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Unit 1Part I - A87, 80, 53, 48, 24, 17Script: The Porter FamilyMr William Porter is very old. He is 87. And Mrs Catherine Porter is 80. Mr Porter is from Wales. John Porter and Mary are brother and sister. John Porter is 53 and he is a lawyer. His wife Susan is 48, and she is an architect. James Porter and Joan Lee are cousins. James Porter is 24 and Joan Lee is 17. Part I - B1. spending special time together. 2. specific, complain, request, praise.3. fatigue, insecurities, foxhole, striking out , protect.4. distant5. all marriages, Work together o understand 6. Respect, danger, professional, physical, verbal7. Understand, winPart I - C40, excel, domestic argument, losingwin-win, lose-lose, win, a gift, returnsargue over, arent, who, in control, fear, didnt need, ought not to , couldnt, tried to, destroy, marriagelove, loved, secure, discover, garden, cultivate, the most precious, own self, bloom.obtain, our partner, loved and respected, control.Part II- AA21. similar social backgrounds.2. the same race or same ethnic background.3. the same religion.A3Japan / 9.2% / arranged marriages3% / between blacks and whitesMany people in Western cultures choose their own wives and husbands. In many other countries, spouse are often chosen by the parents. In China and Japan before this century (20th century), upper-class marriages were arranged by the older males. In many cultures in the Middle East, Asia, and pre-industrial Europe, the mans family negotiated a bride price with the womans family; the mans family was expected to pay it. In Hindu India, the brides family paid a grooms price to the family of the man. These customs are weakening;for intance, only 9.2 percent of Japanese marriages are now arranged. What are the criteria for choosing mates? Most marriages-whether arranged by families or occurring from personal attraction or love-are based on similar social backgrounds. In other words, the man and the woman come from the same social class (or else a class that is only slightly higher or slight lower). Among many people in Egypt, key members of the mans family must go to the family of the woman and propose marriage. These family members must be able to show that the mans family is at least of the same social class as the woman and that a certain amount of money exists to allow the marriage to go forward.Having the same race or the same ethnic background is the second main criterion for marriage throughout the world. In the U.S,. Where there are many different races, only 3 percent of all marriages are between blacks and whites, meaning that the races are still largely separate in marriage.In many countries, marriage is also based on the woman and man having the same religion; this is a third common criterion for choosing a mate. In culture in which religion is very strong value, marriages would often not take place if there were religious differences. Part II - B1. physical appearance; 2. what somebody looks like, ., look beyond the physical appearance3. the high percentage of divorces.4. falling love with somebody,. ,loving somebodyScript:What do you think it is that attracts people to each other, that makes people want to be together?I think that perhaps unfortunately in the initial stages its the physical appearance that attracts. I think unless you find somebody attractive, unless theres something about them-it could only perhaps be the way they smile or they laugh, or a twinkle in their eye, or the way of a curl falls over their forehead. But something like that has to make you interested enough to find out more about that person, unless thats there I think you just dont bother. So initially physical attraction I think is all important.Why do you say unfortunately?Because in fact it shouldnt be what somebody looks like that is important. You should be able to look beyond he physical appearance and see what sort of a person he or she is, whether they are selfish or selfless, whether they are kind, caring. But I think initially you are not bothered with that. That come perhaps later.In pop songs and magazines and newspapers and son on, the idea of falling love in s always emphasized, so people have this idea that you have to fall in love. Do you think this is misleading for people? Do you think people expect something that in fact doesnt exist?Yes, I do. In fact I think we can probably lay the blame for the high percentage of divorce-its a third I think now, isnt it? I think one in three people get divorced. Probably as far as I can see it, the reason is that they go into marriage or into a relationship with a very romantic view of love which I think has been created by the pop songs, by all the love stores, by the Barbara Cartland novels, etc. , that young people read. Really, you meet someone, you fall in love, and thats it., its the beginning, they live happily even after. And I think thats the problem, because people just expect that, and its not like that.So what is it, do you think, that really sustains a relationship, that keeps a relationship going?Well, I think you have to differentiate between falling in love with somebody, which I see as more superficial, and loving somebody, which I see as a deeper emotion and one that perhaps lasts. Falling in love is superficial attraction, being attracted to somebody physically, having fun together, whereas loving somebody I think is an emotion that grows, it comes with shared experiences, perhaps enjoying doing the same things together, shared hobbies, shared interests, suffering together as well, going through the bad times, helping each