Unit1Gettingalongwithothers话题语言应用——人际关系

1、Unit 1 Getting along with others话题语言应用人际关系语言积累交际用语1 请求再次重复刚才的话I beg your pardon? / Pardon me?请再说一遍好吗？（注意一般读升调） Could you say that again?你能再说一遍吗？Could you repeat that, please？你能重复一下吗？Did you say . or .? 你是说 ,还是？2同意与不同意1）同意I agree with you on/ that . 有关我同意你的意见。I am of the same opinion （as.） 我（与）观点相同。E

2、xactly.确实如此/正是。That ' s a good poin那是个好主意。That ' s how I feel （about.） too那就是我对（ ）的感觉。That ' s righ你说的对。You' ve got a point.你说得有道理。Yes. And ano ther reason is that .是的。而另一个原因是 补充：I can't agree with you more.我完全赞同你的看法。2）不同意I don ' t agree. What about.我不同意。 怎么样？I ' m not su

3、re that我不确定那是真的。I see things in a little differe nt way. 我的看法有点不同。On the other hand,.另一方面， Perhaps you are mistake n.也许你错了。Really? I don ' t think th真的吗？我认为 不I take your point, but.我接受你的观点，但是 That ' s true, but那是真的/对的，但是 1. agree with sb. / one' s idea/ what意某s人的意见、想法等（即持同一观点）也表示“食物、天气、工

4、作等）对适宜；与一致”2. agree to （arrangement.）同意一方提出一项建议、安排、计划等3. agree to do同意做某事4. agree on/ upon指双方通过协商而取得一致意见或达成协议5. what about + n./ v. -ng （what about 后接名词、代词、动词 -ing 形式）6. on the other hand 在另一方面话题语句（1）有关友谊的格言1. Friends are thieves of time.朋友是时间的窃贼。2. The best mirror is an old friend. 老朋友是一面最好的镜子。I3.

5、If you can buy a person' s friendshiwdtth having . 买来的友情不是真感情。4. True frie nds have hearts that beat as one.真正的朋友是和你心灵相通的。5. Without confidence there is no friendship. 没有信任就没有友谊。6. A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes.真正的朋友从不追究你的过错，也不嫉妒你的成功。7. A true frie

6、nd is one soul in two bodies. 真正的朋友是异体同心。8. The best mirror is a friend朋友的眼睛是最好的镜子。9. Better without gold than without frie nds.宁可没有金钱，不可没有朋友。10. Without a friend, the world is a wilderness.没有朋友，世界成了荒野。11. A friend in n eed is a friend in deed. 患难之交是真交。12. A friend is a seco nd self.朋友是另一个我。13. A fr

7、iend is not so soon gotten as lost.失友易，交友难。14. A friend to everybody is a friend to no body. 广交友，无深交。15. A friend without faults will never be found.永远没有不犯错的朋友。16. A father is a treasure, a brother is a comfort, but a friend is both.父亲是财富，兄弟是安慰，朋友兼而有之。要点提示：con fide nee信任 overlook忽视 tolerate承认 wild n

8、ess野生，野蛮 fault缺点，过失 About friendship 有关友谊enjoy each other ' s com享受y彼此的陪伴convey friendliness 传达友情offer advice 提供建议have a long conversation with 与 长谈share your secrets / interests分享秘密 / 爱好 share emotion and support 分享情感和支持 keep/ break a promise 遵守/不守诺言keep a secret保守秘密What topics do you mostly ta

9、lk about with your best frie nds?你和最好的朋友谈什么主题？hobbies and interests 业余爱好和兴趣families and friends 家庭与朋友school and study学校和学业future plans and dreams未来的计划和梦想What' s the differenee between bys and girls in their attitudes towards friendship?Girls always seem to have a lot to talk about with their bes

10、t frien ds. They seem to have more friendships than boys. Friendships between boys are based on shared activities and interests. A boy is likely to be cautious about sharing his feelings with his close friends.One or two good friends are better tha n 100 acqua intan ces.一两个好朋友抵得上100个泛泛之交。要点提示：attitu

11、de towards 对 的态度acquaintance 熟人sb. be likely to do.某人可能做 be cautious about 对谨慎be based on以为根据，基于share分享，分担话题语句（2）About friends有关朋友A friend is some one who you respect and who respects you.shares your happ in ess and sorrow.is trustworthy .朋友是你尊重和尊重你/与你分享幸福、分担悲伤/值得信赖的人。A friend is some one who is hon

12、 est, lovi ng and affect ion ate.is devoted to you.is selfless.accepts your differe nces.朋友是诚实可爱的而且深情的/对你专一的/无私的/接受你的不同之处。A friend is somebody you want to be around when you feel like being by yourself. 朋友是你想单独呆着时你希望他 /她在旁边的人。Almost everyone wants to make friends and develop friendships with others.

