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1、1.Humanrelationshipswouldbecomedifficultwithoutforgiveness.Itsanecessityforbuildingharmoniousrelationshipsandachievingourownwell-being.Veryoftenwemaythinkthatwevebeenhurttoodeeplytoforgive.Butironically,Itsthoseofuswhovebeenmosthurtthatreallyneedtoforgive.Forthetruthisthatunlesswecanforgive,wecannev
2、errecover.Forsomepeopleforgivenessseemsimpossiblebecausetheyhavenoideahowtogoaboutit.Thefirstandmostimportantthingyouneedtorememberisthattheactofforgivenessisnotgoingtobeeasy.Infact,itwillprobablybethehardestthingmostofuseverhavetodo.Itseemstotallyunfairthatweshouldhavetoforgivewhenweretheoneswhohav
3、ebeenhurt.Andthatsthecentralandmostimportantpartofforgiveness.Thatswhy,sometimes,theinitialactofforgivenessmayseemrelativelyeasy,butdealingwiththeemotionscanbeharder.Trueforgivenessisnotaone-offact,itsaconstantemotionalconfrontation.Soifyouthinkyourerightandcantfinditinyourselftoforgive,askyourselft
4、hisquestion:wouldyouratherberightorhappy.2.Manyofushavereadinterestingandexcitingstoriesinwhichthemaincharacterhasonlyalimitedtimetolive.Suchstoriessetusthinking,wonderingwhatweshoulddoundersimilarcircumstances.SometimesIhavethoughtitwouldbeanexcellentruletoliveeachdayasifweshoulddietomorrow.Suchana
5、ttitudewouldemphasizesharplythevalueoflife.Weshouldliveeachdaywithagentleness,avigor,andakeennessofappreciationwhichareoftenlostwhentimestretchesbeforeusintheconstantpanoramaofmoredaystocome.Mostofustakelifeforgranted.Weseldomthinkofit.Wegoaboutourpettytasks,hardlyawareofourlistlessattitudetowardsli
6、fe.Thesamelistlessnesscharacterizestheuseofourfacultiesandsenses.Onlythedeafappreciatehearing,onlytheblindrealizetheblessingsthatlieinsight.Butthosewhohaveneversufferedlossofsightorhearingdamageseldommakethefullestuseoftheseblessedfaculties.Ihaveoftenthoughtitwouldbeablessingifeachhumanbeingwerestri
7、ckenblindanddeafforafewdaysatsometimeduringhisearlyadultlife.Darknesswouldmakehimmoreappreciativeofsight;silencewouldteachhimthejoysofsound.3.Theresadifferencebetween“beingawriter”andwritings.Asamatteroffact,manywhowishtobewritersarelongingforwealthandfame,notthelonghoursaloneatthetype-writer.Theyar
8、enotawareofthefactthatwritingisalonely,privateandpoor-payingaffair.IrememberwhenIbecameafreelancewriter,Ihadnoprospectsatall.WhatIdidhavewasafriendandasmallstorageroominanapartmentbuilding.Itdidntevenmatterthatitwascoldandnobathroom.ImmediatelyIboughtausedmanualtypewriterandplungedmyselfintowriting.
9、Afterayearorso,however,Istillhadntreceivedabreakandbegantodoubtmyself.ThenonedayIwasofferedajobearning6000ayear.Asthedollarsweredancinginmyhead,somethingclearedmysenses.Fromdeepinsideabull-headedresolutionwelledup.Iheardmyselfsaying,“Imgoingtostickitoutandwrite.”Irealizedthatyouhadtomakesacrificesan
10、dlivecreativelytokeepworkingatyourdreams.Then,in1970,17yearsafterIlefttheCoastGuard,Rootswaspublished.Theshadowshadturnedintodazzlinglimelight.4.Optimismandpessimismarepowerfulforces,andeachofusmustchoosewhichwewant,soastoshapeouroutlookandourexpectations.Fromwhichperspectivedowewanttoviewlife?Willw
11、elookupinhopeordownindespair?Anoptimisticattitudeisnotaluxury;itsanecessity.Thewayyoulookatlifewilldeterminehowyoufeel,perform,andhowwellyouwillgetalongwithothers.Conversely,negativethoughts,attitudes,andexpectationsfeedonthemselves;theybecomeaself-fulfillingprophecy.Pessimismcreatesasadandhopelessp
12、lacewherenoonewantstolive.Whentheworldisseenasahopeful,positiveplace,peoplearemorelikelytoachieve.Optimismdoesntneedtobenaive.Youcanbeanoptimistandstillrecognizethatproblemsexistandthatsomeofthemarenotdealtwitheasily.Yetoptimismmakesadifferenceintheattitudeoftheproblemsolver!Optimismdrawsourattentio
