英语课体验式教学-15班-唐国强,吕春杨,谈增,张虎

MenArefromMarsWomenArefromVenusbackgroundstructurewordssentencesauthorJohnGrayHewasbornin1951HeisanAninternationallyrecognizedexpertinthefieldsofcommunication,relationships,andpersonalgrowth.Hehaswrittenseventeenbooksonrelationshipsandpersonalgrowth,fourofwhicharebest-sellersintheworld.

《MenArefromMars,WomenArefromVenus》1992《MarsandVenusIntheBedroom》1995《MarsandVenusOnaDate》

1997《TheMars&VenusDiet&ExerciseSolution》2003

Thebookwaspublishedin1992.Itisprisedasthemostfamousbooksongenderemotionalrelationshipsintheworldbyfar.ThesalesvolumeandPopularityofthisbookcanevencontrastwiththeBible.Manyyoungpeoplerecognizeitasthe"Bible"whichcanmaintainaharmonyloveandahappymarriage.Itissaidthatthebookwillbemadeintoamovie.Whatdoyouthinkisthebiggestprobleminaloveaffair?1、Toomanyquarrelsandconflicts(26%)

2、havenotacitagreement(18%)

3、Thewomenhaveanothernewlove(14%)

4、cheatedbyherboyfreind(11%)

5、Themanhavenosenseofresponsibility(11%)

6、Heisnottherightmanforahusband(9%)

7、Thewomendon'twanttoassumeresponsibilityfortheloveaffair(8%)

8、sexlife(3%)

一、过多的争吵和冲突(26%)二、没有默契(18%)三、女方另有新欢(14%)四、受到男友欺骗(11%)五、男方没有责任感(11%)六、他不是做丈夫的料(9%)七、女方自己不愿意承担责任(8%)

八、性生活不满意(3%)reasonsforbreakupofloveaffairThereistoomanydifferencesbetweenmenandwomen.Ifnooneinthecouplehavetheinitiativeinhavingachange,thingswouldbegetworse.Ashortmovietellsus14differencesbetweengirlsandboysstructure吕春杨2111207045Elevenminutestoread

Timeisup!Smallproblems1.Weusuallybecomeangryorfrustratedwiththeoppositesexbecausewehaveforgottenthisimportanttruth(para4line6).Smallproblems2.Yet,it(para7line8)doeshappen.Smallproblems3.Menareverytouchyaboutthis(para11line4)becausetheissueofcompetenceissoveryimportanttothem.DeparttopartsPart1(para.1-7)Part2(para.8-20)Part3(para.21-26)threePart1(para.1-7)ThelovebetweentheVenusiansandMartiansismagical.Atfirstitfeelseternal,andweloveeverythingofeachother.Butveryfewpeopleareabletogrowinloveatlast.Part2(para.8-20)TalkaboutthedifferentvaluesbetweenVenusiansandMartiansandtalkseveraldifferentthingsofbeingeasilymisunderstanded.Part3(para.21-26)Differentsuggestionstomenandwomenmakemenandwomenindeedunderstandeachother.Withaword,remembermenarefromMarsandwomenarefromVenus.wordsIntuitive[in'tju:itiv]adj.直觉的；凭直觉获知的；直观的

1.【思想】凭直觉得到的，直觉的

2.【人】有直觉力的

3.【计算机软件等】易懂的，使用简便的词形变化：副词：intuitively

名词：intuitiveness同义词：non-rational，visceral相关短语：intuitivemanner直观方式，直观状态，直觉方式intuitivenotion直觉概念counter-intuitivebehavior反直观行为intuitiveapproach直觉方法intuitivejudgment直觉判断intuitiveknowledge良知intuitiveorderquantity经验定货量intuitiverecoveryprocedure直觉校正过程intuitivethesisofprobability概率的直观论点例句HeseemedtohaveanintuitiveknowledgeofhowIwasfeeling.他好像凭直觉就知道我的感受。Venusiansareveryintuitive,theypridethemselvesonbeingconsiderateoftheneedsandfeelingsofothers.女人具有敏锐的直觉，能处处为他人的需求和情感着想是她们引以为豪的事。Amnesia[æm'ni:ʒə]n.<医>遗忘（症），记忆缺失；善忘；易忘症；健忘派生词：amnesiac同义词：blackout,memoryloss短语：1.anterogradeamnesia顺行性遗忘