13、几乎所有人都想同别人交朋友、发展友谊。warm-hearted 好心的 honest 诚实的 outgoing 开朗的 quite 安静的 friendly/ kind 友好的 happy/ cheerful 快乐的reliable 可信赖的 helpful 能帮忙的 easy-going 随和的 sensitive 敏感的Adjectives that describe personality 描写个性的形容词 generous 慷慨的open-minded 思想开朗的 polite 礼貌的 humorous 富有幽默的 athletic 健壮的，行动敏捷的 reliable/ depend

14、able 可靠的strong-minded/ determined 坚强的 / 坚定的 / 决意的hard-working/ diligent 苦干的 / 勤奋的dishonest 不诚实的narrow-minded 心胸狭窄的stubborn 顽固的bad-tempered 脾气不好的unreliable 不可靠的impolite 不礼貌的unkind 不够和善的rude 粗鲁的lazy 懒惰的boring 单调的，乏味的selfish 自私的talkative 健谈的，多嘴的shy 害羞的话题语句（ 3）有用的句子 试试你会了吗？1. 因为我们成绩好，喜爱学习，其他同学有时会说我们俩没趣，

15、但是我们喜欢这样。Sometimes, other children say we because we are both very andlike to study, but we like it .2. 我感觉非常羞愧，这么简单的小测验没能及格，我真是笨极了。I felt so ; I must be really !3. 我难过得想哭。I was so that I .4. 我感到很内疚，因为我也说了一些残酷无情的话，但我不喜欢看到我们队输球。I feel really because I too, but I our team lose.5. 是因为你对你的不好的分数感到羞愧，还是因为

16、你嫉妒她？Was it because you your , or because you her?6. 如果他的球技不如我那可不是他的错，还说我不该以这种方式与他说话。t talk. it wasn' t his if he couldn' t play as well as me, and that I shouldn7. 我渴望在聚会上看见你。I you at the party.8. 我不得不把购物的事延期到明天。I have to till tomorrow.9. 起初，我并不介意自己一个人，但后来看见所有的游客一起拍照，我开始感到难过。At first, I di

17、dn't , but then I saw all of the tourists together,and I began feeling sad.10. 总之，当我们年老时回顾我们生活时，我们会记住什么呢？, when we are old and our lives, what will we remember?参考答案：1. are no fun; academic; that way （fun 不可数名词 ）2. ashamed （感到羞愧的）；stupid to fail a simple math quiz! （fail sth./sb.某事失败 / 辜负某人）3. up

18、set; felt like crying （feel like doing sth. 想要做某事 ）4. guilty; made some cruel remarks; dislike seeing （remark 话语；dislike doing sth.不喜欢做某事）5. were ashamed of （为羞愧）;horrible grade ; envied6. fault; in this manner （ 方式，态度； in this manner 以这种方式； manners 礼貌）7. look forward to seeing8. put off shopping9.

19、mind being alone; having their pictures taken （mind doing 介意做； have sth. done 使某事被做，see sb. doing看见某人做）10. in conclusion （总之） ; look back on （回顾）写作运用给朋友的信及建议信本单元要求给朋友写一封信，可以用来表达情感、传递信息，也可以就一个问题给予 对方一定的建议，这就是建议信。给朋友的信可以不那么正式，在信中朋友之间可以互相通报学习和生活中的各种事情， 也可以就某一主题讨论， 表明自己的观点。朋友之间的信件要态度真挚，语言简洁，也要考 虑到收信人的感情

20、，不能使用生硬、命令及过分自夸的语言等。建议信是写信人向收信人就某事提出自己的建议或忠告，如果写给个人，多是对对方 遇到的问题提出自己的看法或观点； 也可以写给某个组织机构， 多是对改进服务提出建议或 忠告。建议信多以第一人称为主，时态多用一般现在时或一般将来时。写建议信时：1. 表明自己的身份并说明写信的目的，写清楚建议的前提和事情的原委；2. 围绕问题，科学合理、委婉地提出建议。注意站在对方的立场考虑问题，语言应得体；所提出的建议应该有说服性，注意措辞，慎用must等命令性词汇。3. 礼貌地表达希望自己的建议能对对方有所帮助，并表示个人的建议仅供参考。典型语句1. I 'm wri

