英语课前的演讲

第第页英语课前的演讲

We'veallbeentaughtthatweshouldhelppeople.Itistherightthingtodoandwillmakeuspopularwithothers.Itmayevenwinusfavorsinreturn.However，wemustberealistic.Wecan'tsayyestoeveryrequest.Ifwedid，wewouldfailorgocrazyforsure.Sometimeswesimplydon'thavethetimetohelp.Inthiscase，wemustknowhowtosaynopolitely.

Whenweneedtosayno，hereisonemethodwecantry.First，weshouldtellthetruth.Ifwereallycan'tdosomething，weshouldjustsayso.Second，weshouldremembertorefuserequestspolitely.Wemustcommunicateclearly，butmustalsobesincereandsympathetic.Atruefriendwillunderstand.Finally，wemustnotfeelguiltyaboutsayingno.Sometimesrefusingothersistherightthingtodo.Itcansaveourselves，andthem，alotoftrouble.Inshort，wecannotpleaseeveryoneallthetime.Refusingfavorsisapartoflife.

学习如何说不

我们都被教育说，我们应当要援助别人.这是应当做的事，而且这样做会使我们受人欢迎.它甚至会为我们赢得一些回报。但是，我们需要要实际一点。我们不能答应每一个要求.假如我们这么做，我们就肯定会失败或发疯.有时候我们的确没有时间去帮忙.既然如此，我们就需要知道如何有礼貌地说不。

当我们需要说不的时候，有个方法我们可以试试.首先，我们应当要说实话.假如我们真的办不到某件事，我们就应当说不。第二，我们应当记得要客气地拒绝对方的要求。我们需要清晰地表达，但立场也需要真诚并且表示怜悯。一个真正的伙伴会谅解的.最末，我们不必为了说不而觉得有罪恶感.有时候拒绝别人才是我们应当做的'事.它可以替我们自己和别人，都省下很多麻烦。总而言之，我们无法一贯取悦每个人。拒绝恳求是人生的一部分。

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Goodmorning，ladiesandgentlemen，todayiamsohappytostandheretogiveyouaspeech.Orrather，arealstoryofmine.

Thoughwithtimegoingby，icanstillrememberwhatyouoncetoldmeYoushouldbeabravegirl.Smiling，youlookedintomyeyes.Yearin，yearout，nearlymostofmymemoriesarefadinglittlebylittle.Butonlythissimplesentenceremained，withoutbeingforgotteninmylife.

Againandagain，icannotstopmyselffromthinkingaboutit.Soordinary，butsoimpressive，somoving，justlikethebrightestsunshine，ithelpsmegothroughthedarkestnight.Iamsuchasensitivegirlinyourheart.Yousaid，mysorrofulfaciale*pressionmadefeelsodistersssed.However，thereisonethinginevertellyou，thatis，iambeingabiggirlgraduallywithyourwordsandsmiles.Inevertellyouaboutit，foribelieveoneday，youcanseethegreatchangesofmineforyourself.Thatiswhatiwanttodoinreturn.Asiknow，thatwillbethebestgiftforyou.

IsuddenlythinkofasongnamedMYHEARTWILLGOON.Thereisabeautifulsentencegoinglikethis.Youaresafeinmyheart.Morethanonce，iwasmovedtotearsbyit.Iknow，iamalsosafeinyourheart.ihavealreadyforgottenwhenitoldyouiwasgoingtoleaveforAustraliathissummerholiday.Youjustsmiledasusual，gentlyspeaking.Whateveryoudecidetodo，iwillbeinfavorofit，but，justonething，remember，whenyoufelllonelyabroad，donotforgetwearehere，prayingforyou.Weareallaroundyou，faracrossthedistanceandspacebetweenus.iclosedmyeyes，theflashbackstarted.Thememorieswehadtogether，onceweplayedgamesonthepalyground，weplayedjokesoneachother，youalwayswrotealotofsentencesonmyarticlestoencourageme.Andthemostunforgetablething，youtoldme，youbelievedmicouldbeabiggirl.Soonerorlater.

Atthatspecificmoment，isuddenlyunderstoodthemeaningofthissentencetotally.Soonthatday，ismiledasyouusedto，lookingatyou.Thelastwordsisaidwere，keepwalkinginsunshine.

Yes，keepwalkinginsunshine.Isaidtoyou，alsotomyself.Iknowiamnotalonewihtyourpany，andwecankeepwalkinginsunshin