2.retrogradeamnesia逆行性遗忘例句Peoplesufferingfromamnesiadon'tforgettheirgeneralknowledgeofobjects.患有失忆症的人不会忘记他们对物品的常识。Amnesiamercifullyobliteratedhismemoryoftheaccident.记忆丧失症幸运地抹掉了他关于那次事故的记忆。Fantasize[ˈfæntəˌsaɪz]vt.

想像；幻想；vi.

沉溺于幻想过去式：

fantasized过去分词：

fantasized现在分词：

fantasizing第三人称单数：fantasizes派生词：fantasist同义词：

musedreamvisualizeenvisionvisionsinvent

daydreamimagineromanceFantasize[ˈfæntəˌsaɪz]例句1.想像；幻想

Ioftenfantasizeaboutlivinginwaysthatarequitedifferentfrommyactuallife.

我总是幻想以那种与现实截然不同的方式生活。

Don‘tfantasizeaboutbigbrother：Iamonlylegend.

别迷恋哥，哥只是个传说。例句2.做性幻想

Researchhasshownthatmenarelikelytofantasizefarmorefrequentlythanwomen.

研究表明男人性幻想的频率要比女人高得多。Repression

[riˈpreʃən]n.压抑；约束；抑制，镇压复数：repressions

同义词：constraint,tyranny,abstinencebondage,silence反义词：freedom例句1.镇压；压制；控制Repressionistheonlylastingphilosophy.镇压是唯一经久耐用的哲学。2.(情感)压抑，控制Hisrepressionbrokeout.他的压抑终于爆发了。Recede[riˈsi:d]vi.

后退；减弱；（价值，品质等）跌落，低落，变坏；收回意见，退出（某种活动）同义词：drawback,dropoff,fallback,moveback反义词：

advance,gain,gainground,goon词根：ced=go,表示"行走,前进"1.Adj.antecedent先行的;以前的(antecede[v.先行,先于]+ent……的→adj.先行的;以前的)unprecedented前所未有的(un+precedent[n.先例;惯例]+ed……的→无先例的)同根词同根词2.N.procedure程序;手续(pro在前+ced行走,前进+ure表名词→在前面走完的程序)precedent先例;惯例(precede[v.在先,优于]+ent→预先走的东西→先例)同根词3.V.secede脱离;退出(se分开+ced行走,前进+e→分开走→脱离)recede撤回;交还[领土](re后+ced行走,前进+e→向后走→撤退)retrocede交还,归还(retro向后+ced走+e→往后走→把……归还)例句1.退回;后退;远离Assherecededhewavedgoodbye.她离开的时候他挥手告别。2.（质量）下降;（问题或疾病等）逐渐减弱，好转JustasIstartedtothinkthatIwasnevergoingtogetwell,theillnessbegantorecede.正当我开始觉得自己永远都好不了了的时候，我的病开始好转了。例句3.（前额的头发）脱落Thebartenderhadafloridfaceandarecedinghairline.酒吧男招待面色红润，前额有点脱发。4.（常指牙龈因为感染）萎缩Ifuntreated,thegumsrecede,becomeswollenandbleed...如果不进行治疗，牙龈会开始萎缩、红肿和出血。Unsolicited

[ˈʌnsəˈlisitid]adj.未被恳求的，主动提供的同义词：voluntary,option,unasked例句：Igivelotsofunsolicitedpersonaladvicetoco-workers.我经常多管闲事，给同事出瘦主意。Humiliate

[hjuˈmilieit]vt.

