M4Unit2Thatmustbehardonyoureading

1、ReadingRevision of Listening A&B1.1.与某人有矛盾与某人有矛盾2.2.偶尔，有时偶尔，有时3.3.保持干净保持干净4.4.找到解决方法找到解决方法5.5.背后说某人坏话背后说某人坏话6.6.把。放好把。放好7.7.度过（困难）度过（困难）8.8.改变想法改变想法9.9.各种各样各种各样have a problem with sb.once in a whilekeep.cleanwork outtalk behind ones backput.awaycome throughchange ones mindall sorts of Preview of

2、 passage A倾诉；倾诉；带来带来一批，一群一批，一群越。越。越。越。开放性问题开放性问题1.pour out2.bring in3. a collection of4. the more .the more5. open-ended questionsPassage ALearn to Be Friendly and Learn to Be Friendly and CharmingCharmingFree talkLead inWhat can you do to make yourself look friendly and charming?lSmile. lListen.lHu

3、mourous.lAppreciate.DiscussionWhy do you think these qualities can make you charming?Read passage A and match the qualities with the Read passage A and match the qualities with the functionsfunctions. 2 Fill in the blanks with the information you 2 Fill in the blanks with the information you have go

4、t from passage Ahave got from passage ATo make a person socially popular, the very first quality is_.Asking_questions will encourage the speaker to pour out all to you.Laughter is needed in our lives and the lives of people around us. The more you make your friends_,the more they will_.To be friendl

5、y and to be charming is not an art. The only need is to pay_attention to ourselves and_to others.smileopen-endedlaughenjoy your companylessmore3. Discuss in groups: What else can be done to improve friendships?Language points1.We all have different style of talking, laughing, smiling ,responding and

6、 communicating._ respond v. 回答，对回应，比answer 更正式。如： She didnt respond to my question. 她没有回答我的问题。 I offered to help him, but he didnt respond. 我表示愿意帮他，但他没有回应。 respond to a letter respond to a question respond with a smile 我们每个人说话，发笑，微笑，回应和交流的风格都不尽相同。我们每个人说话，发笑，微笑，回应和交流的风格都不尽相同。回信回信回复问题回复问题以微笑回答以微笑回答2.

7、What are the qualities needed to improve the relationship between our friends and us? A. improve意为 “_”例如 ：The company has improved its quality of service. _ B. 本句中，needed to improve the relationship between our friends and us是_,修饰_.哪些特质可以改善我们与朋友之间的关系呢？哪些特质可以改善我们与朋友之间的关系呢？改进，改善改进，改善公司已经改善了服务质量。公司已经改善

8、了服务质量。后置定语后置定语qualities3. The very first quality is smile. _very意为 “_”,常用于形容词最高级之前， e.g.All papers should be turned in by 5 p.m. tomorrow at the very latest.4. Ask open-ended questions. That will encourage the speaker to pour out all to you._lopen-ended adj._lpour out _lencourage sb. to do sth._ 第一个

9、特质就是微笑第一个特质就是微笑十足，完全十足，完全所有论文最迟于明天五点前上交。所有论文最迟于明天五点前上交。 问一些开发式的问题。这样可以鼓励说话者向你倾诉所有。问一些开发式的问题。这样可以鼓励说话者向你倾诉所有。无限制的无限制的（感情或说话）奔涌，迸发（感情或说话）奔涌，迸发鼓励某人做某事鼓励某人做某事4. Bring in some laughter._bring in_5. The more they laugh, the more they will enjoy your company._the morethe more意为 “越越”,例如：_ _ you practise, _

10、_ _ you will master.你练习都越多，你掌握的技巧就越多。他们笑得越多就会越喜欢你的陪伴。他们笑得越多就会越喜欢你的陪伴。The morethe more skills注入一些笑声吧！注入一些笑声吧！引入引入5. To be friendly and to be charming is not an art.A . a r t 的 常 用 意 是的 常 用 意 是 “ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ” , 但 在 本 句 中 意 为但 在 本 句 中 意 为 “_”,尤指通过实践得来的技巧，例如：尤指通过实践得来的技巧，例如：Writing with both hands at

