应该保持沉默的职场场合

1、应该保持沉默的职场场合 ( 总 6页)-CAL-FENGHAL-(YICAI)-Compa ny One 1 CAL本页仅作为文档封面，使用请直接删除应该保持沉默的职场场合这是一篇由网络搜集整理的关于应该保持沉默的职场场合的文档， 希望对你能 有帮助。是不是觉得自己又说太多了 ?也许你不经意就会毁了一个笑话，或是完全破坏了气氛。要记住祸从口出呐。Well listen up. And shut up. Not many people know it but shutting up can be the tmmp card in a lot of situations?我们应该多听，不该说话的时

2、候学会闭嘴。不是每个人都知晓这一点， 但沉默 在很多场合下确实是最好的王牌。Shutting up helps you appear wise and avoid conflict. In general, it can make life easier wliich it turn makes you a happier person. Her Js how and when to just shut up.沉默会让你更加智慧，防止纷争。总而言之，它能让生活更加简单，让 你成为 更快乐的人。下面将告诉你在什么时候应该学会沉默。1) After an obviously erroneous s

3、tatement 在别人发说明显错误的言论后We all get called out from time to time at the office and in social settings. Butsometimes lett ing some on eAs accusati on lin ger in the air exposes its flaWsSure you've got to defend yourself sometimes, but if someone takes a really stupid jab at you, and others notice,

4、you might look stronger just saying nothing and chuckling instead. Let that person roast in their own stupidity?我们时不时会被叫去办公室 类似这样的公开环境里 谈话。有时任别人 对你公开的指责往往能暴露他的缺陷。你当然可以辩白，但如果某人对你进行 愚舞的攻击， 其他人也注意到了，你倒不如保持沉默轻声的笑一笑，这样会让 你看起来更加强大。 就让那个人充分展现自己愚焉的一面吧！2) At the near-end of a joke笑话的尾声No one likes the guy wh

5、o kills a joke? Instead of asking, hvait what was thatjust play along with jokes and fbnny stories,eventhose you don，t fiilly understand, adding new iiifonnation instead of beating the heck out of them? Yotf 11 be more popular starting a joke than finishing it.没有人喜欢破坏笑话的人。与其问“等等，你刚刚说了什么 不如假装一直很享受这些笑

6、话和故事，哪怕你根本没听懂，加点新信息进 去，而不 是彻底毁了这些笑话，这样的幽默能让你更加受欢送哦。?3) When you re the expert你是专家时Experts are reserved? They wisely interject their knowledge into a discussion.So when your fiieiid or colleague sets you up saying“hey, he knows all about thisdinner don，t feel like you have to pour out all your knowle

7、dge. No need to prove yourself. Instead, be reserved, say thanks, and give a concise, even self-deprecating summary of what you do. Try to act like you get congratulated all the time.真人不露相。他们总是巧妙的把自己的知识插入讨论之中。所以如果饭局上你的 ' 朋友或同事把你推出来说“嗨，他是这方面的专家，千万别觉得你得 把 肚子里的知识全部倒出来。真的没必要证实自己。不如隐藏一下，说句谢 谢，对自己 干的事

8、情做一个简洁谦逊的总结。要表现的自己像一直需要被鼓励 的人那样。4) When people are gossiping大家在八卦时People love gossiping and many of us can't help it. If s refreshing. It makes life seem a bit better. But the next time you hear gossiping, especially about your friends, try holding your tongue. Listen to what the gossiper is say

9、ing, it may reveal a lot about both parties ? Instead of being like uyealili, she is atiy saying“，wellshis trying her hardes9f and see what the response is. Deny yourself that tiny pleasure from putting someone else down?人们都爱八卦，这是大家没法控制的事情。八卦能让人精神振奋，似乎 生活也 变得更好了。但如果你听到了一些八卦，尤其是关于你朋友的，还是闭 上嘴吧。听听 那些聊八

10、卦的人在说什么，也许能让你更加了解自己的朋友。与 其说：“是啊，她真 的很贱。不如说：“我知道她已经很努力了，看看别人的 反响。别让自己的小快 乐建立在贬低别人的根底上。5) When asked about your love life被问到感情生活时How was last night Did it go well wink wink Wive all heard these piyingquestions from roonunates and friends and it's fim boasting our conquests (especially when theyh&#

11、39;e few and far between?) But you're better off remaining mysterious. Keeping quiet about your hookups will make your admirers respect, and seek you out, even more. Only talk love life if you really need advice?昨晚怎么样约会进展如何我们的室友和朋友们往往会问出这样窥探类的 问题， 炫耀自己的战利品确实很有意思 (尤其是 TA 们确实很出色的话 )，但你最 好还是保持 点神秘感

12、。对自己的约会守口如瓶还能让你的追求者们更加尊重欣 赏你。等到实在需 要建议时再谈论自己的感情生活吧。6) When under fire矛盾激化时Getting in trouble is a part of life and sometimes the person in power just needs to run through everything theyh'e upset about. Bosses yell, referees yells, our spouses yell ? It does not always help to talk back? On the

13、other hand, be silent and take the blows, then find a good time to say a concisSeOITV . Even if youhe not in the wrong. This will get you out of jail and on with your life a whole lot quicker.人生总是难免遇到麻烦。有权利的人往往需要对所有让他们失望的事发 泄一下。 老板在咆哮，裁判在咆哮，我们的另一半也在咆哮。其实并不需要去 回应他们。不如 保持沉默，一一承受，再找个适宜的时机简单说一句对不起，哪 怕你没

14、有做错。你就 会脱离苦海，生活进展更快。7) When congratulated被祝贺时A smooth and confident“ thank you'" is the best response to a congratulations. It'strue. Just saying thank you is enoug?h Don't say “、wohell it was all himt4yeaho,rI don't know how I did it" or sometliing equally blase. Just be t

15、he man, say thank you, and go dominate your next conquest.对于祝贺最好的答复莫过于一句“谢谢。确实是这样，说谢谢就够了。 不要 说“这都是他的功绩或是“啊，我都不知道自己怎么做到的，或是其他类 似的话 语。就绅士点，说句谢谢吧，然后向着自己下个目标进军。8) When some is divulging secrets某人对你吐露秘密时If you find yourself in a rare moment when someone in power or with useful iiifonnation has decided to

16、 pour it out for you, please just listen. You'll leani a lot. Understand how valuable the information is and store it away for use later on. A smile is all the response you need to giv?e如果你发现自己身处一个特殊的场合，某个有权利的人或掌握有用消息 的人突 然对你倾诉，那就好好倾听吧。你会学到很多东西。了解这些信息到底 有多重要，然 后自己消化以备以后的需要。这种情况下你只需要回馈一个笑 容。受益良Sh

17、utting up is an art form. Spot these moments ill advance and tmst me, you'll reap the silent benefits?学会沉默是一门艺术。提前知晓这些该沉默的场合，相信我，你会从中多。9) When talking about money谈到钱的问题Don， t mention your salaiy when others are bragging and do，n t whine about being owed money. Lend to your friends, if 11 come back around. An atua of quiet confidence around money issues will help you someday find riches.在别人吹牛时，别也跟着提及自己的薪水问题，更不要对借出去的钱发 牢骚。 借给你的朋友，他们总会还的。在钱的问题上保持沉默，这样的自信总 会有天让你发 现其价值所在。10) In line at an event排队等候时This one is specific, but Eve noticed that those who wait pati