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1、 Unit1AsaforeignerdoingbusinessintheUnitedStates,Ifeelveryrushed.Iamusedtofriendlyopeningexchangeswhendoingbusiness.HereinChicago,thingsaredifferent.Thereisnotimeforgettingtoknowoneanother.Thisdoesnotseemappropriatetome.Thereisnochaneetodevelopasenseoftrustwhenpeoplemeettotalkoverissues.Therearenori
2、tualsliketeaorcoffeebeforediscussingbusiness,thoughthisisa(n)conventioninmycountry.Whenwediscussbusinessitstartswitha(n)leisurelychat.Ithinkthatitisimportantforbusinesspartnerstogetfamiliarwitheachotherfirstandtofeelrelaxed.Iftheexchangeistooabrupt,thereisariskthatsomethingwillbeforgotten.Somepossib
3、ilitiesgowithoutbeingassessedwhenthereistoomuchpressure.Idontbelievethisisthebeststrategyforpropercommunication.Besides,theperceptionisthattheyjustdontcareaboutyouasanindividualhere.Youarebasicallyjustanothermeansofmakingmoney.Allofthisusedtocreatearealdilemmaforme.Atfirst,itcausedmetohaveaslittlein
4、teractionwithAmericanbusinesspartnersaspossible.Gradually,though,Ihavecometounderstandtheculturaldifferencesbetweenourtwocountries.Thishasreallyhelpedmetofeelmorecomfortabledoingbusinesshere.Unit2BillJohnsonspathtoOlympicgoldwasdifferentthanthatofmost.Infact,eventhoughhewasthefirstAmericanmantoeverw
5、inthedownhillskiingevent,manyrejectedhimasatrueOlympichero.Hewasarebelliouskidwhocamefromatroubledbackground,andheboastedtoomuch.Moreover,heonlybecameinvolvedinskiingbecauseajudgesenthimtoaskischoolafterhehadstolenacaratage17.Therewasnolifelongcommitmenttothesport.HedidnotexemplifytheOlympicspirit.H
6、edidnotgaindistinctionbycontinuouslytrainingforhisevent.Still,fewfailedtoappreciatehismarvelousraceinthe1984WinterOlympicGamesinSarajevo.Hewasjustanaturalskierandhistechniquewasperfectforthecourse.Andsoevenbeforetheracebegan,hewasclaimingvictory.Thiscoursewasmadeforme.Nothingcanstopme,hehadboasted.H
7、ealsocausedsomecommentswhenhetalkedaboutthemillionsofdollarshewouldbeabletomakeafterhewontherace.Thismademanyskiershostiletowardhim.Thatjustencouragedhimevenmore.Thenonthedayoftheevent,heturnedoutthefastest.Ittakesalotofcouragetothrowyourselfdownamountain,BillJohnsonremarkedproudlyafterhewonagoldmed
8、alfortheUnitedStates.Notmanycandothat.Unit3Atfirst,mydadwasnotinfavorofmemarryingWillbecauseWillisblack.Iguessmydadwasabitofaracist.Unfortunately,noargumentscouldcounterdadsbeliefs.Despitehisprotests,though,WillandIdecidedtogothroughwithourwedding.OnamarvelousJunedayweweremarriedinthepark.Thewedding
9、wentoffwithoutanyhostilewordsorembarrassingexchanges.Itwasactuallyquitebeautiful.Therewasjustoneproblem.Manyofourfriendsandrelativesdidntattendourwedding.Ihadtoconcludethatmydadwasnottheonlyprejudicedpersonweknew.Otherthanmyfather,noonehadcomeouttospeakagainstmyrelationshipwithWill.Itdidnotseemappro
10、priateforthemtoshowtheirresistaneetoourmarriageinthisway.MydadhadstrongreservationsaboutmymarriagetoWill,butatleasthewasthere.WillandIdecidedtoovercomethisburdenbyshowingeveryonehowwrongtheywere.Wewantednotonlytoloveoneanother,butalsotodefyracialhatredbylovingoneanother.Weprobablywerentbeingallthatr