使蒙羞，使丢脸，使出丑；屈辱，羞辱词根：hum=earth,表示“土,地”同义词：

shame,dishonor,offend,mortify,insult,disgrace,embarrass同义词辨析disgrace,humiliate,shame,dishonour这些动词均含“使丢脸，使受耻辱”之意。disgrace：侧重在别人，尤其在众人面前丢脸。humiliate：强调受辱者自尊心的损坏。shame：指由不光彩或不道德的行为引起的惭愧感或羞耻感。dishonour：有时可与disgrace换用，但前者是指因失去荣誉所致。例句1、Shewashumiliatedbecauseherchildrenbehavedsobadly.她为她的孩子表现不好而感到羞辱。2、Whatrighthadtheytobullyandhumiliatepeoplelikethis?凭什么把人欺侮到这个地步呢？Odds

[ɔdz]n.

希望，可能性；几率，胜算；逆境同义词：possibility,probability常用词组：itmakesnoodds：(非正式)没有关系，无关紧要lay(或give)odds：（打赌时）让对方一筹overtheodds：（尤指价格）超过正常的takeodds：占优势例句1.机会；可能性；几率Theoddsarethatyouaregoingtofail.你很可能会失败。2.（赌博中的）赔率GavinJones,whoput£25onEugene,atoddsof50to1,haswon£1,250.加文·琼斯以50比1的赔率赌尤金胜，他下注25英镑，赢了1,250英镑。例句3.atodds（与…）不和；（与…）有矛盾；（与…）意见不一致HewasatoddswithhisPrimeMinister.他与首相不和。4.theoddsareagainst

（成功）可能性小，希望渺茫Hereckonedtheoddsareagainsttheschemegoingahead.他认为目前实施这项计划的希望渺茫。

Sentence张虎1Wedesirethemtowantwhatwewantandfeelthewaywefeel.Wemistakenlyassumethatifourpartnersloveustheywillreactandbehaveincertainwaysthewayswereactandbehavewhenwelovesomeone.（Para.4line7）我们渴望他们和自己有共同的需求和感受。我们错误地假定，如果伴侣爱我们，那他们的行为反应就会跟我们对他们爱意举动和反应一模一样。2Fallinginloveisalwaysmagical.Itfeelseternal,asiflovewilllastforever.Wenaivelybelievethatsomehowweareexemptfromtheproblemsourparentshad,freefromtheoddsthatlovewilldie,assuredthatitismeanttobeandthatwearedestinedtolivehappilyeverafter.(Para.5)恋爱总是奇异的，它让人感到永恒，好像爱情至死不渝。我们天真地相信自己可以避免父母亲会有的问题，不会遇上爱情死亡的机会，确信爱情就是两人在一起，注定永远幸福的共同生活。3Fromthosewhoareabletosustainlovelongenoughtogetmarried,only50percentstaymarried.Outofthosewhostaytogether,possiblyanother50percentarenotfulfilled.Theystaytogetheroutofloyaltyandobligationorfromthefearofstartingover.（Para.7line4）那些能够维持长久爱情直到结婚的人们，他们之间只有50%人们没有离婚。除去那些在一起的人，可能另外的50%也是不能够实现的。他们彼此没有忠诚没有责任的生活在一起，或是由于对重新开始的恐惧继续一起生活。4Thisishardforamantocomprehend.Hecancomeclosetounderstandingawoman'sexperienceofsharingandrelatingbycomparingittothesatisfactionhefeelswhenhewinsarace,achievesagoal,orsolvesaproblem.(Para.16line3)男人很难理解这点。他只能藉由赢得赛跑、达到目标、解决问题等的满足感经验，试着接近、了解女人分享与建立关系的经验.5Awomanhasnoconceptionofthismalesensitivitybacauseforheritisanotherfeatherinherhatifsomeoneofferstohelpher.Itmakesherfeellovedandcherished.Butofferinghelptoamancanmakehimfeelincompetent,weak,andevenunloved.(Para.19)而女人全然无视于男人的这种敏感度，她认为若有人肯帮助她，那是在她的帽子上添饰羽毛。让她觉得自己可爱又受珍视；男人却以为接受帮助是软弱、没能力、不可爱的表现。6Asaresulthefeelsmistrusted,unappreciated,andstopsc