关于爱的英语演讲稿

1、关于爱的英语演讲稿关于爱的英语演讲稿15/15关于爱的英语演讲稿关于爱的英语演讲稿情LoveEversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifiedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.Infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblemswehaveconfrontedwith.however,nobo

2、dyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.Loveislikeahugeboundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefromit.Likeitorno

3、t,wearealwaysentangledinit.Itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyformthatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.Itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.Eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsfa

4、ce.Thosewhocanbreathethroughitisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.Loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.notlikemonkeykingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermotherspregnancyofaboutnin

5、emonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,wellseenoend.Familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.Buthow

6、manyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedoneAndhowmanydontexpectrepaymentandrelaxed.Conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.Thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.Butsinceitsverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistre

7、ssesemerge.Parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythosefrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.Ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andtheyllevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcantunderstandwhytheirchildrendontcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforth

8、echildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.Nevertheless,onesexperiencedetermineshisideology.Youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,especiallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.Oncethere

9、isgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.Objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.Inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.Theywouldcomplainifyourecon

10、omicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.Thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.Onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.Asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justast

11、heoldsayinggoes“thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.Grannylie,adistantkinsfolk,inadreamoftheredmansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyjiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.Liumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesifthejiafam

12、ilyhadbeenapoorone.anothersayinggoes“closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhattheTVseriesprogramlielagoondiscloses.Itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendiss

13、olvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.Familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldntgotoofarintoit,otherwise,wellsurelygetlost.Loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.Familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.Duetothedifferentexperiences

14、andtastes,stayingtogethererrtemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.HowcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstandingParentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsi

15、bilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.Exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc.Noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichnee

16、dnttobefussedabout.Whatsworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.Soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.Thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.Wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.Aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatew

17、ithothers.Thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends.Somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.Oncetheresnothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.Somearespirit

18、ualfriendswhosharecommonambitions,pursuitsandeducation.“Theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswiththegood-for-nothings”.Thebestexampleswouldbeyouboyarandthongziqioftheancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirloftycharactersandmutualunderstandingand

19、appreciation.Theycaredverylittleaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemensfriendshipaspureaswater”.Thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongstothosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.Theyarereadynotonlytosharewealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrothersliu,guanandzhanginthenovelroma

20、nceofthethreekingdoms.Weallwishtohavethiskindoffriendship,butitsofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.Fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.Generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justaschairmanmoasays“ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.Buttranscendage,sex,nationality,sta

21、teandeconomicconditions.Tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.Friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstudying,workingandfighting.Thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusuallyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.However,fraternalloveisnotstable.Beingawayfortooalongtime,losing

22、allcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.Oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.Atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttogetherbecameenemiesintheend.Quietafewoftheemperorsinancientchinaevenk

23、illedthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.Thetapingheavenlykingdomwouldnothavefailedifithadntbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthewhomfirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.whatelseweneedtopayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchofthe

24、iroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.Theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesitsbetternottomeeteachotheragain.AstheChineseproverbgoes“friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforthreemonths”.Itsno

25、tsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunderstanding,toleranceandsacrifice.Anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.Amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.Theresnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperQuasimodointhehunchbackofNotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlEsmeralda),norkindness(Hit

26、leralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).Trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.Itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.Truelovedoesntneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeo

27、ftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.Loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,butDoesntalwaysdependonlovetomaintain.Long-lastingmarriagecaneventuallyturnintoakindoffamilylove,akindofcompanionshipwhichpreservesthecompanionbutlosesthepassion.Loveisoftenawinkoftheeye

28、,orasmilethathintsmutualunderstanding.Inspiteofthegreatdistancebetweenthem,peoplemayfallinloveincidentally.Hencethesaying“adistantmarriageistiedupwithamysteriousthread”.Loveneedspassion,anditcanstandbumpsandstumbles,upsanddowns,complaintsandblames.Whenitturnsintoapoolofwater,especiallydeadwater,with

29、outanybillowsorwaves,itstimeforittodie.Delicaciesaretasty,buteatingeverydaycanstillmakeoneloseappetite.Happinessiswhateveryonelongsfor,buttoomuchhappinesscanspoilpeoplewhomaynotcareaboutthehappinesstheyalreadyhave.Itsuniversaltoliveinhappinesswithoutknowingit.Thesameistruewithlove.Veryfewpeoplecanlo

