新发展英语（第二版）综合教程3 课件 Unit 5 Friendship

新发展英语3Unit5FriendshipUnderstandtheimportanceoffriendshipinourlife.0102030405Learnusefulwordsandexpressionsrelatedtofriendship.Learntousethestructures:given,…comelastonthelistofpriorities,thereisabigdifferencebetween…and…,etc.

Learntodevelopparagraphsbydefinition.Readfurtheraboutthesignificantrolefriendshipplaysinourdailylife.StudyFocusIntensiveReading01A.Discussthefollowingquestionswithyourpartners.Pre-readingPreparationWhatdoyouthinkaretheessentialqualitiesthatmakeoneaconstantfriend?

Doesyourunderstandingoffriendshipchangewhentimegoesby?Citeexamplestosupportyourview.01010102B.Readthefollowingsentencescarefullyandworkoutthemeaningofeachunderlinedwordsandexpressions.Pre-readingPreparation1Weshouldprotectourenvironmentandsavetheearthtosustainouroveralldevelopment.2Theproblemsrequiringimmediatesolutionwillbegivenpriorityatthemeeting.3Mistakesarecrucialtosuccess-ifwetakethetimetoanalyzethemandlearnfromthem.01B.Readthefollowingsentencescarefullyandworkoutthemeaningofeachunderlinedwordsandexpressions.Pre-readingPreparation4Tangibleassetsofabusinessarethosethatyoucansee,feel,ortouch,suchastheland,factoriesandmachinery.5Don'ttakeonmoreresponsibilitiesthanyoucanhandle.6Pleasedon'tletgooftherope.Holdittight.01ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Text

在孩提时代，我们和朋友呆在一起的时间不计其数：马拉松式的电话交谈以及整夜在一起学习和嬉笑。即使在交了男朋友之后，我们最好的朋友的位置还是不可替代。正是这在一起的时间培养了我们之间的友谊。现在我们都是成年人了，时间似乎总是不够用。丈夫、孩子、事业和业余爱好都要投入精力，因而很多时候腾出时间会朋友的事就被搁置到了一边。然而，颇有讽刺意味的是，在我们的成年时代，我们同样需要朋友。一个友谊网对于我们成年人的幸福是至关重要的，我们必须努力去建立和保持这个网络。以下是达到这一目标的几个重要方法：ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Backwhenwewerekids,thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.Nowasadultwomenweneverseemtohaveenoughtimeforanything.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation-allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.Andyet,ironically,weneedourfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood.Afriendshipnetworkisabsolutelycrucialforourwellbeingasadults.Wehavetodothehardworkofbuildingandsustainingthenetwork.Herearesomeimportantwaysforaccomplishingthis.1Text

放弃不重要的友情。许多友谊本来就不会持续一生。有些友谊随时间而消失，这是情理之中的事。此外，现在每个人的社交生活都那么繁忙，所以，要放弃那些你并不想真正接近的人，利用更多的时间去培养那些最可能持久的友情。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.It'snaturalthatsomefriendshipshavetimelimits.Furthermore,noweveryonehasabusysocialcalendar,sopullbackfromsomepeoplethatyoudon'treallywanttodrawclosetoandgivethemostpromisingfriendshipafairchancetogrow2Text

急朋友之所急。也许，当你刚坐下想和丈夫享受一顿浪漫的晚餐时，朋友却突然打来电话，她正为某个问题沮丧不已。在某些情况下，朋友之需显得尤为重要，而这只是其中的一个例子。有时，我们虽然想伸出援助之手，但却因为有事无法分身或别的原因，无法助朋友一臂之力。如果你当时不能给朋友以帮助，那么不妨对他/她说：“我真希望能陪陪你——我听得出来你很痛苦。我明天给你打电话行吗？"一定要让你的朋友意识到你对他/她的关心。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Bewillingto"dropeverything"whenyou'retrulyneeded.Youmaygetacallfromafriendwhoisreallydepressedoveracertainproblemwhenyouarejustsittingdowntoenjoyaromanticdinnerwithyourhusband.Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.Ifyoucan'tbethereatthatmoment,saysomethinglike,"IwishIcouldbewithyou-Icanhearthatyou'reinpain.MayIcallyoutomorrow?"Besureyourfriendknowshe/sheiscaredabout.3Text

