英语短文-如何成为最有魅力的人,请别忽视来自自身的吸引力

1、英语短文如何成为最有魅力的人，请别忽视来自自身的吸引力有没有吸引力并不取决于你赚多少钱，也不取决于你的老爸是谁。而且，这完全不取决于你是否长得像汤姆克鲁斯或者他的妻子凯蒂赫 尔姆斯。这仅仅取决于一些简单的细节，像汤姆克鲁斯一样的人也不一定能办到。而来自任何种族，任何国家，任何背景的人，都能成为世界上最有吸引力的人。it s not about howmuch money you make, and it s not about who your daddy is. and no, it sdefinitely not about whether you look like tom cruise

2、 or his wife katieholmes .what it is about is these simple things, things that maybeeven a person like tom cruise does not have.and note, we are notnecessarily talking about sexual (male attract female) things here.we re talking about being attractive in general, whether it s on a jobinterview or ju

3、st gaining the respect of your colleagues . . .ask lots of questionsin other words, behumble. if you come across as aknow-it-all (even if you really do knowit all!)， it reallypushes people away. rather, asking lots and lots ofquestions (even dumb ones) makes people feel like you care, you can betrus

4、ted, and you are. humble.great posturehave you ever seen apotentially very attractive person, but they have terrible posture?it s all ruined, isn t it? or perhaps you have seen someone who perhapscould be quite ugly but they have great posture and so suddenly theyare really attractive? it s true. yo

5、ur posture says a lot about you -it says whether you have confidence, or simply if you really care.talking physically, it is one of the most important physicalcharacteristics you need!walk like you mean itwalk with anattitude. walk like you know where you re going, and do so with goodposture. walk l

6、ike you llrun over anyone who even attempts to hassleyou. if you walk like this, you ll be spotted from a mile away.stay busyre told todo you really knowthe power of this? we stay busy to ward off depression andfeelings of anxiety. butdid you know you should also stay busy to bereally attractive?it

7、s true. always have something to do. have youever seensomeone just sitting around, doing nothing? how unattractive.always be busy with something, even if for somereason you have to makesomething up.show your pearly whites (or just smile)smile more, nomatter how ugly your teeth are. i m not kidding a

8、bout this one. it snot all about the teeth. ifyou are smiling genuinely, you can draweveryone for 100 meters around to you.keep your lips smoothmoisturize yourlips. it s hard to even look someone in the face if their lips arecracked and dry. and it s hardto believe that they really care aboutanythin

9、g. that s justthe way we humans think. so for cryin out loudcarry around a tube of chap stick around with you . they re only likeabuck a pop, and they ll last you a while even if you put iton asregularly as i am eluding to! and no, women, it s notnecessarily aboutthe lipstick (although, yes, there i

10、s a time and place for it) . it smore about the simple, naturalbeauty of supple lips. caution! don tput so muchon that it s just scary, however. but i didn t need to tellyou that, right?wear what fitswear clothing thatfits you. too tight, people are distracted. too loose, you just looksloppy. for wo

11、men,wearing tight pants or shirts is not attractive. ifyou ve got it,don t flaunt it - it ruins it for your man (there are afew things best left to the imagination, honey). loose, slightly clingyor drapey things are best, or else things that just fityou and yourshape well but not tight. men, us wome

12、nwith taste and style reallydon t know why some guys think their pants sagging down is somehowattractive. it s not! and neither is huge, wide leg pants. both justtell us you don t really care. you re following the crowd. wear thingsthat fit you nicely, please . . . and for goodness sake, both sexes,

13、stay away from logos and printed shirts! most people you may ask do notfind this attractive. stop being some company s billboard, and show us you.be interested in other manbe interested inthe other person. again, ask them questions. don t talk about yourself.remove attention fromyourself. if you are

14、 genuinely interested inthe person, it willllcome across. and if you want to talk aboutyourself, you find that putting the other person first actuallyopens him upto return the favor and ask you questions. see how funthis is?put away inhibitionsok, there is a timeand a place to play shy. but, forthe

15、most part, putting awayinhibitions makes people feel comfortable around you. even if you goahead and do something and totally mess it up, it really makes everyonecomfortablearound you and want to be around you. people are fragile,especially those who don t put into practice whati msaying in thisarticle. and so that meansthey need someone like you to lean on.so, yes it ispossible to be the most attractiveperson in the world. if you ve noticed the ring throughoutthe article, it has a lot to do with ju