如何委婉的拒绝别人

1、如何委婉的拒绝别人有时候要拒绝别人的要求是很难的。接下来为大家整理了如何委 婉的拒绝别人，希望对你有帮助哦！1. “ l'm not the best person to help on this. Whydon& #39;t you try X?”“我不是这项任务的最佳人选。要不你们看看 X行不行？”If you feel that you can not con tribute much to the task,have no time or lack the resources, do not beat around the bush! Let the pers

2、on know it up front. This, however, does not mean that you can not be helpful. You can still refer the pers on to a lead they can follow up on.如果你觉得你不能在任务中投入太多精力，没有那么多时间或缺少资源，那就不要拐弯抹角！让别人知道。这样，别人就不会觉得你 没有帮忙。你可以推荐他人供他们参考。2. “ l& #39;m sorry but last time I did, I had a n egative »experie nee

3、.“不好意思，上次我这样做时，我很难受。”This is a life-saver for me every time I have to expla in topeople that I do n ot eat meat. Before I would say that I was a vegetarian, but for some reason this explanation has never iworked on hospitable Italia n gran dmothers. They would try tofeed me bacon, sausage and octopu

4、ses (yuck!) explaining it with “ this is not meat ” or “ I just put a little in this dish ”。当我每次需要向他人解释我不吃肉时，这句话是我的救命稻草。在此之前，我通常说我是素食主义者，但是不知什么原因，这种解释 对好客的意大利奶奶们一点儿用也没有。她们总是让我吃培根、香肠 和章鱼(真难吃!)，并向我解释“这不是肉”或“只放了一点点儿。”Now I simply say,“ l& #39;m sorry, but I can not eat meat.Last time I did, I had a

5、 terrible headache. ” And it works like a charm, because no one wants to hurt you on purpose.现在我只是说，“不好意思，我不能吃肉。上次我吃肉时，我头疼得很厉害。”这非常管用，因为没人想故意伤害你。The focus here is not on what you want or do not want todo, but on your previous badexperie nee.这里要注意的是，关键不在于你想要什么或不想做什么，关键在于上次你这样做很难受。3. “ l& #39;d lo

6、ve to do this, but”“我想这么做，但是。This is a great way of say ing that you like the idea, you arewilli ng to help, but you just can not do it at the mome nt.这是一种很好的方式，说你喜欢这样做，你想去帮忙，但是你现 在没法做Note: Just do not go into a lengthy justificationof whyyou can not do it.注意：不要进一步说明你为什么不能做。First, it is not necessar

7、y. Time is a limited resource and when you say“yes” to one task, you have to say “no ” toother opport un ities that might be more importa nt, urge nt and beneficial to you at themoment. Second, offering a lengthyexplanation makes you sound guilty and unsure, so people might push further to see if yo

8、u will agree.首先，没有必要。每个人的时间都是有限的，当你对一项任务说“是”的时候，你就不得不对另外的一些机遇说“不”，尽管那些机 遇现在对你来说可能是更加重要、紧急或有益的。另外，进一步解释 会让你有种负罪感和不确定感，人们可以进一步劝说你看你是否会同J八意、。4. “This sounds interesting, but I have too much on my plate at the mome nt. ”“听起来很有趣，但是我现在有太多的事情要做。”Whe n you start your disagreeme ntwith a complime nt:“ this sounds interesting ”， it makes the person less defensive and gives you a val