多发信件。几乎每个人都有远在异地让我们非常思念的朋友。由于抽不出时间去走动，电话费又那么贵，写信是一种保持联系的好方法。这种方式让写信人和收信人都感到高兴。另外，信件、卡片和明信片看得见摸得着，朋友可以将其保存起来，以后还可以多次阅读。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Takeadvantageofthemails.Nearlyallofushavepals

livingfaraway-friendswemissverymuch.Giventhelimitedtimeavailableforvisitsandthehighpriceofphonecalls,writingisafinewaytokeepintouch-andmakesbothsenderandreceiverfeelgood.Besides,letters,cardsandpostcardshavethevirtueofbeingtangible--friendscankeepthemandreadthemforyearstocome.4Text

不要过分卷入朋友的问题。分担朋友的痛苦是表现友情的一种方式。但是承担朋友的痛苦并不能消除其痛苦。同情或理解朋友的痛苦与过分认同有很大区别，过分认同会使对方感到自己更脆弱。记住，处于逆境中的人只是需要朋友帮助他们保持理智、冷静的头脑。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Don'tmakeyourfriends'problemsyourown.Sharingyourfriend'sgriefisthewayyoushowdeepfriendship.Buttakingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.There''sabigdifferencebetweenempathyorrecognizingafriend'spain,andover-identification,whichmakesthesuffererfeelevenweaker.Remembertroubledpeoplejustneedtheirfriendstostaygroundedintheirownfeelings.5Text

切勿低估忠诚的价值。忠诚一直被看作是朋友间最珍贵的品质之一。名副其实的忠诚是相当微妙的。有人认为忠诚意味着不管你做什么，你的朋友总是站在你这一边。但真正的忠诚指的是接受其人，而不一定赞同其所有的行为。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Neverunderestimatethevalueofloyalty.Loyaltyhasbeenratedasoneofthemostdesiredqualitiesinfriends.Trueloyaltycanbeafairlysubtlething.Somepeoplefeelitmeansthat,nomatterwhat,yourfriendwillalwaystakeyourside.Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.6Text

维持友谊的最后一点，也是同样重要的一点，就是在通完电话或拜访结束时说一句，或在生日卡上写一句：“我想你，爱你！"这简单的话语会在你们分开的日子里维系你们的友谊。ToBeaBetterFriend如何成为一名更好的朋友Thelastbutnottheleastthingtokeepafriendshipaliveistosaytoyourfriends"Imissyouandloveyou."Sayingthatattheendofaphoneconversation,oravisit,orwritingitonabirthdaycard,cansustainyourfriendshipforthetimesyouaren'ttogether.7LanguagePointsoftheText1.Backwhenwewerekids,thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount.(Para.1)…toonumeroustocount:此处动词不定式

tocount采用了主动式。在"形容词+不定式"这一结构中，句子主语与不定式动词常构成逻辑上的动宾关系，这时不定式动词一般不用被动式。如：a.Thequestionisverydifficulttoanswer.b.Biographiesareofteninterestingtoread.c.Thefurniturewillbeheavytomove.比较下面两句：

a.Thereportiseasytowrite.b.Thereportisallreadytobetyped.前句着眼于不定式的动作，easy是针对towritethereport而言，因此也可作Itiseasytowritethereport；后句重点则在主语本身，ready针对的是thereport。LanguagePointsoftheText2.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.(Para.1)1)这是一个clarifyingsentence，用生动、典型的例子（marathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions）来具体说明前一句中"thehoursspentwithfriendsweretoonumeroustocount"。2)all-night:adj.lastingthroughoutthenight"通宵的；彻夜的"Thisshopgivesall-nightservice.这家商店通宵营业。LanguagePointsoftheText2.Thereweremarathontelephoneconversations,all-nightstudyingandgigglingsessions.(Para.1)3)session:n.ameetingoraparticularperiodoftimeusedesp.byagroupforaparticularpurpose"会期；（一群人在一起做某事的）一段时间"aquestion-and-answersession

一次问答课；adrinkingsession

一次酒会LanguagePointsoftheText3.

Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.(Para.1)本句中

enterthepicture意为getinvolvedinourlife;becomepartofourlife。

thepicture:thesituationinaparticularplaceorwithregardtoaparticularthingorgroup,"（某处或与某事、某人相关的）局面；情境"a.Thepresentpoliticalpicturegivesmuchcauseforanxiety.

目前的政治局面很令人担忧。LanguagePointsoftheText3.

Evenafterboyfriendsenteredthepicture,ourbestfriendsremainedirreplaceable.(Para.1)b.Youprobablywouldbeabletounderstandallthisifyouwereinthepicture.

你若身处其中，也许就能理解这一切了。

c."IsPamstillwithEric?""帕姆还和埃里克在一起吗？""No,he'soutofthepicture.""不，他已经退出了。"LanguagePointsoftheText4.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.(Para.1)

本句中

bywhichwenurtured…是一个由前置的介词by+关系代词which引出的定语从句，修饰先行词means。在由介词宾语+关系代词引出的定语从句中，介词的选择往往要根据习惯搭配或句意而定。比较以下几组句子中的不同介词搭配：1)JamesRussellisamanforwhomIhavethegreatestrespect.JamesRussellisamanuponwhomyoucandepend.LanguagePointsoftheText4.Andtimewasthemeansbywhichwenurturedthosefriendships.(Para.1)

本句中

bywhichwenurtured…是一个由前置的介词by+关系代词which引出的定语从句，修饰先行词means。在由介词宾语+关系代词引出的定语从句中，介词的选择往往要根据习惯搭配或句意而定。比较以下几组句子中的不同介词搭配：2)Inanelectriclampthereshouldnotbeanyoxygeninwhichthewiresmayburnaway.Thecolorlessgasiscalledoxygenwithwhichwecansavethepatient.3)Whoisthegirlwithwhomyoujustshookhands?Whoisthegirltowhomyoujustnodded?LanguagePointsoftheText5.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation—allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.(Para.1)1)toooften:(也作alltoooften;onlytoooften)veryoften"经常"Toooftenwefindthatchildrenwithbehavioralproblemscomefrombrokenfamilies.

我们常会发现有行为问题的孩子出自破碎的家庭。2)maketime:tofindtime"挤时间（做某事）"Youshouldtryandmaketimetoseeadoctor.

你应该尽量抽出时间去看医生。LanguagePointsoftheText5.Husbands,kids,careersandavocation—allrequireattention;toooften,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofpriorities.(Para.1)3)

comelast/firstonthelistofpriorities:tobeofslightest/greatestimportance"是最不重要/最重要的"Rebuildingtheareacomesfirstonthelistofpriorities.重建这一地区是当务之急。LanguagePointsoftheText6.Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.(Para.2)1)letgo(of):tostopholding"放手，放开，释放"a.AssoonasIletgooftheleash,thedogranaway.

我一松开皮带，狗就跑掉了。b.Don'tletgo(of)thehandle.Holdittight.

别放开把手，抓紧它。

c.Nouseworryingaboutit;letitgo.

无须为这事烦恼，随它去吧。LanguagePointsoftheText6.Letgoofyourlesscentralfriendships.(Para.2)2)lesscentralfriendships:lessimportantfriendships"不（那么）重要的朋友关系"。又如：

Reducinginflationiscentraltothegovernment'seconomicpolicy.缩减通货膨胀是政府经济政策的重点。LanguagePointsoftheText7.Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.(Para.2)…arenevermeanttolast…:areneversupposedtolast…"本来就（注定）不会持续……"在不同的上下文里，bemeantto

可以有不同的含义。比较下面的句子：

a.Youaremeanttotakeyourshoesoffwhenenteringthisroom.(=aresupposedtotakeoff…)b.Thisdiagramismeanttoshowthedifferentstagesoftheprocess.(=isintendedtoshow…)c.Shewasnevermeanttobeateacher.(=wasnotatallsuitabletobe…)LanguagePointsoftheText8.

