeehostesswasquiteFromsense,itwasadirectreflectionofthoughts.ShewasBonnet’sseconddaughter,anactive,intelligentandsmartgirl.Shehadamiddle-classfamilybeentheformaltothosearistocraticgirls,soshewasnotatmusicandbutshereadmanybookswhichherTheimportantaspectwasshealadywithupbringing.Darcyatallmanwithgoodmanner.Hewashandsome,richandSotheidealgirls.upinsurroundingswithofsoalwaysselfishcriticallookateachindividual,familywasconcernedaboutanyonelookeddownuponanyoneTherefore,hefirstarrivedinvillage,hefoundallthepersonswerebeyondhisimagination.Althoughgirlwaslovely,hehasnointerestin9Elizabeth.actually,atfirsthedidn’tputaneyeElizabeth.Gradually,hehadtothatElizabethbeautiful,distinctalthoughinsistedElizabethsocialhim.Darcyrationalbecausehestrongofagreedonrealityathehislovetohecouldn'thelphismadeEliz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estory,eludeblocks,beginningwiththetensionscausedbytheloversownpersonalqualities.Elizabeth’spridemakeshermisjudgeDarcyonthebasisofapoorfirstimpression,whileDarcy’sprejudiceElizabeth’spoorsocialstandingblindshim,foratime,tohermanyvirtues.Ofcourse,couldthatElizabethisguiltyofDarcyofthetitlecutsmeanwhile,countlessobstaclestotherealizationofthelovebetweenElizabethDarcy,includingLadyCatherine’sattempttocontrolhernephew,MissBingley’ssnobbery,Bennet’sidiocy,andWickhamdeceit.Ineachcase,socialordesireforbettersocialconnections,withtheworkingsoflove.DarcyandElizabeth’srealizationofamutualtenderloveseemstoimplythatAustenloveofsocialthatcancapturedifanindividualisabletothewarpingeffectssociety.Austendoessoundrealist(or,couldthecharacterofLucas,buffoonMr.Collinsforhismoney,todemonstratetheheartalwaysdictatemarriage.Yetwithcentralcharacters,Austenthattrueisaforcefromsocietycanconquerthemostdifficultofcircumstances.Thetitlemajorconcernofnovel:prejudice.PrideistheflawthatcausesElizabethdislikeDarcyupontheirfirstmeeting.Elizabethherselfalsosuffersfromtheflaw;herinowntoanalyzesuchshetoDarcyinfaceofevidenceinTheofcanintotwoways:orrighttohavehonor,integrity.Onotherornegativeasconductandhaughtiness.DarcydisplayssideofwhileBennetornegativelackofprideitselfinsomecases.Darcyisforhishimself,hisfamilyname.He14takesprideinthesedoesanythinghecantoprotectthem.ButMr.whoafatherfivedaughters,theholderofreputableinfamily,nottakeinfamilyortakeshisresponsibility;themembershisfamilyofactions.PrideandPrejudicedepictssocietyinwhichawomanreputationoftheutmostAwomanisexpectedinSteppingoutsidethesocialnormsmakestothemeintheElizabethtoNethe