other, supporting each other. I think all that needs time to grow, and Id call that love, and I think thats what makes a relationship last.Part II - Cone of the biggest decisions they will make in life,as the just-right wife for him,definition of what the just-rightwife is,the millionaire man and the poor man ,her physical qualities,different words,by her physical qualities,in two different atmospheres,also have their definition of the just-right wife,the German mans definition is different from the Spanish mans.Script:Part IIIA baseball diamond frizzly hair / glasses/ funny/ monologue A wine bar pizzaA fancy-dress party the man dressed as Cheshire CatOutside a cinema coincidence/ hed also missed the filmA boat/ the river bank fell in river/ he dived in and rescued herScript:Kate: I was on my way home from junior high and in order to get to my house you have to walk by this baseball diamond. And there was a game of baseball going on and it looked kind of interesting, so I stopped. There werent very many people watching. And there was this guy and he wasnt really very good-looking, but he had frizzly hair and glasses and he was really funny. He did this kind of monologue thing, which war great. And I went home and I told my mother I was going to marry him after talking to him for half an hour. And when I got to high school, he was president of the student body and he asked me out and.weve got our picture in the yearbook together holding hands, and its really nice.Ke: Well, Id arranged to have a drink with a friend of mine, a woman friend of mine whos a platonic friend of mine. And she insisted on bringing this friend of hers who she said Id like to meet and I thought she was trying to fix us up and I said, Please dont! But she did bring this friend and we hit it off. And after the wine bar we went to have a pizza and we all had a few more drinks and the other woman who ended up ordering a pizza that had a bunch of stuff on it that she really liked, so we picked at each others pizzas all night and we realized that we were sort of had an ideal relationship, so that we could order really any pizza on the menu and wed both be happy. And anyway we ended up living together and still are.Coralyn: We met at a party and it was fancy-dress party. A friend of mines twenty-first and it was quite big and I went dressed as Alice in Wonderland and this person, this guy that I married was dressed as the Cheshire Cat. And it just seemed so amazing that, you know, we were both from the same thing and we started chatting and ended up being together.Jill: Id arranged to go to the cinema with a group of friends and unfortunately I missed the train that would have got me to standing outside-the film had started. So I wasnt allowed in. And there was a chap outside, hed also missed the film and we started to talk and we talked quite a bit and he said,Lets go down the road and see that film, because that one hasnt started at the Odeon. So we went down there and weve been going out ever since!Carole: I first met my partner when he was on a boat and I was on the river bank, standing and looking generally into the distance and he was coming in to land with his boat and he threw me a rope and said,Would you mind catching this? and I caught it and missed and tripped over it and fell in the river and he had to dive in and rescue me. And that was it!Part IVBook, choked, disappointment, take you to dinner, tolerant smile, went by, rose, big restaurant, test, understand and admireScript:John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didnt, the girl with the rose. His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he found himself intrigued, not with the words of the book, but with the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. In the front of the book, he discovered the previous owners name, Miss Hollis Maynell.With time and effort he located her address. She lived in New York City. He wrote her a letter introducing himself and inviting her to correspond. The next day he was shipped overseas for service in World War through the mail. Each letter was a seed falling on a fertile heart. A romance was budding. Blanchard requested a photograph, but she refused. She felt that if he really cared, it wouldnt matter what she looked like. When the day finally come for him to return from Europe, they scheduled their first meeting -7:00p.m. At the Grand Hotel Station in New York. You will recognize me,she wrote, by the red rose Ill be wearing on my lapel. So at 7:00 he was in the station looking for a girl whose heart he loved, but whose face hed never seen. Ill let Mr Blanchard tell you what happened. A young woman was coming toward me, her figure long and slim. Her blonde hair lay back in curls from her delicate ears. Her eyes were as blue flowers. Her lips and chin had a gentle firmness, and in her pale green suit she was like spring time coming alive. I started toward her, entirely forgetting to notice that she was not wearing a rose. As I moved, a small, provocative smile curved her lips. Going my way, sailor? she murmured. Almost uncontrollably I made one step closer to her, and then I saw Holllis Maynell. She was standing almost directly behind the girl. A woman well past 40, she had graying hair tucked under a worn hat. She was more than plump, her thick-ankled feet thrust into low-heeled shoes. The girl in the green suit was waking quickly away.I felt as thought I was split into two, so keen was my desire to follow her, and yet so deep was my longing for the woman whose spirit had truly companioned me and upheld my own. And there she stood. Her pale plump