Bewillingto"dropeverything"whenyou'retrulyneeded.(Para.3)drop:toceaseconsideringordoing(sth.);togiveup"停止考虑或做（某事）；放弃"a.Whenthefirealarmrang,Idroppedeverythingandranoutofthebuilding.

当火警铃响起时，我扔下手里的活，马上跑出大楼。

b.Let'sdropthesubject.

咱们别再谈这个话题了。LanguagePointsoftheText9.

Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.(Para.3)matter(to):tobeimportant(to)"（对……）关系重大；要紧"a.Doesitmatterifweareabitlate?

我们迟到一点有关系吗？

b.Itdoesn'tmattertomewhatyoudo.

你做什么我都无所谓。LanguagePointsoftheText10.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.(Para.3)1)unbreakablecommitments:"不可违背的义务或承诺"形容词unbreakable由动词break派生而来。见break以下搭配用法及含义：breakthelaw/rules/promise犯法/违章/食言a.Hehasbrokenhisword.

他没遵守诺言。

b.Shehadtobreakanappointmentwiththelawyertotakehersontohospital.她要送儿子上医院，所以只得取消和律师的会面。LanguagePointsoftheText10.Sometimes,becauseofourunbreakablecommitmentsorothercircumstances,wesimplycan'tgiveaneedyfriendthetimewe'dlike.(Para.3)2)circumstance:n.theconditionsthataffectasituation,action,event,etc."（常用复数）情况；条件；情形；境况"a.Therearecomplicatedcircumstancesbehindthematter.

这件事情背后情况复杂。b.Innocircumstancesshouldasoldierleavehispost.

士兵在任何情况下都不能擅自离岗。

c.Undersomecircumstancesdefeatishonorable.

在某些情形下，失败是光荣的。LanguagePointsoftheText11.

Takeadvantageofthemails.(Para.4)takeadvantageof:tomakeuseof"利用（某事物）"Hetookadvantageofthegoodweathertopainttheshed.他趁天气好给棚屋刷油漆。比较：

a.Shetookadvantageofmykindness.

她利用了我的好心。b.Don'tlendthemthecar—they'retakingadvantageofyou!

别把车借给他们——他们在占你便宜。LanguagePointsoftheText12.

Giventhelimitedtimeavailableforvisitsandthehighpriceofphonecalls,writingisafnewaytokeepintouch—andmakesbothsenderandreceiverfeelgood.(Para.4)given:prep.considering;inviewof"如果考虑到；鉴于"Giventheirinexperience/Giventhatthey'reinexperienced,they'vedoneagoodjob.考虑到他们缺乏经验，这工作他们做得算是不错了。LanguagePointsoftheText13.

Besides,letters,cardsandpostcardshavethevirtueofbeingtangible—friendscankeepthemandreadthemforyearstocome.(Para.4)1)havethevirtueof:tohavetheadvantageof"具有……的优势/优点"Freetradehasthevirtueofflexibility.

自由贸易具有灵活性的优点。2)years/weeks/days,etc.tocome:(remainorcontinue)inthefuture"在未来，将来"a.Theeffectsofthedraughtwillbeleftforyearstocome.

旱灾造成的后果在未来几年里都会有影响。b.Nuclearwastewillremainhazardousforgenerationstocome.

核废料对未来几代人来说都会很危险。LanguagePointsoftheText14.

Buttakingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.(Para.5)takeon:

toacceptorundertake(responsibility,work,etc.)"承担（责任、工作等）"a.Shehastakenontoomanyresponsibilities.

她承担了太多的责任。

b.Youshouldnevertakeonmorethanyoucando.

永远不要承担超出自己能力范围的任务。LanguagePointsoftheText15.