11、ealistic,butwedidsucceedwithoneperson.MydadandWillhavedevelopedanamazingfriendship.Mydadsayshehasforgottenwhyheeverhadanydoubtsaboutourmarriage.Unit4Whatdoweknowaboutlove?Isit,assomepeoplewouldsuggest,amysteriousforce?Orcanitbeexplainedandpossiblyevencreated?Well,eveninthisscientificandreason-driven
12、age,loveseemsstilltodefytotalunderstanding.Wecan,however,knowsomethingaboutloveandmakestrongerconnectionsbetweenindividuals.Onethingthatseemstoaffectloveisdistanee.Thecommonideaisthatthelovebetweenpeoplegrowsastheyareseparated.Sometimesitistruethatlongingforsomeonewhohasgoneoverseasbecomesmoreintens
13、e.Somethingthatnourishesloveisdanger.Sendbothloverstodangerousplacesandtheywillenduplovingeachothermore.Thiscouldbecausedbytheworryitdevelops.Itcouldalsobethatfeelingsofuncertaintyorneedtransformintolovewithtime.Lovegivesuswarmth,courage,andafeelingofbeingsafe,butitalsodemandsselflessdevotionandsacr
14、ifice.Ifyouaretrulycommittedtofindingtruelove,youshouldmakeyourselfmoreinteresting.Dothingsthatyouenjoyandtrytomeetpeoplewhoshareidenticalinterests.Unit5Mysonhasstartedtohangoutwiththewrongtypeofboys.HeisfifteenyearsoldanduntilrecentlyIhadalwaysbeengratefulforhoweasyhehasbeentoraise.Lately,though,he
15、hasceasedtolistentowhatIsay.Heusedtobesuchasweetboy,butbeinginhighschoolseemstohavehardenedhimagainstauthorityfigures.Thechangeinhisattitudehasbeenverynoticeableeventohisteachers.TheotherdayIaskedhimtocomestraighthomeafterschool,butinsteadherebelledandstayedoutuntiltenoclock.LaterIfoundoutthathehads
16、kippedschoolcompletelythatday.Ifoundoutthathewaswitha(n)bunchofboyswhooftencausetrouble.Idecidedtoforbidhimtodoanythingwiththoseboys,buthedidntlistentome.Inspiteofmyobjectionstohimbeingwiththoseboys,hewaswiththemtheverynextday.Afriendofminehasasonwhoishavingidenticalproblems.Shedecidedtogivehimachan
17、geofsceneryandsenthimtoaprivateschool.Imnotsurethisisthebestsolution,though.Youcantjustchangeaboysbehaviorbychanginghisschooleverytimehedoessomethingwrong.Itisbettertohelpakidestablishagoodsetofcorevalues.Unit6Myname,Bobby,isusedbothforboysandgirls.GirlsspellitBobbie.Itischaracteristicforlittleboyst
18、obegivenanamewithaysoundattheend.Forexample,IoftenhadaJimmy,JohnnyorBillyinmyclasses.Inmysecondgrade,IalsohadaBobbie.Inordernottoconfuseuswhenshecalledournames,ourteacherassignedusthenamesBobbieGirlandBobbyBoy.Thiscausedmealotoftroubleontheplayground.There,myfriendslabeledmeBobbieGirl.Formyfriends,t
19、heapparentcontrastbetweenmynameandmysexwasthesourceofmuchlaughter.Thefactthattheylabeledmeasagirlwasveryembarrassing.IhadatendencytocompensateformynamebyactingmorelikeaboythanImighthaveotherwise.Ithrewmorerocksandyelledlouderthanthesumofalloftheotherboysaddedtogether.TherealBobbieGirl,conversely,act
20、edmorelikeagirl.Whenmyteacherrealizedshehadmadeamistake,shestoppedcallingusBobbieGirlandBobbyBoy.Unfortunately,myfriendsneverforgotorceasedcallingmeBobbieGirl.Thirdgradewasanimprovement;theoriginalBobbieGirlwasinadifferentclass.Also,IrequestedtheteacherjustcallmeBob.Unit7Myfamily,myboss,evenmydoctor