13、nawayfromnegativismandchannelsitintopositive,constructivethinking.Whenyoureanoptimist,youremoreconcernedwithproblem-solvingthanwithuselessfault-finding.Totackleabigproblem,oneneedsbothoptimismandpersistence.5.Whatischaracter?Characteriscomposedofthoseprinciplesandvaluesthatgiveourlifedirection,meani
14、nganddepth.Theseconstituteourinnersenseofwhatsrightandwrongbasednotonlawsorrulesofconductbutonwhoweare.Theyincludesuchtraitsasintegrity,honesty,courage,fairnessandgenerositywhichareformedinthelongprocessoflife.Sowrongissimplyindoingwrong,notingettingcaught.Yetsomepeoplewonderifourinnervaluesmatteran
15、ymore.Afterall,haventmanypeoplesucceededineveryvisibleway,despitetheirmoralweakness?Thisquestiondemonstratesadilemmaofourmodernlife.Manyhavecometobelievethattheonlythingsweneedforsuccessaretalent,energyandpersonality.Successhasbecomemoreafunctionofcharm,skillsandtechniquesthatlubricatetheprocessofhu
16、maninteraction.Insteadofmakingeffortstodealwithdifficultissuesofrightandwrong,weturnedtomakingthingsgosmoothly.ButmanynotedfigureshavetaughtusthatwhoweareismoreImportantthanwhoweappeartobeandwecanonlyexperiencetruesuccessandhappinessbymakingcharactertheguidelineofourlives.Whileskilliscertainlyneeded
17、forsuccess,itcanneverguaranteehappinessandfulfillment.6.Creativepeoplehaveagreatdealofphysicalenergy,buttheyarealsooftenquietandatrest.Theycanworklonghourswithgreatconcentrationwhileremainingfreshandenthusiasticallthetime.Whennecessary,theycanfocusitlikealaserbeam;whennot,creativetypesimmediatelyrec
18、hargetheirbatteries.Creativepeopleseemabletousewelltwooppositewaysofthinking:theconvergentandthedivergent.Convergentthinkinginvolvessolvingwell-defined,rationalproblemsthathaveonecorrectanswer.Divergentthinkinginvolvestheabilitytogenerateagreatquantityofideas,ortheabilitytoswitchfromoneperspectiveto
19、another.Incurrentpsychologicalresearch,extroversionandintroversionareconsideredtobethemoststablepersonalitytraitsthatdistinguishpeoplefromeachother.Creativeindividualsseemtoexhibitbothtraitsatthesametime.Mostcreativepeopleareverypassionateabouttheirwork,yettheycanbeextremelyobjectiveaboutitaswell.Wi
20、thoutthepassion,wesoonloseinterestinadifficulttask.Yetwithoutbeingobjectiveaboutit,ourworkmaysufferandlackcredibility.Perhapsthemostimportantquality,theonethatismostconsistentlypresentinallcreativeindividuals,istheabilitytoenjoytheprocessofcreationforitsownsake.7.Inmanyjobinterviews,acommonquestioni
21、swhethertheintervieweeisa“teamplayer”.Butwhatdoesbeingateamplayerreallymean?Onthemostbasiclevel,ateamplayerissomeonewhocanworkwithinagroupofpeople.Thereforeitisanessentialrequirementofanyemploymentthatanypotentialemployeeisateamplayer.Onadeeperlevel,ateamplayerissomeonewhocanplayaroleintheteam,toach
22、ieveandsupportthegoalssetandagreeduponbytheteam.Everymemberoftheteamshouldhavespecificrolesandresponsibilitiesinviewofachievingtheircommongoals.Thesuccessoftheteamreliescompletelyoneverymemberoftheteamcarryingouttheirrolesandresponsibilitiesinlinewiththedirectionoftheleader.Beingateamplayerdoesnotme
23、anthatyoudonothaveanyideasofyourown.Itdoesnotmeanyoushouldalwaysagreewiththerestoftheteam.Dontbeafraidtooffernewideasevenseeminglycrazyones.Everyoneintheteamshouldfeelfreetocomeupwithnewideasandnotworryaboutthembeingdismissed.8.Manyclaimunhappyandterriblechildhoodexperiences“damage”peopleintheiradul
24、tyears.Butresearchershavediscoveredthismaynotnecessarilybetrue.Theynotethatintensedifficulties,hardshipsandmajorobstaclesareoftenmajorcontributorstosuccess.Theymaintainthatdifficultchildhoodsdoleavesomepeoplewoundedanddisadvantaged,butforothers,atoughchildhoodactuallydrivesthemtooutrageousachievementandsuccess.
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