21、ting this letter toshare with you what I think about the matter. 我写信来说说我对此事的看法。2. I am writing to express my idea concerning/ for the purpose of我写信想表达我对 的想法/为了3. I am writing to ask you to consider 我写信时请你考虑 4. I think it would be good for you to consider the following suggestions.我想你最好考虑一下这些建议。5. Yo

22、u have asked me for my advice onand I will try to make some suggestions.你问我有关 的建议，我就试着给你些建议。6. If I were you, I would. 如果我是你，我会 7. I hope you will consider my suggestions. 我希望你考虑我的建议。8. I am looking forward to receiving your letter. 希望收到你的信。9. I feel that it would be beneficial if. 我感觉如果会是有利的。10.I w

23、ould be ready to discuss this matter to further details. 我会很愿意进一步讨论此事。写作范文Example 1下面是网上交流贴吧上版主Brie的留言和一个学生给Brie的留言，请根据这些提示给Lisa写一圭寸回信，对她的困惑给予建议。I ' vexperie need feeli ngs of Ion eli ness, jealousy, an ger, and pressure with my frien ds. I ' ve lost friends in the past, and I un dersta nd t

24、he troubles of maintaining a frien dship. However, I know how to be confident a nd how to distinguish 区另 U） who my real friends are. I love giving advice to my friends about all of their problems!Dear Brie,I ' maving some trouble with my classmates at the moment. Igettihgmlong well with at wantb

25、oy in my class. We often do homework together and we enjoy helping each other. We have become really good friends. But other students have started gossiping （说闲话）They say that this boy and I have fallen in love （相爱）.This has made me angry. I don to end the frien dship, but I hate others gossip ing.

26、What should I do?Yours,Lisa参考范文：Dear Lisa,There ' s nothing wrong withou and this boy being friends and studying together. Of course a boy and a girl can be good frien ds. Ending your frien dship with this boy would be a stupid thi ng to do. You should lose a good friend and some one to study wi

27、th.Teenagers like to gossip, and they often see something that isn ' real. Perhaps your classmatescan ' t understand your friendship with this boy. That no reason to stop'it.sMy advice is to ignore your classmates. That way you will show them that you are more grown-up than they are.Your

28、s,BrieExample 2Dear Brie,I ' m student from Huzhou Senior High School. I have a problem. I ' mot very good at communicating with people. Although I try to talk to my classmates, I still find it hard to make good friends with them. So I feel quite Ionely sometimes. I do want to change this si

29、tuation, but I don ' t know how. I wouldbe grateful if you could give me some advice.Yours,Xiao Hui参考范文：Dear Xiaohui,I ' m sorryou are having trouble in making friends. However, the situation is easy to change if you take my advice.Here are some tips to help you. First, why not go and talk t

30、o people standing on their own （独 自地）？ I agree that this is difficult but that person may be Ionely too.Fin ally, you should try to join in a discussi on. You may not feel that this is right, but by doing this you are letting people know how frien dly you are. So there should be no problem. It shoul

31、dcertai nly provide you with some new friends. I hope you find these ideas useful.Yours,Brie 课本话题作文假如你是Joe,给你的朋友Jack用英语写一封信，说明下列要点:1. 生活中朋友对你的帮助2. 你们成为朋友的原因3. 如何使友谊持续,希望永远做朋友参考范文:Dear Jack,I often think that I'm really luckhyatvheatyoIu as my best friend. You always lend me ahand when I am in tr

32、ouble . Last month I was ill and stayed in hospital for two weeks. You took notes in class for me, and after class you came to help me with my lessons . You always try to cheer me up when I am in low spirits. When I have done something wrong, you point it out. You are always honest and never break y

33、our word . I am also very glad that I can help you when you need me.Another reason why we are good friends is that weshare the same interests, for example, reading, traveling and playing basketball. We have so much to talk about with each other when we's life, do you agcraeree?fLoertYours,Joebreak one ' s woid背诺言特来信了解中国人的社交习俗。s alwaysare together. Friendship is very important in everyone and help each other and be