21、hadtoldmethiswouldhappen,butIdidntlisten.TheysaidIwasgettingoverwhelmedandfocusingtoomuchonthenegativethingsthathappenedtome.Ifyoudontlearntocontrolhowyoureacttobadthingsthathappeninyourlife,youaregoingtocausedamagetoyourheart,saidmydoctor.Somanyofthesituationsyoucomplainaboutarebeyondyourcontrol.Ge
22、ttingcaughtinthemisverydestructiveforyouphysicallyandemotionally.Youhavetolearntoletthesethingsgoandfocusonthingsyoucanactuallychange.I,undoubtedly,shouldhavemadehisadvicemynumberonepriorityrightthen.Unfortunately,Igotcaughtinatrafficjamthatverysamedaywhiledrivinghomefromwork.Thiswasthesettingforthe
23、heartattackmydoctorhadwarnedmeabout.Insteadoflookingforabetteroutletformystress,Ibegantoyellatthecarinfrontofme.Thenthemusclefibersofmyheartbeganbeatinglikeabagofwormsinsteadofpumpingblood.Fortunately,itwasonlyamildheartattack.Someonecametomyaidandthenaccompaniedmetothehospital.Ihavedefinitelylearne
24、dthatlifeistooshorttoworryaboutthingsyoucantcontrol.Unit8Havingalotofmoneyisuselesswithoutagoodeducation.Lifeisntsimplyaboutconsumptionandhavingagoodtimewhenyourenotatwork.Moneywillonlycauseyougriefunlessyouuseitforthewelfareoftheworld.ThatswhyIbelievethatagoodeducationisindispensable.Aformaleducati
25、onwithemphasisonhistory,literature,andculturehelpsapersonlearnhowtodistinguishrightfromwrong.Educationthatonlyteachesskillsspecifictoajobcanonlyrenderskillsforperformingatask.Itdoesntteachyouhowtomakeimportantdecisions.Employerstendtodemandmorefromtheiremployeesthantheabilitytoperformatask.Ourworldn
26、eedsworkerswhopayconstantattentiontohighstandardsfortheirperformanee.Itisevidentthatfartoomanypeopletodayarefocusingonmakingmoneyandnotonimprovingthemselves.Whatpuzzlesmeiswhypeopleshouldignorecontributionstothegoodofhumanitywhilemakingmoney.Itisonlyrationalapersonwhogivestotheworldenjoysthebenefits
27、.Afterall,ourcivilizationsimplycantbebuiltontheprincipleofmakingmoneyalone.Insummary,wemusteducateouryoungpeopletounderstandandlovetheworldaroundthem.Thisistheonlywaytoensureabettertomorrow.Unit9Nobodyhaseverhadtotellmetogetoutofbed.MynumberoneassethasalwaysbeenthatIammuchmoreambitiousthanmost.Thewa
28、yIseeit,lifeistooshorttomakeperiodicalconcessionstocomfortandfun.Ifyouwanttoaccomplishsomethingremarkable,youvegottostaymotivatedandconstantlyworktowardyourgoals.Mygoalhasbeentobecomea(n)journalistsinceIwasayoungboy.WhenIwaseight,myfathersaid,Thatfieldofworkistoocompetitiveforyou.Youshouldbemorereal
29、isticaboutyourprospectsandabilities.Ididntwanttodeceivemyselfabouthowharditwouldbe,soIstartedthatdaybygettingajobdeliveringnewspapers.Idepartedfromhomeeverymorningat4:30todomyworkbeforeschool.IwasfascinatedwiththeprintingmachinessoIalwaysarrivedtoworkearlytoaskquestions.Iwasntmuchofascholar,soIeventuallyendedupenrollinginanaverageuniversity.Still,Iwaskeenonbecomingareporteranddidnotgiveupmydream.IwrotefortheschoolnewspaperandwhenIgraduated,tookajobsortingmailwithaloc
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