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1、Perfec onizm,ti,Outline,What is Perfectionism? Characteristics Consequences Success and Happiness Sources of Perfectionism Overcoming Perfectionism,Learn to fail or fail to learn,Crisis (Wei Ji) Danger and Opportunity,“The greatest mistake a man can make is to be afraid of making one.” Elbert Hubbar
2、d,The Path of Failure,Age 22: Lost job Age 23: Defeated for state legislature Age 24: Failed in business Age 27: Nervous breakdown Age 34: Ran for congress and defeated Age 39: Defeated again Age 46: Ran for senate and defeated Age 47: Defeated for nomination for vice president Age 50: Defeated agai
3、n for senate Age 51: 16th US President,“Freedom is not worth having if it does not connote freedom to err.” Mohandas Gandhi,“The important work of moving the world forward does not wait to be done by perfect men.”,George Eliot,Thomas Watson Sr. IBM,Amy Edmondson (1999) “Psychological Safety”,“If you
4、 want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.” Thomas Watson Sr.,“Origins of Genius” (Simonton, 1999) Fail your way to success (Klem, 1997),Perfectionism is an incapacitating fear of failure that permeates our lives, especially those areas that we care about most. It is an approach,
5、 a cognitive and emotional schema, that we hold toward the journey of our lives, toward the process of getting from point A to point B.,Perfection Vs. Excellence Characteristics,Defensive,Open to Suggestions,Half Empty,Half Full,Over Generalize,Realistic,No Self-Acceptance,Unconditional Acceptance,S
6、tatic,Dynamic,Perfection,Excellence,Fear of failure,Failure as feedback,Focus on Destination,Journey and Destination,Perfection Vs. Excellence Consequences,Temporary Relief,Lasting Satisfaction,Inevitable Failure,Possibility of Success,Wastes time,Appropriate Time Allocation,Prone to disorders,Healt
7、hy Approach,Hurts Self-Esteem,Continuous Improvement,Harms Relationships,Allows for Growth,Anxiety/Stress,Creative Tension,Perfection,Excellence,Performance?,Less Pain More Gain,Less Pain More Gain ?*#!#?,Sustainable approach to growth Procrastination Higher levels of self-confidence Learn to fail o
8、r fail to learn The Luck Factor (Wiseman, 2003) Creativity (Simonton, 1999) 80/20 Rule (Paretos Principle) Increase in flow experiences (Csikszentmihalyi, 1991),Source of Perfectionism,Conditioning Destination = Reward = Acceptance Journey = Unrewarded = Means Only Social environment Permission to b
9、e human?,“Emphasizing effort gives a child a variable that they can control. They come to see themselves as in control of their success. Emphasizing natural intelligence takes it out of the childs control, and it provides no good recipe for responding to a failure.”,Intelligence versus Effort,Harmfu
10、l Praise? (Dweck, 2005),“When you praise kids intelligence and then they fail, they think theyre not smart anymore, and they lose interest in their work. In contrast, kids praised for effort show no impairment and often are energized in the face of difficulty.”,Fixed versus Malleable,Overcoming Perfectionism,Awareness,Overcoming Perfectionism,Awareness Focus on, and reward, effort Active Acceptance Behavior changes attitude Meditation and visualization Setting a liberating goal or vision The Platinum Rule Helping others?,Applying the 3 Ps,1. Permission Acceptance Respect for reality 2. Posit
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