专题35-话题12人际关系如何处理矛盾何冲突Period-Eight-2023年高考英语作文课件

话题12人际关系2009、2012高考真题如何处理

矛盾冲突

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Theprocedureofamodule(topic)课前发话题词汇学案，学生画词汇短语思维导图Period1.Usefulwordsandexpressionsrelatedtothetopic（课堂讲解+句子练习+范文赏析,课后作业：thefirstwriting:HowtoMakeFriends演讲稿Period2.Readingcomprehension(课文1+课后4passages)Period3.LanguagepointsPeriod4.GrammarPeriod5.ListeningPeriod6-7.Culturalcorner+languagepointsPeriod8.Option1Writing【2012江苏高考卷】HowtoDealwithConflictsPeriod9Option2:Writing关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿(thesecondwriting)案例分析，讨论，精写，全批全改，反馈近几年高考真题及变式训练

范文1HowtoMakeFriends

范文2【成都七中24个话题】如何择友演讲稿

范文3HowtoGetAlongwithYourParents

范文4演讲稿BeingaGoodListener

范文5【2012江苏高考卷】HowtoDealwithConflicts

Practice【2009年安徽卷改编】关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿UsefulExpressionsReviewingTheimportanceofmakinggoodfriendsWaystomakegoodfriendsWaystodealwithconflicts(1)havefundoingsth.(2)sharehappythings(3)gethelpfromgoodfriendswhenweareintroubleencourageustoovercomedifficultiesgiveussomesuggestionsUsefulexpressionsTheimportanceofmakinggoodfriendscaring，

considerate考虑周全的kind善良的loyal/honest/faithful忠诚的helpful乐于助人的

humorous幽默的outgoing外向的positive，optimistic积极的,乐观的,warm-hearted热心的confident自信的

patient有耐心的

honest诚实的hard-working勤奋的

strong-willed有毅力的sensible明智的，理智的talented有天赋的clever,smart聪明的

creative有创造力的

knowledgeable知识渊博的modest谦逊unselfish无私的generous慷慨的Waystomakegoodfriends(1)QualitiesagoodfriendsshouldhaveUsefulexpressionsofdailyroutines（2）beagoodlistener（3）careabout/payattentionto关心，关注（4）putyourfriend’sinterestsinfrontofyours首先考虑朋友的利益（5）makefriendswhohavesimilarhobbiesandinterests结交爱好和兴趣相似的朋友（6）createsomechancestomakefriends,suchastakingpartingroupactivitiesbothinclassandoutofclass.haveaquarrelwithsb.aboutsth.=quarrelwithsb.aboutsth.因为某事与某人争吵haveconflictswithsb.=conflictwithsb.与某人发生冲突(1)上周我和我的好朋友发生了争吵。Ihadaquarrelwithmyfriendlastweek.MyfriendandIhadaquarrelwitheachotherlastweek.(2)上周我和我的好朋友发生了冲突。Ihadconflictswithmygoodfriendlastweek.Iconflictedwithmygoodfriendlastweek.Waystodealwithconflicts(1)keepcalm/cool保持冷静(2)analyzereasonsthatcausetheconflict(3)communicatewitheachother(4)offerimmediatehelp(5)avoidconflicts避免冲突(6)avoidfightingandarguing避免打架和争吵(7)apologizetosb.forsth.=makeanapologytosb.forsth.因某事向某人道歉(8)forgivesb.for(doing)sth.原谅某人（做了）某事(9)putourselvesinothers’place设身处地为别人考虑Waystodealwithconflicts(10)Conflictswithothersarecommonineverydaylife.Toavoidsuchconflicts,weshouldbekindtooneanother,whichisessentialtoenjoyaharmoniouslife.在日常生活中与别人发生冲突是很普遍的。为了避免这种冲突，我们应该善待彼此，这是享受和谐生活所必需的。essentialto对…必不可少harmonious协调的;和谐的，融洽的;音调优美的;悦耳的（11)Itisalsoavirtuetoforgiveandforget,especiallyinsuchacompetitiveandstressfulsociety.原谅和忘记也是一种美德，特别是在这样一个充满竞争和压力的社会里。Waystodealwithconflicts范文

3HowtoGetAlongwithYourParents在日常生活中，我们每天都要与人打交道。我们往往忽略了与我们每天都要面对的、最亲近的父母之间的关系。不少同学以“代沟”为借口，拒绝与父母交流沟通。你怎样看待这个现象呢？说说你的看法以及你与父母融洽相处的小秘诀。写作要求：1.语言流畅，语法正确；2.词数：120左右。

HowtoGetAlongwithYourParents

Nowadays,manyteenagersfindithardtogetalongwiththeirparents.Indailylife,theymayquarrelwiththeirparentsandevenhaveanegativeattitudetowardstheirparents’opinions.So,howcanweteenagersgetalongwellwithourparents？

Firstofall，Ithinkweshouldspendmoretimewithourparentsandcommunicatewiththem.Differentgenerationsmayhavedifferentviewstowardsonething,butweshouldnotusethatasanexcusetorefusetotalkwithourparents.Next,weshouldtrustourparentsandturntothem参考范文

whenweareintroublebecausetheyaremoreexperiencedandmayhelpussolveourproblemsquickly.Besides,wemustunderstandourparentsbetter.Theyhavealotofpressureintheirwork,buttheystillhavetospendtimetakingcareofus.