There'sabigdifferencebetweenempathyorrecognizingafriend'spain,andover-identifcation,whichmakesthesuffererfeelevenweaker.(Para.5)

连词

or常用于给某事物另一种说法，意为"即；也就是"。本句中or后面的recognizingafriend'spain给出了empathy的确切含义，与empathy是同位关系。掌握

or的这一用法常有助于我们在阅读中获取理解生词及术语的相关信息。又如：

Hestudiesgeology,orthescienceoftheearth'scrust.他学地质学，也就是研究地壳的科学。LanguagePointsoftheText16.

Remembertroubledpeoplejustneedtheirfriendstostaygroundedintheirownfeelings.(Para.5)grounded:

adj.(ofaperson)havingone'sfeetontheground;realistic,sensible,well-balanced"（指人）实事求是的；现实的，明智的，情绪稳定的"这一句可理解为：…troubledpeopleneedtheirfriendsjusttohelpthemremainpractical,reasonable,andcalm.比较：OurEnglishteachermadesurethatwewerewellgroundedinbasicgrammar.

我们的英语老师确保我们牢固掌握基础语法。LanguagePointsoftheText17.Loyaltyhasbeenratedasoneofthemostdesiredqualitiesinfriends.(Para.6)1)rate(sb./sth.)as:

toregard(sb./sth.)as;toconsider"把……评价为；认为是"Sheishighlyratedasamodernpoet.她作为现代诗人受到很高的评价。2)desired:adj.wantedorwishedforasbeingusefulornecessary"想得到的；（被）期望的；应有的"Thesearethedesiredqualitiesinouremployees.这些是我们员工应有的素质。LanguagePointsoftheText18.

Somepeoplefeelitmeansthat,nomatterwhat,yourfriendwillalwaystakeyourside.(Para.6)takesb.'sside:(也作takesideswithsb.)tosupportsb.orhis/heropinion"支持某人或其观点"I'lltakehisside,ofcourse.It'samatterofprinciple.我自然要站在他那一边。这是原则问题。LanguagePointsoftheText19.

Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.(Para.6)notnecessarily:possiblybutnotcertainly"不一定，未必"Expensiverestaurantsarenotnecessarilythebest.昂贵的餐馆未必就是最好的。LanguagePointsoftheText20.

Thelastbutnottheleastthingtokeepafriendshipaliveistosaytoyourfriends"Imissyouandloveyou."(Para.7)

本句中

thelastbutnottheleastthing

套用了短语lastbutnotleast，意为lastbutnolessimportant(thanthosementionedearlier)"最后但同样重要的（一点）"Lastbutnotleast,thereisthequestionofadequatefunding.最后一点但同样重要的是，要有足够的资金。NewWords

marathon

/ˈmærəθən/adj.verylongorneedingmucheffortforalongtime马拉松式的，持久的，需要很大耐力的giggle/ˈɡɪɡəl/vi.1.tomakeshortburstofirrepressiblelaughter咯咯地笑；2.tolaughquietlyinasillychildishuncontrolledway傻笑irreplaceable/ˌɪrɪˈpleɪsəbəl/adj.toospecial,unusual,orvaluableforanythingelsetotakeitsplace(因特别或贵重而)不可替代的，独一无二的avocation/ˌævəˈkeɪʃən/n.

(formal)[正式]

1.

somethingdoneforpleasure

嗜好；2.

hobby

业余爱好NewWords

priority/praɪˈɒrəti/n.somethinthatneedsattention,service,consideration,etc.beforeothers优先考虑的事crucial/ˈkruːʃəl/adj.extremelyimportant,

pivotaloressential至关重要的，决定性的well-being/ˌwelˈbiːɪŋ/n.personalandphysicalcomfort,esp.goodhealthand

happiness舒适,健康,幸福sustain/səˈsteɪn/vt.1.tokeepinexistenceoveraperiod长期保持;2.

tomaintain使……持续NewWords

accomplish/əˈkʌmplɪʃ/vt.tosucceedindoing,tofinishsuccessfully,toachieve完成(任务等),做成功calendar/ˈkæləndə(r)/n.(AmE)[美](每个日期下有空白供安排要做之事的)(日历)记事簿promising/ˈprɒmɪsɪŋ/adj.(approving)showingsignsoflikelyfuturesuccess[褒]大有希望的，很有前途的commitment/kəˈmɪtmənt/n.aresponsibilityorpromisetofollowcertainbeliefsoracertaincourseofaction

