升职必备：每天学点职场心理学

如何选择一份合适自己的工作？ How to choose a suitable own work? 如何赢得老板的器重而不是同事的嫉妒？ How to win the boss of / him rather than his colleagues envy? 如何圆满地处理同事的无端诽谤和排挤？ How to successfully deal / with colleagues for libel and exclusion? 如何赢得客户的好感从而创造更大的业绩？ How to win customers. To create greater performance? 职场就是江湖，多少精英人士出师未捷， The workplace is a / quack, many elite troops not nimble, 不是技不如人，而是折损在了内部斗争？ Not the less, but the wreck in the internal struggle? 第一部分 职场自省心理学 The first part of career self psychology 人在职场，首先要认清自己。古人常说，知己知彼，百战百胜。我们每个人都要先知 道自己的长短处，假如自己连自己都不了解、都没看清，那你很可能就找不到好工作、 找不到好老板、跟不对好主管、娶不到好老婆不要以为这是危言耸听，“认清自己” 在个人定位中真的实在太重要了。 People in the workplace, the first to recognize their own. The ancients said, know yourself as well as the enemy, victorious. Each of us should know their own strengths and weaknesses, even if he doesnt know himself, no see, you probably wont get a good job, can not find a good boss, with no charge, not marry a good wife Dont think this is an alarmist, “know yourself“ in individual positioning is really too important. 第二部分 职场心态心理学 The second part workplace psychology psychology 为什么有些人就是比其他的人更成功，赚更多的钱，拥有更好的工作、更广的人际关 系、更健康的身体，整天快快乐乐地过着高品质的人生，似乎他们的生活就是比别人 过得好。而许多人忙忙碌碌地劳作却只能维持生计。其实，人与人之间并没有多大的 区别。但为什么会有差别，不少心理学专家发现，这个秘密还是人的“心态”。所谓 心态即心理态度的简称，它是人的心理对各种信息刺激做出反应的趋向。人的这种心 理反应趋向对人的思维、选择、言谈和行为具有导向和支配的作用。所以我们有充分 的理由相信人生的成败有许多因素的影响，但是起决定作用的就是心理态度。 Why do some people than other people is more successful, earn more money, better jobs, interpersonal relationship, more more healthy, happy to live a full day of high quality life, it seems that their life is better than others. While many people bustling about crafts can only maintain their livelihood. In fact, and there is not much difference between people. But why is there such a difference, some psychologists found that, the secret or the “mentality“. The so-called point of view is the mental attitude for short, it is the trend of human psychological respond to all kinds of information to stimulate. This kind of psychological reaction of people tend to human thinking, speech and behavior choice, has the function of guidance and control. So we have good reason to believe that there are many factors of success or failure in life, but the decisive role is the psychological attitude. 第三部分 职场人际心理学 The third part of workplace interpersonal psychology 很多人崇尚个性和独立，认为自己与他人的关系如何无关紧要。但是无论从哪个角度 看，人与人之间的关系都是决定成功与否的重要因素，抛开这一点单纯强调个体的力 量只能让你处处碰壁。人缘绝非可有可无，它是人生的基石，是事业的助推剂，是个 人幸福的源泉所在。人缘好的人处处受欢迎，办事皆顺利，也更容易有成就感和满足 感。人缘让你在一个更大的空间里发挥作用，也会让你赢得更大的自由度。“有什么 样的人际关系，就会处于什么样的人生层次”，不断把自己的人缘向高处延伸，你会 拥有一个不一样的人生。 A lot of people advocating individuality and independence, think about how your relationships with others be of no great importance. But no matter from which angle, the relationship between people is an important factor in determining the success, despite this point simply emphasize the power of the individual can only let you hit the wall. Popularity is not not essential, it is the cornerstone of life, is the booster of career, is where personal happiness. Playboy popular everywhere, all work smoothly, are also more likely to have a sense of achievement and satisfaction. People let you play a role in a larger spac