Themostimportantthingforustorememberisthatourparentsloveusdeeply,soitshouldnotbesodifficultforustounderstandandcommunicatewitheachother.Usefulexpressions.1.Indailylife,theymayquarrelwiththeirparentsandevenhaveanegativeattitudetowardstheirparents’opinions.在日常生活中，他们可能会与父母争吵，甚至对父母的观点持消极态度。参考范文

范文4演讲稿BeingaGoodListener实现有效的沟通，建立良好的人际关系，不仅要善于言表，更要学会倾听。假如你是李华，请你根据下表中所提供的信息，写一篇题为“BeingaGoodListener”的英文演讲稿。注意：1.对所给要点，逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。2.词数150左右。开头和结尾已写好，不计入总数。

3.演讲稿中不得提及考生所在学校及本人姓名。Goodmorningeveryone,I’mLiHua.It’smygreathonortodeliveraspeechhere.Thetopicofmyspeechtodayis“BeingaGoodListener”.

Goodlisteningcanalwaysshowrespect,promoteunderstanding,andimproveinterpersonalrelationship.Manypeoplesuggestthat,firstly,parentsshouldlistenmoretotheirchildren,sotheywillunderstandthembetter,andfinditeasytonarrowthegenerationgap.What’smore,teachersshouldlistenmoretotheirstudents,thentheycanmeettheirneedsbetter,andplacethemselvesinagoodrelationshipwiththeirstudents.Besides,studentsshouldlistenmoretotheirclassmates,thus参考范文

theywillhelpandlearnfromeachother,andafriendshipislikelytobeformed.WhatIwanttostressisthateachofusshouldlistenmoretoothers.Showyourrespectandneverstopotherstilltheyfinishtheirtalk.Inaddition,showyouareinterestedbyasupportivesilenceoraknowingsmile.Finally,beopen-mindedtodifferentopinionseventhoughyoudon’tlikethem.Inaword,goodlisteningcanreallyenableustogetclosertoeachother.That’sallaboutmyspeech.Thankyouforyourlistening!参考范文

范文5【2012江苏高考卷】HowtoDealwithConflicts生活中冲突时有发生。假设你班同学苏华和李江打篮球时发生争执，导致关系紧张。请你结合此事，并根据以下提示，用英语写一篇短文，向学校英文报HappyTeens专栏投稿。注意：1.对所有要点逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。2.词数150词左右。开头已经写好，不计入总词数。3.作文中不得提及有关考生个人身份的任何信息，如校名、人名等。

Conflictswithothersarecommonineverydaylife.Duringthebasketballgameyesterdayafternoon,SuHuaandLiJiangbumpedintoeachother,tryingtocatchtheball.Thentheystartedshoutingandyelling,anditturnedouttobeahorriblequarrel.

Tobehonest,itwasSu’sfaultbutLiwasalsotoblame—theywerenotcalmenoughandbothsaidsomereallymeanthings.Theycaredtoomuchaboutwinningandlosing.Asamatteroffact,blocking,pushingandbumpingarejustpartofatoughgame.

Toavoidsuchconflicts,weshouldbekindtooneanother,whichisessentialtoenjoyaharmoniouslife.

Itisalsoavirtuetoforgiveandforget,especiallyinsuchacompetitiveandstressfulsociety.

Insteadofblamingeachother,weshouldcommunicatemoreandputourselvesinothers’place.

Don’tbeself-centredandtrytobeconsiderate.Wemustlearntohandleconflictscalmlyandwisely.

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1.Conflictswithothersarecommonineverydaylife.在日常生活中与别人发生冲突是很普遍的。此处的“conflict”为名词。n.冲突;矛盾;战斗;相互干扰Thetwocompaniescameintoconflict.这两家公司起了冲突。Johnoftencomesintoconflictwithhisboss.约翰经常和他的老板发生争执。Herdiarywasarecordofherinnerconflict.她的日记记录了她内心的矛盾。vi.（两种思想、信仰、说法等）冲突;抵触;争斗;战斗Theseresultsconflictwithearlierfindings.这些结果与早期的发现相矛盾。

2.bumpedintoeachother两人发生碰撞3.saidsomereallymeanthings说了一些很刻薄的话Usefulexpressions4.Toavoidsuchconflicts,weshouldbekindtooneanother,whichisessentialtoenjoyaharmoniouslife.为了避免这种冲突，我们应该善待彼此，这是享受和谐生活所必需的。essentialto对…必不可少harmonious协调的;和谐的，融洽的;音调优美的;悦耳的5.Itisalsoavirtuetoforgiveandforget,especiallyinsuchacompetitiveandstressfulsociety.原谅和忘记也是一种美德，特别是在这样一个充满竞争和压力的社会里。6.putourselvesinothers’place设身处地为别人考虑UsefulexpressionsPractice【2009年安徽卷改编】关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿假设你是李华，正在参加全省中学生英语演讲比赛，请你针对有些父母经常翻看孩子日记或书包这一现象，写一篇演讲稿，并陈述你的观点。演讲稿的主要内容应包括：（1）认为同学们不必为此苦恼；（2）希望能够体谅父母的苦衷；（3）建议与父母进行交流和沟通。注意：（1）词数100左右；（2）可以适当增加细