练习双语：这8种迹象表明 你喜欢的他只把你当朋友VIP

1、练习双语：这8种迹象表明 你喜欢的他只把你当朋友当你喜欢上某个人时，你会特别注意他的行为，迫切想了解他的心意，但又可能因为担 心被拒绝而没有告白的勇气。好在除了直截了当的表白，你还可以通过观察一些迹象来判断 他的心意。如果你和他的关系之间存在以下8个问题，那么他可能真的只想和你做朋友。You always make the first move 你总是主动Youve gone to the movies, grabbed coffee, and even hit up an amusement park together. You had a fantastic time together a

2、nd you cant wait to do it again. Thats when you realize, though, that hes never the one extending an invite.你们已经看过电影、喝过咖啡，甚至去过游乐场。你们一起度过了美好的时光，而你对 下次约会迫不及待。然而，此时你却发现，他从没有主动邀请你过。If hes never initiating contact with you, he might be trying to send a message that he*s not looking for a romantic relatio

3、nship. He might be more than willing to tag along as a buddy, though!如果他从不主动地联系你，那么他可能在向你释放信号：他并不想和你谈恋爱。他可能 更想做你的好朋友。Pro tip: Take a break from reaching out if youre always the one making the first move. Either he will miss you and hit you up or your adventures will come to an end. Its better to kno

4、w, right?小贴士：如果你总是那个主动的人，那就暂停联系吧。他要么会想你，约你见面，要么 你们的关系可能到此结束。好歹也要有个结果，对吧？He talks up his friends他谈论他的朋友When its time to meet up, you make a real effort to put your best foot forward. Youve showered and feel confident, youve got great things to talk about, and you easily establish thatyoure a pretty g

5、reat catch.当你们要见面时，你煞费苦心以最佳状态出现。你洗了澡，信心满满，你准备了很多谈 资，你轻松建立了一个魅力十足的形象。Why, then, is he talking about his friends? If it feels like hes playing matchmaker and suggests that you meet some of his boys, thats really not a good sign.然而，他怎么谈论起他的好朋友了？如果他好像开始扮演起媒人的角色，并且建议你认 识一些他的好哥们儿。这并不是什么好迹象。Pro tip: Ask hi

6、m to describe the kind of guy that he thinks is perfect for you. If its the opposite of who he is, youve got your answer.小贴士：问他认为什么样的男生最适合你。如果回答和他本人相反，你就清楚答案了。You hang out in groups 你们和一群人一起出去Youve been dreaming of a little one-on-one time with your crush. You cant wait to have him alone so that you

7、 can build up the courage to tell him how you feel and see if theres any hope for a future together.你已经在幻想和喜欢的他独处的时光。你迫不及待地想要和他单独待在一起，这样你就 能鼓起勇气告诉他你的感受，并确认你们未来是否有可能在一起。The problem is, though, that every time you make plans, he brings an entourage! If hes surrounded by a group of friends whenever you

8、re together, he might be putting you in the friend zone.然而，问题是每当你有所计划时，他总会带上他的跟班！如果每次你们在一起，他都 会带上一群朋友，那么他可能是把你放在朋友的位置。Pro tip: Invite him to do something that is clearly meant for two people and see what he says. If he balks or mentions how much better it would be if you went as a group, he probably

9、 doesnt want to be alone with you.小贴士：邀请他做一些明显只能两个人做的事，看看他的反应。如果他推三阻四，并表 示一群人一起出去玩比较好时，他可能不想和你单独出去。Your relationship is text-based 你们的关系仅限于文字Maybe youre in a position where you wish you could actually see your crush under any circumstances even if its with a group of 50 of your closest friends for b

10、reakfast. You just want to see him!你可能每时每刻都想见到喜欢的人一一即使是和50个密友一起吃早餐的时候。你就是 想要见到他。When the guy youre interested in is happy to communicate by text but always finds a way to get out of meeting in person, he might not want to take the relationship to the next level.当那个人只喜欢和你短信交流，却总找借口拒绝单独见面时，他可能并不想要和你进一

11、 步发展。Pro tip: If he doesnt have much of a social life at all, it could just be that this is a really busy time in his life. Let him know youd love to hang out when he has the time. If he never makes time for you, move on.小贴土：如果他根本没有什么社交生活，那么也许他真的是太忙了。让他知道当他有空 时，你想和他出去。如果他从来不曾为你腾出时间，那么就放弃吧。He talks a

12、bout other girls他谈论其他女孩Its one thing if you talk about a variety of other people including exes during your conversation, but its another if the guy you like is constantly talking about women he finds attractive or interesting.如果你们聊天时谈到其他各种人，比如各种前任，这是一回事儿，但是如果你喜欢的对 象不停谈论他感兴趣的女生，这又是另一回事儿。Pay attentio

13、n to the tone of these interactions and take them at face value. If he is trying to build a relationship with you, he will focus on getting to know you better instead of wasting time talking about other women.注意这些对话的语气，予以重视。如果他想要和你维持良好的关系，他会花更多的注意力在你身上，而不会浪费时间讨论其他女性。Pro tip: If hes telling you about

14、 the dates hes going on, he clearly wants you to know that hes seeing other people.小贴士：如果他告诉你他的约会计划，那么他就是在明确告诉你他有喜欢的人了。He doesnt make an effort他从不为你花心思When we like someone, we tend to go that extra mile to impress them. We might brush up on the things that they like, surprise them with their favorit

15、e meal, or even just put a little more effort into feeling and looking our best.当我们喜欢上一个人时，为了给对方留下深刻印象，我们往往会多付出一些。可能会牢 记他们喜欢的东西，准备他们最爱的食物制造惊喜，或者多花点心思让自己处于最佳状态。Does the guy youre into look like he just rolled out of bed every time you see him? Does he forget your interests and let you make all of the

16、 plans? Do you feel unimportant? If so, you might want to find a new crush.你每次看到喜欢的对象时，他是不是看起来像刚起床的样子？他会忘记你的兴趣，让你 制定所有的计划吗？你有被轻视的感觉吗？如果是这样，你可能要换个人喜欢了。Pro tip: If you feel like this is a one-sided relationship, even as a friendship, you need to decide whether its truly worth your time.小贴士：如果你觉得这是一段一头

17、热的关系，即使是朋友关系，你也要决定是否有必要 在上面浪费时间。He refers to you as a friend他把你称作朋友One of the easiest ways to determine your status is to pay attention to how the guy you like introduces you to his friends. You should also take note of how they react to meeting you.要想确定你在他心中的位置，最简单的方法之一就是看他如何向他的朋友们介绍你。你 也应该注意他们见到你时

18、的反应。Consider it a positive sign if he uses your first name (bonus points if people seem to have heard of you!), but if he makes a point of referring to you as his friend/* theres a good chance that he doesnt want you to become more than that.如果他介绍你时不带姓地称呼你，那这是个积极的信号(如果他的朋友中有人似乎听说 过你，那么可以加分)。但是如果他称你为

19、他的朋友，那很可能说明，他不想和你超越这 层关系。Pro tip: If he puts extra emphasis on the fact that you are just friends in front of other women, take the hint.小贴士：如果他在其他女人面前特别强调你和他仅仅是朋友那就死心吧。Be open to friendship接受朋友关系While it might be disappointing to learn that your crush doesnt share your romantic feelings, dont shut down the possibil