承担的义务,诺言,承诺(要做的事)NewWords

circumstance/ˈsɜːkəmstɑːns/n.(usu.pl.)afact,condition,oreventconcernedwithandinfluencinganotherevent,personorcourseofaction[一般用复数]情况，条件，情形，境况needy/ˈniːdi/adj.wanting,withoutfood,clothing,etc.贫穷的,贫困的pal/pæl/n.(informal)aclosefriendorbuddy[非正式]密友，

好友given/ˈɡɪvən/prep.considering,

inviewof

考虑到,鉴于NewWords

virtue/ˈvɜːtʃuː/n.(an)advantageorpositiveandbeneficialattribute优

点，长处,好处,益处tangible/ˈtændʒəbəl/adj.(formal)thatcanbeperceivedbytouch[正式]可触摸的,可触知的,有形的empathy/ˈempəθi/n.theabilitytoimagineandshareanotherperson'sfeeling,experience,etc.同情，同感over-identification/ˌəʊvə(r)aɪdentɪfɪˈkeɪʃən/n.过分的(情感)认同NewWords

under-estimate/ˌʌndəˈ(r)estɪmeɪt/vt.tohavetoolowanopinionof小看,轻视，(对……)评价过低loyalty/ˈlɔɪəlti/n.thequalityofremainingfaithfultoone'sfriends,principles,country,etc.忠诚,忠贞rate

/reɪt/vt.1.toregard(somebody/something)as把(某人/某事物)看成是；2.toconsider认为subtle/ˈsʌtəl/adj.(esp.approving)1.noteasytodetectordescribe[尤褒]难以察觉或描述的;2.fine细微的;3.delicate,sublime精细的

