中西风俗礼仪的对比

中西风俗礼仪对比Week7中西风俗礼仪的对比第1页中西风俗礼仪对比中西家庭伦理精神中西婚姻中西节日中西风俗礼仪的对比第2页家庭伦理基本精神家庭本位:中国传统家族私有制及其基础上宗法人伦秩序所要求家庭伦理基本精神是家庭本位,即一切以家庭利益为重,个人必须无条件地服从家庭利益。第一,家庭私有财产制,个人没有财产统理权。第二,婚姻是家庭事情,个人没有婚姻自主权。个人本位:西方传统个体私有制及其基础上靠商品交换和契约关系所形成西方家庭伦理精神是以个人为本位,一切以个人利益为中心,家庭利益服从个人利益。第一,个人有财产权。第二,个人有婚姻自主权。中西风俗礼仪的对比第3页家庭本位和个人本位家庭本位从根本上来说,这是由自给自足自然经济所决定。首先,小农经济决定了家庭生产是社会生产基本方式。其次,家庭是人们主要活动场所。再次,家庭是人们情感和精神支柱。个人本位商业贸易发达优越交通条件,发达商品经济和海上贸易,不利于形成古希腊社会中血缘亲族组织。上帝面前人人平等思想是建立在认可个性、发展个性基础上。中西风俗礼仪的对比第4页中西婚姻对比婚礼仪式不一样中国传统婚礼仪式一拜天地:尊崇天地二拜高堂:上下尊卑格局

夫妻对拜:双方认同西方神证婚礼仪式(协议\契约)我愿意婚姻基础不一样中西风俗礼仪的对比第5页婚礼仪式ThePurposeofChristianMarriageLegalDeclarationsPrayerGivingofthebridebyherfatherorfriendThePromisesTheVows(Legalrequirement)TheGivingoftheRingorRingsDeclaration中西风俗礼仪的对比第6页1.ThePurposeofChristianMarriage“WearegatheredhereinthepresenceofGodtocelebratetheweddingofAandBtorejoicewiththem,andtosupportthemwithourprayers.”OrInthepresenceofGod,theFather,SonandHolySpirit,wehavecometogethertowitnessthemarriageofAandB,toprayforGod'sblessingonthem,tosharetheirjoyandtocelebratetheirlove.中西风俗礼仪的对比第7页2.LegalDeclarationsMinistersays:“Ifanyknowofanyreasonwhy[fullnameofthebridegroom]and[fullnameofthebride]maynotlawfullybemarriedtoeachother,letthemnowdeclareit.”Bridegroomsays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebridegroom],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbride].”TheBridesays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebride],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbridegroom].”中西风俗礼仪的对比第8页3.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyandeternal,sourceoflifeandspringoflove,wethankandpraiseyouforbringingAandBtothisday,andweprayforthem.Lordoflifeandlove:Maytheirmarriagebelife-givingandlife-long,enrichedbyyourpresenceandstrengthenedbyyourgrace;maytheybringcomfortandconfidencetoeachotherinfaithfulnessandtrust.Lordoflifeandlove:Maythehospitalityoftheirhomebringrefreshmentandjoytoallaroundthem.中西风俗礼仪的对比第9页4.Givingofthebridebyherfatherorfriend

“AIgivemydaughterBfreelytoyou.Ichargeyoutocareforher,loveherandprotectherandmakeprovisionforher.Willyoukeepheralwaysasthefirstloveinyourlife?Doyousopromise?TheBridegroomresponds,“Iwill”.中西风俗礼仪的对比第10页5.ThePromisesTheministeraskstheBridegroom:“A,willyoutakeBtobeyourwifeinChristianmarriage?Willyouloveher,comforther,honourandprotecther,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultoheraslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridegroomreplies:“Iwill.”TheministersaystotheBride:“B,willyoutakeAtobeyourhusbandinChristianmarriage?Willyoulovehim,comforthim,honourandprotecthim,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultohimaslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridereplies:“Iwill.”中西风俗礼仪的对比第11页6.TheVows(Legalrequirement)

TheBridegroom/Bridesays:“IcalluponthesepersonsherepresenttowitnessthatI,[Fullnameofthebridegroom/Bride],dotakethee,[Fullnameofbride/bridegroom]tobemylawfulweddedwife/husbandinaccordancewithGod'sholywill,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherishtilldeathusdopart.ThisismyfaithfulpromiseandinthepresenceofGodImakethisvow.”新郎/新娘

我希望在座各位见证，我_____，娶你______，做我正当妻子/丈夫。我愿对你承诺，从今天开始，不论是顺境或是逆境，富有或贫穷，健康或疾病，我将永远爱你、珍惜你直到地老天长。我当着上帝面做此忠实承诺。

中西风俗礼仪的对比第12页7.TheGivingoftheRingorRings“GodourFather,fromalleternityyouloveus;LordJesusChrist,inloveyoucameamongus;HolySpirit,yougaveusloveasyourgreatestgift.Blessthegivingandreceivingofthisring/theserings,symbol(s)ofunendingloveandfaithfulnessandreminder(s)ofthepromisesmadethisday.WeaskitinyourNamewhichisaboveeveryName,theNameofJesus.Amen.”中西风俗礼仪的对比第13页8.Declaration

Theministerjoinstheirrighthandstogetherandaddressesthecongregation.AandBhavedeclaredbeforeGodandbeforeyouthattheywilllivetogetherinChristianmarriage;theyhavemadesacredpromisestoeachother,andhavesymbolisedtheirmarriagetodaybyjoininghandsandbythegivingandreceivingofaring/rings.IthereforebytheauthoritygrantedtomeasaministerofJesusChristIpronouncethemtobehusbandandwife,inthenameofGod,theFather,Son,andHolySpirit.WhomGodhasjoinedtogether,letnooneseparate.Amen.中西风俗礼仪的对比第14页中西方婚姻基础中国婚姻以生育为基础,西方婚姻以性爱为基础。中国婚姻重家庭责任,西方婚姻重个人感情。西方人结婚,是个人权利,中国人结婚,却是家庭一个义务。中西风俗礼仪的对比第15页PrideParadesPrideparadesfortheLGBTcommunityareeventscelebratinglesbian,gay,bisexual,andtransgender(LGBT)culture.Theeventsalsoattimesserveasdemonstrationsforlegalrightssuchassame-sexmarriage.中西风俗礼仪的对比第16页中西节日比较中国传统节日源远流长、绚丽多