love-and-marriage爱教学讲解课件

LoveandMarriage【5A文】loveandmarriage(爱情与婚姻)

Loveisakindofpassion.Peoplemayfallinlovewitheachotheratfirstsight.Somebodysays:"fallinginlovereturnsustotheemotionsofinfancyandchildhood."sopeopleinlovelivealifeinthepresent,theyalwaysdon'tthinkthefuture.

whatislove?whatisloveLoveispatient,loveiskind.Itdoesnotenvy,itdoesnotboast,itisnotproud.Itisnotrude,itisnotself-seeking。itisnoteasilyangered,itkeepsnorecordofwrongs.Lovedoesnotdelightinevilbutrejoiceswiththetruth.Italwaysprotects,alwaystrusts,alwayshopes,alwaysperseveres.Loveneverfails.爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；

爱是不嫉妒，不自夸，不张狂；

不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处；

不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，

只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。爱是永无止息。

愿得一人心，白首不相离。——卓文君《白头吟》结发为夫妻，恩爱两不疑。——苏武《留别妻》死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与子偕老。——《诗经》有美人兮，见之不忘，一日不见兮，思之如狂。——《凤求凰》LovePoems

HowDoILoveThee?byElizabethBarrettBrowningHowdoIlovethee?Letmecounttheways.IlovetheetothedepthandbreadthandheightMysoulcanreach,whenfeelingoutofsightFortheendsofBeingandidealGrace.Ilovetheetothelevelofeveryday'sMostquietneed,bysunandcandlelight.Ilovetheefreely,asmenstriveforRight;Ilovetheepurely,astheyturnfromPraise.IlovetheewiththepassionputtouseInmyoldgriefs,andwithmychildhood'sfaith.IlovetheewithaloveIseemedtoloseWithmylostsaints--Ilovetheewiththebreath,Smiles,tears,ofallmylife!--and,ifGodchoose,Ishallbutlovetheebetterafterdeath.

我怎样爱你伊丽莎白·芭蕾特·布朗宁我究竟怎样爱你？让我细数详端。我爱你直到我灵魂所及的深度、广度和高度，我在视力不及之处摸索着存在的极致和美的理想。我爱你像最朴素的日常需要一样，就像不自觉地需要阳光和蜡烛。我自由地爱你，像人们选择正义之路，我纯洁地爱你，像人们躲避称赞颂扬。我爱你用的是我在昔日的悲痛里用过的那种激情，以及童年的忠诚。我爱你用的爱，我本以为早已失去（与我失去的圣徒一同）；我爱你用笑容、眼泪、呼吸和生命！只要上帝允许，在死后我爱你将只会更加深情。LovePoemsOncesomesincerelovesuspendedinfrontofme

曾经有一份真挚的爱情摆在我的面前

Ididn’tcherishit

我没有珍惜

only

to

find

myself

extremely

regret

when

it

waslost

等到失去的时候才追悔莫及

Themostpainfulthingisnomorethanthisinthisworld

人世间最痛苦的事情莫过于此

If

God

could

give

me

another

chance,

如果上天能够给我一个重新来过的机会

Iwillspeakthreewordstothatgirl:

Iloveyou

我会对那个女孩子说三个字:‘我爱你’

if

there

is

a

time

limit

for

this

love

如果非要给这份爱加上一个期限

Ihopeitwouldbetenthousandyear

我希望是一万年。WestwardJourney(大话西游)whatismarriage？Marriageisakindofresponsibility.Marriagebasedontwopeople’slove.Itisnotonlyalovestory.Oncetwopeoplestepintomarriage,theytakeresponsibilitiesforfamily.Theylivetogetherandtherecanbeconflicts,complaintsandsomanyothertrifles.LoveisholdinghandsinthestreetMarriageisholdingargumentsinthestreetLoveisdinnerfor2inyourfavoriterestaurantMarriageisChinesetake-outLoveiscuddling（拥抱）onasofaMarriageisdecidingonasofaLoveistalkingabouthavingchildrenMarriageistalkingaboutgettingawayfromchildrenLoveisgoingtobedearlyMarriageisgoingtosleepearlyLoveisaflickeringflameMarriageisaflickeringtelevisionLoveis1drinkand2straws（麦杆，吸管）Marriageis"Don'tyouthinkyou'vehadenough!"Thedifferencebetweenloveandmarriage

theessenceofmarriage:LoveTrustRespectIndependenceCommoninterestCommunicationMarriageexpertsbelievethatcommunicationisthemainfactorleadingtoaharmoniousrelationshipbetweenhusbandandwife.Thepurposeofcommunicationistoknowandunderstandeachother.Themostimportantessenceofmarriage:

CommunicationHowtocommunicateSayingsomethinggoodisbetterthansayingsomethingmuch.Listeningismoreimportantthanspeaking.BecompletelyhonestisnotbetterthanleavingroomforeachotherAppreciationandencouragement,toleranceandunderstanding.如何沟通说得多，不如说得好。倾听比说更重要。完全坦白，不如留有余地。欣赏与鼓励、包容与谅解。培养双方共同的兴趣爱好，寻找共同话题。双方发言的机会要均等。凭借谈话来了解对方。全面了解对方。IncreasecommoninterestsandfindcommontopicsEqualopportunitiesforbothtospeakUnderstandeachotherbytalkingAcomprehensiveunderstandingofeachotherCommunicationskillsbetweenhusbandandwife

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