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Introductiontothe7Habits®ofHighlyEffectiveCollegeStudents1©2004FranklinCoveyWelcometo

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Introductiontothe7Habits®ofHighlyEffectiveCollegeStudents45©2004FranklinCoveyWelcometo

IntroductiontotheKnowledge,Skill,Desire46©2004FranklinCoveyKnowledge,Skill,Desire2©200See-Do-GetGetDoSee47©2004FranklinCoveySee-Do-GetGetDoSee3©2004FranINTERDEPENDENCEINDEPENDENCEDEPENDENCEPublicVictoryPrivateVictorySeekFirsttoUnderstand,ThentoBeUnderstood®5Synergize®6ThinkWin-Win®43PutFirstThingsFirst®2BeginwiththeEndinMind®1BeProactive®SharpentheSaw®7MaturityContinuum®48©2004FranklinCoveyINTERDEPENDENCEINDEPENDENCEDEPHabit1BeProactive®Habit149©2004FranklinCoveyHabit1BeProactive®Habit15©Habit1:See-Do-GetGetDoSeeIamresponsibleformychoices.Ichoosetoact,notreact.Iamincontrol.50©2004FranklinCoveyHabit1:See-Do-GetGetDoSeeIaKeyQuestionsWhatisproactivityandreactivity?HowcanIgainmorecontrolovermylife?51©2004FranklinCoveyKeyQuestionsWhatisproactiviStimulus-Response52©2004FranklinCoveyStimulus-Response8©2004FrankStimulus-Response53©2004FranklinCoveyStimulus-Response9©2004FrankStimulus-Response©2002FranklinCoveyCo.5454©2004FranklinCoveyStimulus-Response©2002FranklProactivePeopleStopandPause—Understandwhyyoufeelthewayyoudo.Think—Makedecisionsbasedonyourprinciplesandbeliefs.Do—Actuponyourproactivechoice.55©2004FranklinCoveyProactivePeopleStopandPauseControl56©2004FranklinCoveyControl12©2004FranklinCoveyExpandingYourInfluence57©2004FranklinCoveyExpandingYourInfluence13©20Habit2Habit2BeginWiththeEndinMind®58©2004FranklinCoveyHabit2Habit2BeginWiththe14Habit2:See-Do-GetGetDoSeeIvisualizeresults.Ihave

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