love-and-marriage(自己宿舍做的哦-花了一周的时间-不过最后拿了A+)课件

1、&Love Marriage -By 516第1页，共37页。第2页，共37页。“有令人羡慕的爱情，未必就有令人满意 的婚姻。” 陈冰爱情走入婚姻不外乎三种下场：沉淀、溶解、挥发。 朱德庸 爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。 张小娴 第3页，共37页。Everyone desire and pursues happiness.But happiness means different people.第4页，共37页。Most of people think the happiness is love,and marriage.Because love and marriage repres

2、ent respect、understand、trust、concern、faithful第5页，共37页。Then,what is love,and what is marriage?第6页，共37页。About this survey:QQ1What do you think the romantic and realistic?QHow about your grandparents marriage?QWhat do you think marry stand for ?QWhats your view about marry?第7页，共37页。What do you think th

3、e romantic and realistic? Young people tend to think that real life as dramatic（激动人心） and fascinating（迷人的） as it is in the novels and movies,while more experienced adults disregard this opinion.Adults think this kind of naive（天真的） daydream will only be destroyed by later experiences and every one sh

4、ould learn to get used to tedious（适应） everyday life.第8页，共37页。How about your grandparents marriage? Grandfathers marriage took place more than 50 years ago,before the liberation(解放） of China,and it was traditional and old-fashioned.The two did not meet each other before the wedding,nor did they know

5、any details about their engagement(订婚 约定）.Instead,they completely conformed to their elders orders. 第9页，共37页。How about your grandparents marriage? Grandmother had many children,one after the other.She accepted all these hardship without complaint,for how could a housewife say a word against men in a

6、 male-dominated（统治） society not until 15 years after they were married,when grandfather transferred to work in the city we live in now,could they really start life as husband-and-wife.第10页，共37页。Whats your view about marriage? Many couples live a happy life because their marriage is based on true lov

7、e .On the contrary,some people marry for money only,and their marriage is destined（注定） to be a failure. Marriage based on true love lasts and cannot be easily split up whereas marriage without love does not endure(持续） and may end in divorce.第11页，共37页。What do you think marry stand for ?1. Marriage st

8、ands for some responsibilities. If you get married withsomebody, you should be honest to him or her, and not do anything that is not faithful to your love.第12页，共37页。What do you think marry stand for ?2. Love is marriages mother, but there are always some poor orphans（单亲）.People marry for different r

9、easons and not only for love. Maybe theymarry for money, for promotion, for repayment, for parents or someothers orders, and even just for sex. 第13页，共37页。Does getting married mean loosing your freedom? Why?Absolutely not, both husband and wife can work and communicate with friends normally.But,to so

10、me extent,married people will not as free as before ,after all they have to operate the family.2. Some one said marriage is the cage of love, marriage is the tomb of love, love is the shackle of freedom第14页，共37页。Whats your purpose for love?I think love is the final goal that marriage, if you love is

11、 not to marry, its not represent that your love finally results well, I think most of people are married with the intention of it, so I think that love is the process, of course, the purpose of marriage is another new starting point. 第15页，共37页。Whats your problem with your parents about the love ? So

12、me people said it is boring that their parents take them too serriously ,telling them what to do ,how to do,what is wrong,what is right,this make they feel ill at ease.Children often complain that their parents cannot understand them,while parents feel sorry that thear children seldom show them prop

13、er respect and obedience.第16页，共37页。Is love the Only Basis for Marriage? For most people, they think that “being in love” is love , which is their biggest mistake. The experience of “falling in love” is a result, first and foremost, of sexual desire. That is why mothers will not fall in love with the

14、ir children and brothers and sisters will not fall in love with each other. 第17页，共37页。Is love the Only Basis for Marriage? There is no relation between the intensity of love and the stability of a marriage. When the couple begins to live together day in, day out, after the honeymoon, the reality bec

15、omes all too clear.第18页，共37页。Is love the Only Basis for Marriage? There is no more magic, hence the saying: “marriage is the tomb of love.”Love may not lead to marriage, just like not every couple has theirown babies. Many kinds of obstacles can separate the two persons in love from each other.第19页，

16、共37页。What do you want toChoose?第20页，共37页。Love or bread ? Have a (some) boyfriend(s) or girlfriend(s) now or the pass,yes or no?Fall in love with someone during your collage,yes or no? 1.2.3.第21页，共37页。What do you want to choose?Love13.04%86.96%Bread第22页，共37页。What do you want to choose?37.5%62.5%YesNo

17、第23页，共37页。What do you want to choose?8.6%91.4%YesNo第24页，共37页。选择你爱的人？还是爱你的人？ 第25页，共37页。Difficult to choose, but I hope I can find a man I love,and he also loves me. It will be better if he loves me deeply.第26页，共37页。Choose a man who loves me very much,but i just like him. sometimes i feel very happy.

18、but most of the time, im unhappy. so i think if i have a second chance, i will choose one i love.第27页，共37页。Why waste time in pursuing a person who dosent love you? 第28页，共37页。To love and to be loved are happy do you agree with me on this point ? 第29页，共37页。I hope I can find a man who loves me and I al

19、so love him. May be i am a perfect girl . But i know it is difficult to choose.第30页，共37页。It is difficult for choose. in the past few days,i faced to this question. but now ,Im single. because the man I liked have to go abroad,the man loved me read the words from my space,so he knew I loved sam compl

20、etely,so he left. this is the result!第31页，共37页。People always want to choose the one who he or she loved ,and they all want to be loved,unfortunatelly,it always cant come true,may at last ,i cant find the one i loved ,and will loose the one who loved me ,so i will lived with a man i didnt love enough,and he didn t love me enough.第32页，共37页。If you have not fallen in love with someone ,you have no right to say that !Because you never know what will you do when you face that situation! But I know that I will choes the one I love !第33页，共37页。My opinion To sum it up, matu