11、the same time is an art._B. 本句中，本句中，to be friendly and to be charming 是不定式，是不定式，用做用做_.成为一个友好而有魅力的人并不难做到。成为一个友好而有魅力的人并不难做到。艺术艺术技巧，技能技巧，技能同时用双手写字是一种技巧。同时用双手写字是一种技巧。主语主语Passage BMyths about RelationshipsMyths about RelationshipsPreview of passage B遇到遇到最初最初现实中现实中逐渐消失逐渐消失曾经曾经停止做某事停止做某事与。有关与。有关事实上事实上对。有好处

12、对。有好处产生神奇作用产生神奇作用e across2.at first3. in reality4. wear off5. used to6.stop doing7.have to do with.8.in actuality9.do.good10.do wonders 2.Love at first sight.1.Opposites attract.3.Honesty is the best policy.Myths about RelationshipsMyths about RelationshipsMyths about Relationships6. Complete the fo

13、llowing table based on passage B.Opposites attract.Love at first sight.Honesty is the best policy.Remember that the attraction can often fade as quickly as it arrives.Decide whats most important to you and find someone who has a similar list.Remember to tell the truth about the important things, the

14、 small, unimportant lies wont be problems.7. Complete the outline of passage B.Introduction: Here are several common myths about relationship that people believe.Myth 1: Opposites attract.Myth 2: Love at first sight.Myth 3: Honesty is the best policy.Conclusion: Its important to look at how relation

15、ships work in a clear and logical way and to believe facts instead of myths.Language points1.In my practice as a relationship counsellor, I come across people nearly every day who believe common myths about relationships._A. come across意为“碰到”，例如：I came across my old childhood friend on the street on

16、e day._B.本句中，who believe common myths about relationships是_,修饰_在我作为人际关系顾问工作的期间，我几乎每天都能碰到一些在我作为人际关系顾问工作的期间，我几乎每天都能碰到一些人，他们对人际关系的理解都存在误区。人，他们对人际关系的理解都存在误区。有一天我在街上碰到我儿时的朋友。有一天我在街上碰到我儿时的朋友。定语从句定语从句people2. Many people believe that finding a partner who is very different from themselves is a great relati

17、onship match. _ be different from意为“_” 本句中，that引导了一个_,在该从句中，finding a partner是_,who is very different from themselves 是_,修饰_.许多人认为找一个与自己截然不同的伴侣是绝配。许多人认为找一个与自己截然不同的伴侣是绝配。与与不同的不同的宾语从句宾语从句主语主语定语从句定语从句partner3. But while it may be exciting at first to be with someone not like you, in reality, once the e

18、arly excitement wears off, you may find that the things you used to find unusual about that person now annoy you. at first_ in reality_ wear off_ used to do sth.意为意为 “_” 例如：例如： He used to live in Shanghai._ 也可以表示也可以表示 “_”例如：例如： I used to take morning exercise every day. But I became lazy now._ be/be

19、come/get used to sth./doing sth._ be used to do sth._和与自己不同的人在一起，起初会很兴奋，但事实上一旦最初的兴奋褪去，和与自己不同的人在一起，起初会很兴奋，但事实上一旦最初的兴奋褪去，你会发现过去你觉得这个人身上不同寻常的地方现在会让你觉得讨厌。你会发现过去你觉得这个人身上不同寻常的地方现在会让你觉得讨厌。起初起初实际上实际上逐渐消失逐渐消失曾经做某事曾经做某事他曾经在上海居住过。他曾经在上海居住过。过去惯常做某事，而现在则不了过去惯常做某事，而现在则不了过去每天早上我都晨练。但是现在我变懒了。过去每天早上我都晨练。但是现在我变懒了。习惯某

20、物习惯某物/做某事做某事被用来做某事被用来做某事本句中，that引导了一个_，该从句中_是主语, you used to find unusual about that person是_,修饰_,从句的谓语动词是annoy.宾语从句宾语从句things后置定语后置定语things But while it may be exciting at first to be with someone not like you, in reality, once the early excitement wears off, you may find that the things you used to find unusual about that person now annoy you.4. Instead, stop focusing on finding your opposite and find someone who has an approach to life similar to you.不要再关注于寻找与你性格相