代沟 generation gap[整理版]

1、 a conversation between a mom and her son mom: why are you so indocile that ignore my words? son: i don not think you are right, you always can not understand me. mom: you are wrong. you should obey my instructions! loading generation gap means the different opinions between the child and the parent

2、s when the child is growing up. once the generation gap is being formed, it is not easy to melt. generation gap refers to the distance and contradiction between the old and the youth. its a common phenomenon that exits everywhere in the world and influences both the old and the youth. generally spea

3、king, generation gap results in different understanding and appreciation of the great and constant changes of the world, different reaction to new things, and different attitudes to tradition principles and beliefs. therefore, we may say where there are the old and the youth, there is the generation

4、 gap. generation gap is natural, but very influential. if we cannot deal with it appropriately, the gap will be greater and greater and consequently affect the work and the relation between the old and the young. nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. the poor relatio

5、nship between parents and their children is very common. why does it happen? are these problems caused by the busy parents? or, do the harsh(严厉的，残酷的) family rules affect the relationship of parents and children? firstly, in most of the families in china ，both of the parents have to go out for work i

6、n order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and their children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. these parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction

7、(摩擦，冲突) will appear. secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient(绝对服从的) are also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! they do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. thus, misinterpretation(误解) of them may easily occur. my parents are

8、 over 30 years older than me. so, theres a wide generation gap between them and me. i think they are too conservative（保守）.for example, sometimes they dont like the clothes i wear, the music i listen, the viewpoints i pose(提出）and so on. whats worse, they hardly allow me to go to karaoke(唱k) with my c

9、lassmates or chat with boys online, which really makes me frustrated and annoyed. born in different periods exposed to different things lack of communication therefore, we differ on habits and attitudes towards life how to bridge the generation gap? is it difficult? more way? respect firstly, show r

10、espect. the mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. respect listening secondly, listen more than talk. its no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer. humorous at last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly. it is a very efficient way to

11、keep the conversation longer. actually , there are many films about generation gap. therefore we can learn how to solve this problem when watching movies. movies i will share with you 远山 我是你爸爸 太阳照常升起 钢的琴 阳光灿烂的日子 小孩不坏 ( i not stupid too) tom and jerry was born in a middle class family. their parents

12、are knee deep in earning money with an opinion that its perfect to fulfill childrens material demand, and they seldom have time to communicate with the kid .however, they didnt know that children need more care and praise from parents. cheng cai, toms classmate, also has problems in communicating wi

13、th his father. his father was in low class, and he had been put into prison. in order to prevent his son following him, he was strict with chen cai , which made them fist with each other. perhaps , the most requisites(必要的) things is the understanding between parents and children. despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves, but as we all know, with time going by, children grad