30、vethesamepersonpassionatelyalltheirlives.Alllovestoriescometoanendnomatterhowbeautifultheyarewhichalsodemonstratethechangeabilityoflove.Whatonehasbeenchasingwildlymayturnintosomethingonewantstogetridofdesperatelyintheend.Besides,loveisusuallyblind,especiallythosewhofallinloveatthefirstsight.Atthever

31、ybeginning,bothtrytodemonstratetheirbeautifulsideandcoveruptheirweakness.Fooledbythemysteriouscoloroflove,oneoftenmistakestheweaknessesasmerits.however,astimepassesby,frequentcontactsmakeonebored,andevenmeritsbecomedefects,andthentheendofloveiscoming.Whatsmore,therearethecapriciousmenandwomenwhoneve

32、rtakeloveseriously,leavingthedevotedonessufferingalone.Thesayingthatisalwaysabandonedbytheheartlesshasalmosttruthofloveaffairs.Whatwecantneglectisthatlovethedevotedbecomethemayturnintohatred,andloversmayalsobecomeenemies.Thebestproofisthenumerousdivorces.Eventhoughtrueloveishardtofindnowadays,westil

33、lcanseesometrueandinfatuatedboysandgirlswhoreadilygiveuptheirfamilies,theirparents,theirstudies,theircareersandeventheirlivesforlove.lovesopassionately,crazilyandwildlythattheyhateanyonewhoisagainsttheirlove,andmayevenharmorhimifheinsistsonhisobjection.TheykillLovehasmagicalpowerthatcanexploitpeople

34、spotentialabilities,bringpeoplespositivefactorsintofullplay,andprovidepeoplewiththecouragetofacehasmiraculouspowerwhichcanstartletheuniverseandmovethegodsbyattractingtheheavenlycelestialscomingdowntoearth(thelovestoryofthecowboyandtheweavinggirl),andbyturningghostsintohuman(strangetalesofliao-zhai).

35、Lovecantranscendageandgeneration(dr.sunyat-senandmadamsongqingling;luxunandxuguangping).Lovecanshowcontemptforallconventionsandprejudices;lovecanhealwoundsandcurediseases,andlovecanreadjustpeoplesstateofmind.Ofcourse,theresultwouldbetheoppositeonceithurts.(4)Greatmenyearnfortrueloveevenmorethanordin

36、arypeople.Sincetheancienttimes,somanyheroescouldnthelpfallingintothetrapoflovethatthesex-traphasbeenregardedasoneofthe36stratagemsinmilitarytactics.Fuchai,thekingofthewustate,couldntbesparedofthistrap,andgeneralsdongzhuoandlubufelldeeplyintoitwhilexiangyu,thekingofthewesternChustate,bidfarewelltohis

37、belovedconcubineintears.Peoplemayhavetopayveryhighprice,eventheirillustriousnameforthelovetheylongforeventhoughitmaylastforonlyaveryshorttime.Nonethelessnoonecantearhimselfawayfromlove.Peopleoftensaythattheirearthlyaffinityisnotyetfinished,butinfactitistheloveaffinitythatisthemostdifficulttofinish.L

38、oveisshapelessandpriceless.Wecanblamenobodywhencapturedbyit.Lovecannotbeforced,norcanitbepretended.Sympathyisnotlove,neitherisgratitude.Lovemustbegeneratedfromtheheart,andexpressedinactions.Itcannotbecalledlovewithoutpassionsandadeeplongingfromthebottomoftheheart.Theresnoimpassablegulfbetweenfamilyl

39、oveandfraternallove.Somefamilylovemayturnintofriendship.Atthesametime,naturalbarriersdontexisteitherbetweenfraternalloveandamatorylove.Somefriendshipmaydevelopintoamatorylove.Thesameistruewithamatorylovewhichmaychangeintofamilyloveafteralongtimeofmutualgrindingandpolishing.TheclosertherelationshipandthehighertHeexpectationsare,themoredifficultitistogetalongwitheachother.Familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylovearethreemainhumanfeelings.Ifhandledwell,theycanbringusextremehappiness,whilehandledimproperly,willbringusgreatsufferings.wealthandofhighsocia