face was gentle and sensible, her gray eyes had a warm and kindly twinkle. I did not hesitate. My fingers gripped the small worn blue leather copy of the book that was to identify me to her. This would not be love, but it would be something precious, something perhaps even better than love. . I squared my shoulders and saluted and held out the book to the woman, even though while I spoke I felt chocked by the bitterness of my disappointment: “Im Lieutenant John Blanchard. Im so glad you could meet me; may I take you Take you to dinner?” The womans face broadened into a tolerate smile. “I dont know what this is about ,son ,” she answered, but the young lady in the green suit who just went by ,she begged me to wear this rose on my coat. And she said if you were to ask me to dinner, I should tell you that she is waiting for you in the big restaurant across the street. She said this is kind of test!Unit 2 Shaping and reshaping personalityPart I-A1- h, 2-d, 3-j, 4-k, 5-b, 6-i, 7-g, 8-e, 9-l, 10-f, 11-c, 12-aTape script:1. Taurus April 21- May12, is represented by a bull.2. Virgo is represented by a young woman.3. Capricorn. by a goat.4. Pisces.by two fish.5. Aquarius.by the water-bearer.6. Leo.by a lion7. Cancer .by a crab8. Aries.by a ram9. Gemini.by twins10. Sagitarus.by a centaur shooing an arrow11. Scorpio.by a scorption12. Libra.by a pair of measuring scales.Part I - BVery, not very, extremely, sort of, veryTape script:W: Hey, Kevin. Help me fill out this personality survey. Itll be fun.M:Oh, I dont know.W: Oh, come on. Ok, heres the first one-what should I put for aggressive?M:Oh, I.Id say very.W: Very? Really?M: Yeah, sure. Look at the way you drive!W: Well, Ok, so Im a very aggressive driver. But. You have to drive like that in this city, or youre gonna be hit, because.M:Uh,. Whats the next one?W: Selfish.M:Oh, not at all. W: Really? Well. Maybe just a little. I mean, a lot of people are, right? Just a little bit? You know, I mean, I try to think of other people, but sometimes I do just think of myself, I guess.M: Ok,Ok, so put not very.W: OK. M: But you can put extremely for the next one. W: What? Oh, kind?M: Yes. Dont you think you are an extremely kind person?W: I am? Ok, if you say so. Oh, look t this next one. W: Yeah.M: Hmm. I dont know. Sometimes you can be really patient, but other times you are not patient at all. Like remember that time in line at the supermarket when you got.W: Ok, ok, I get your point. Ill put sort of/.M: Ok, thats right.W: Next one.jealous. I guess I am sort of jealous.M: Sort of? Id put very. Remember how angry you got when my ex-girlfriend called the other day? I remember you are gonna raise the roof.W: All right, all right, Very.Part I- CAmbitious and proudHelpful and honestSelfish and unreliableTape script:GeorgeW: So what are you going to do after you graduates, George?G: I m going to start my own business. W: Oh, really? What type of business?G: Well, I havent decided yet, but I know Ill be successful in anything I do. In fact, I am going to be one of the top business people in town in less than five years. Just wait and see! I have everything it takes -I am smart, I can organize people. And I am full of ideas that can make money.KarenK: Hey! Look at this wallet on the sidewalk. Wow! Theres lot of money in it. But no identification. Mmm.I wonder how I can find the owner? I guess I will take it to the police station and see if anyone has reported a lost wallet.PamM: What are you doing tonight, Pam?P: Well, I was supposed to meet Bill after work for a movie, but I dont feel like going. I think I will go shopping instead.M: Wont Bill get mad?P: Oh, I am sure he can find something else to do.M:Oh?P: Besides, I really need some new clothes. I havent bought any for nearly a month!M:Huh!Part IIYoung boys1. Measure the boys abilities and how they felt about their own abilities;2.Three groups-those with high self-esteem/middle self-esteem/low self-esteem3. In all situation-at home/ at work/ in school/ with friends1. Active/able to express ideas/successful in school and in relations with other people/creative/led in discussions/interested in world problems/seldom tired or sick2. Like the boys with high self-esteem/express ideas freely/saw the world as a good and happy place/ not sure of their own value3. Sad most time/ afraid to start activities/ felt no love/ couldnt express ideas/ afraid of anger/no talk in discussiona. closenessb. good behavior b.almost anythingc.definite, strict, kind and thoughtful c. no definited. rewards d. harsh punishment e. democratic, respectedf. importance, taken away f. didnt love themTape script:Scientists have learned a great deal about the parts of brain and their functions. They have also studied the development of the personality, for example, how a baby learns to love. In recent studies at two universities in the United States, scientists have investigated the development of self-esteem.Self-esteem is the respect a person has for himself, his belief in his ability and in the value of what he does. The scientists studied self-esteem in young boys. They gave them many tests. These test measured the boys abilities and also how they felt about their own abilities. After the tests, the boys were divided into three groups-those with high-esteem, those with middle-esteem and those with love self-esteem. The scientist continued to study the boys in all situations. They studied them at home, at work, in school, and with their friends.From their studies, the scientists made some observations. Boys with high self-esteem were active. They were able to express their ideas. They were successfu