婆媳矛盾,原因,如何化解 ppt

1、Cross-cultural communcation between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law 张 历 10091205751 Before my speech,why I choose the green as the baskground colour,I think ,green represents the harmnious,this is exactly what we need in our lives. Its a good time at such occasion to talk about my understanding of

2、 the communcation between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law.2 I think its just nowsaday the part of interpersonal interaction.The reason why I want to talk about it mainly is more and more phenomena show that communcation between them is a problem that needs to be solved urgently. As a society of a

3、special group-man,I think ,when dealing with these peoblems,something must be kept in your mind and attitude,and these problems should be seen as a kind of similarity to cross-cultural communcation. First of all,I think the contradiction between them is can and must besolved. The factor that defines

4、 the obstacles between them I think personally mainly comes from the following aspets: 3 (1) Their different world outlooks and values.But why exist these differences?They are living at different ages.For daughter-in-law generation,they are born in the reform and opening up world,but mother-in-law a

5、re born in the 50s or 60s.So the influence of different education and surrounding environment cause them have different world outlooks and values. For daughter-in-law,I can defintely feel that we cant do like the last generation(mother-in-law)who are diligent and can bear hardships and stand hardwor

6、k.I still deeply realize the concept of their faith which are originated fropared with daughter-in-law,we are more relying on the last generation.We can not acquired our own crisis consciousness,bear hardships and stand hard work. In my opinion,our actions even couldnt keep up with the faith of life

7、.That is why mother-in-law sometimes would consider us can not do some hard work and arent diligent at all.4 (2)Last generation reserved hard work and plain living ,their hardworking and thrifty spirit deeply affect their ways of doing things.Perhaps this is why daughter-in-law and mother-in-law wil

8、l have different solutions to settle problems.Our generation common characters are in the center of self,follow ones inclinations,wide-eyed above his business.Therefore,in some aspects of things,last generation may rhink we are not in the steady step of road.They want us follow the way of down-to-ea

9、rth.5(3) Our generation has developed the habit of depending on the last generation,and this deeply influence our attitudes toward the last generation.We are failing with so many experiences to enhance ourselves.Just like so much time ,so many chances, so little we need to do.But there is more to th

10、e matter than this,we also take it for granted.That last generation has responsibility for our own happiness.Its their duties,we think.We even give less attentionto consider why do they do,what are they want fo? They are hurt by us. Indeed,the entire world parents are unselfish.But everthing they do

11、 is for their oen children.We may think when the daughter-in-law marry into your family,they are accepted as the part of your family.It is all an inseparablepart of a whole.Mother-in-law want her daughter-in-law like her own children to look after them.The daughter-in-law in theirs eyes,it would be

12、better for everthing.What is best for us?I think,she should be reasonable in daily life,can filial piety mother-in-law and bring them happiness.But daughter-in-law in her own family may be like such person that everyone should listen to her,everything in her family she doesntcare and does not do it.

13、So mother-in-law cant bear her bad habit,for o long time like this,more or less contradictory would happen.6 In my opinion, parents is everything,its my honor to thying parents,and these would be the greatest things in life.Anyway,I hope if I can ,I wish my wife could be nice to my parents ,respect their life habit,take care of parents mood,something go