letgo(of)tostopholding

放手，放开，释放pullbackfrom(somebody)不再与(某人)往来takeadvantageoftomakeuseof,

toprofitfrom

利用takeontoaccept(responsibility,etc.)承担(责任等)Phrases&Expressions

takesomebody'ssidetoexpresssupportforsomebody(inadispute,etc.)站在某人一边，支持某人Phrases&ExpressionsReadingComprehensionDecidewhetherthefollowingstatementsaretrue(T)orfalse(F).Thengobacktothetextforacheckofyourunderstanding.Youshouldtellwhichline(s)ofwhichparagraphsupport(s)you.Finally,workinpairstocorrectthosefalsestatements.ReadingComprehensionFactSearching1Whenwewereyoung,wespentmuchtimewithourfriendsduringwhichwenurturedourfriendship.TLine(s)______Para______._____________________________________________________.2Whenwebecomeadultwomen,makingtimeforourfriendscomeslastonthelistofprioritiesbecausewedon'tneedfriendshipanymoreaswedidinchildhood.FLine(s)______Para______._____________________________________________________.1-46-91Andyet,ironically,weneedourfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood1ReadingComprehensionFactSearching3Oncewedevelopafriendshipwithsomeone,thefriendshipismeanttolastforalifetime.FLine(s)____Para______.______________________________________________________________________________________________________________4Thoughfriendshipisanindispensablepartofourlife,comparedwithourfamily,friendsshouldalwayscomesecondonthelistofpriorities.FLine(s)______Para______.__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________.1-221-43Manyofourfriendshipsarenevermeanttolastalifetime.It'snaturalYoumaygetacallfromafriendwhoisreallydepressedoverathatsomefriendshipshavetimelimits.certainproblemwhenyouarejustsittingdowntoenjoyaromanticdinnerwithyourhusband.Thisisjustoneofthoseinstanceswhenafriend'sneedsmattermore.ReadingComprehensionFactSearching5Becausewemustmakesurethatourfriendsknowtheyarecaredabout,wehavetotakeontheirpainallthetime.FLine(s)______Para______._______________________________________________________________.6Beingloyaltoourfriendsmeansthatweshouldagreewithwhateverourfrienddoes.FLine(s)______Para______.____________________________________________________________________________________________________________.2-354-56Takingonyourfriend'spaindoesn'tmakethatpaingoaway.Butrealloyaltyisacceptingtheperson,notnecessarilythecertainactionsyourfriendmighttake.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis1Whatisthemainideaofthepassage?A.Howtomakefriends.B.Howtobeabetterfriend.C.Somesuggestionsforkeepingfriendships.D.BothBandC.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis2Whydoesmakingtimeforourfriendsusuallycomelastonthelistofprioritieswhenwebecomeadultwomen?A.Aswebecomemoreindependentphysicallyandspiritually,wedon'tneedfriendshipsasbefore.B.Thoughfriendshipiscrucialaseverinadulthood,mostofusaretoobusytoaffordthetime.C.Aswebecomeadultwomen,wehavemoreimportantthingstotakecareof.D.Withtimepassingby,friendsgraduallydriftapart.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis3Whichofthefollowingisthereasonfortheendofsomefriendshipsaccordingtotheauthor?A.Manyfriendshipsarenotmeanttolastalifetime.B.Somefriendshipshavetimelimits.C.Welosecontactwithsomefriendsbecausewearebusy.D.Alltheabove.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis4Whatdoestheauthorsuggestusifwegetacallfromaneedyfriendwhileweareenjoyingadinnerwithourfamily?A.lgnorethefriend.B.Feelsorryfornotbeingabletohelp.C.Callthefriendafterthedinner.D.Dothebestwecantoofferthecomfortthefriendneeds.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis5Whichofthefollowingisthemainreasonwhytheauthorsuggestsmailsforkeepingfriendships?A.Mailwritingtakeslittletime.B.Mailscostless.C.Mailscanbekeptforalongtimeandcanremindusofourfriends.D.Mailsaremoreformalthanvisitsandphonecalls.Choosethebestoptiontofinishthefollowingexercises.ReadingComprehensionReadingAnalysis6Accordingtotheauthor,whatwouldhappenifyoumakeyourfriends'problemsyourown?A.Yourfriendswillbegratefultoyouforyourhelp.B.Itrelievesyourfriends'pain.C.Itcanmakethesuffererfeelevenweaker.D.Ithelpssolveyourfriends'problem.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（1）Explaininyourownwordswhatgirlsusuallydotokeepfriendships.Inadolescence,girlsspentaconsiderableamountoftimewiththeirfriends:theysharedconfidencesoverthephone;theyoftenspentwholeeveningsstudyingtogether,talkingorlaughingaboutsomething.Evenaftertheystarteddatingsomeone,friendsremainedirreplaceable.

1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（2）Whydoadultwomenfinditdifficulttokeepfriendshipsthoughtheyneedfriendsasmuchaseverinadulthood?Althoughadultwomenneedfriendsasever,asbusyadults,theyoftenfindithardtodevoteequalattentiontoeverything.Sincefamilyandcareertakeupmostoftheirtime,friendshipscomelastonthelistofpriorities.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（3）Whatdoestheauthormeanby"letgooflesscentralfriendships"?Whatdoyouthinkarecentralfriendships?By"letgooflesscentralfriendships",theauthoradvisesustogiveupthefriendshipsinwhichtherelationshipiscasualorlesscloseandwhicharethereforenotmeanttolastalifetime.Centralfriendships,incontrast,arethosethatweenjoywithsomeonethatwecantrust,dependon,confideinandexchangehelpwithespeciallyintimesofdifficulty.Thesearecentralfriendshipsthatwehopewilllastalifetime.1.Answerthefollowingquestionsbasedonthetextyouhaveread.ReadingComprehensionInformationRecallandSummary（4）"Trueloyaltycanbeafairlysubtlething."Whyistrueloyaltysubtle?Alotofpeoplehaveamisinterpretationofloyalty.Beingloyaltoyourfrienddoesnotmeanthatyouhavetoagreewithhimallthetime.Trueloyaltymeansthatyouaccepttheperson,althoughyoucandisagreewithhiminsomerespects.ReadingComprehension_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________