英语美文：悦己者更容易有好运气

1、他们身上总是闪耀着爱和接纳的光环。I cherish being around people who are totally comfortable with who they are. There always seems to be an aura of love and acceptance thatfollows these folks around在我眼里，悦己的人非常可贵。他们身上总是闪耀着爱和接纳的光环。I think it s because they ve figured out one of the biggest secrets tolife: The possibili

2、ty of being loved and accepted grows exponentially whenwe can truly say we couldnt be more comfortable witlhveosuL我认为这是因为他们找到了一个生活最大的秘密：当我们能够真正悦己时， 我们被爱和被接纳的可能性才会更大。People like being around those who are comfortable with themselves because they re less threatening. We all feel the need to protect ou

3、rselves from threats aimed at our in securities.人们喜欢和悦己的人在一起，因为和他们在一起比拟有平安感，而人都有远离威胁、消除不平安感的需 求。Insecurities are like open wounds, and it hurts when people poke at them.不安感就像是裸露的伤口，只要碰了就会疼。It can be exhausting to hang around folks who constantly poke at us just to gain some kind of external validati

4、on through making everyone else feel smaller.有些人就为了通过使别人觉得自己渺小而获得外界的某种认可，总是来戳我们的伤口和这样的人待在一起，我们会筋疲力尽。My favorite thing about people who are comfortable with themselves is they need no external validatio n.对于那些悦己的人，我很喜欢的一点 就是他们不需要外界的认可。They have discovered their worth is intrinsic and, by nature, some

5、thing that cannot be taken away or added to based on what other people think.Ironically enough, this ends up providing comfortable people with more exter nal validati on tha n those who feel they n eed it most.挖苦的是， 相较于那些非常渴望别人认可的人来说，悦己的人最终能得到更多的 外界认可。Because comfortable people s worth comes from wi

6、thin, they see no point in tearing others down. To them, the only sensible way to speak about ano ther is positively.因为悦己的人的价值来自于内在，他们觉着 诋毁别人没有意义。对他们而言，积极地谈论别人才是唯一明智的方式。I guess when you realize your worth comes from within, you might as well build others up rather than tear them down, since their si

7、ze is of no threat to your sense of self-worth. 我想当你意识到你的价值来自内心的 时候，你倒不如赞美别人、而不是诋毁他们，因为他们并不会威胁到你的自尊。Plus, it s a lot more tfounspeak love to others and watch their eyesglow tha n it is to hurt some one s feeli ngs for a cheap laUg 外卜，ny way.对别人说出你的爱、看着他们眼里充满喜悦，这要比小气地嘲笑别人 而伤害他们要更乐趣。When we become comfortable with ourselves through fully accepting who we are, we can silence the noise our insecurities make in public situations and become more attuned to the wonderful reality that unfolds before us当我们完全接受自己、完全悦己时，我们就能够使在公众场 合产生的不安感销声匿迹，也更能理解眼前的