双语阅读真正的尊重要靠努力换来

1、真正的尊重要靠努力换来OK, I wasn 't fired but this is how it went. 好吧,我不是被炒觥鱼了,事情是这样的.Back in 2005, I had just started working and was almost at my peak of being a ladies man (or so i thought). Always spotted with a different girl (or so people perceived). I was an associate and kinda developed a crush on

2、this manager. She seemed nice and the usual.2005年的时候,我刚开始工作,当时是我作为群众情人的巅峰 时期(至少我是这么想的).人们总是看见我和不同的女孩在一 起(至少他们是这么想的).我当时是个准合伙人,弁且有点暗 恋我的经理.她那么表现得很友好、很正常.Long story short I asked her out and it worked. (Story for another day).长话短说,我约她出去了,而且成功了.(详细故事改天讲)We seemed to be pretty fond of each other and hun

3、g out quite a lot. In and out of office. Later on, during one of her 1-on-1s with her manager, he suggested her to stop hanging out with me. You know perception is reality ' kinda stuff. That hangingout with a younger and reckless guy like me would be a career liming move for her.我们互相挺喜欢的,经常在一起,

4、不管是在工作中还是工作外.后来,再一次她和她的经历单独面谈的时候,她的经理暗示她不要在和我呆在一起了.你们懂的,“三人成虎 一类的事.和我这 么一个愣头青搅在一起,可能会把她的整个事业给搅黄了.She didn t listen and shared this with me right after her meeting.And of course I felt bad. But not hurt.不过她没听,还在会议结束后把这件事告诉了我.We dated for a while and eventually broke up. For some other reasons. Mostly

5、 petty.我们还是继续约会了一段时间,但是最后分手了.不过,是由于 其他一些原因.挺遗憾的.Fast forward 11 years, I join a new company as a Sr. Manager and word kinda spread about me. Mostly superficial- based on my looks and age.11年过去之后,我以高级经理的角色参加了一家新公司,结果 身边出现了各种关于我的流言蜚语.主要就是些关于我外貌和年 龄的话.s theBy the end of first week, a guy walks up to my

6、 cabin and greets me with a b'hai ' after my name. I look at him baffled. Itsame manager who my ex reported to all those years ago. We shake hands and talk for a while.第一周快结束的时候,一个人走进了我的办公室, 他叫我名字的 时候还在后面加了个“伙计巴基斯坦话.我不解地看了过去, 发现他正式那好几年前我前女友的上司.我们握了手,然后谈了好一会儿.He then said You have now become my manager. You have come a long way.'然后他说：“你现在已经变成我的经理了.你这进步够大的.It was quite a moment. Mixed emotions. But I was proud of myself more tha