中西方爱情观的差异(英文版)

1、Comparisons Of Chinese And Western Views On LoveDefinition and place of loveWestern countries:? Love is the first, and men in love can sacrifice （牺牲）everyth ing, and thewoman in love also will give up everything.? In western literatur（文学）love is a kind of irresistible（不可抵制的） power.? The admired （羡慕，

2、赞美）is a perfect an gel.China: Chinese people pay attention to marriage and despis轻视）love。love is more than the relationship of two persons.even if the special felling disappeared between them， there is still a great chance that they choose to live togethertheir relationship is not just about themsel

3、ves, but the whole family including the child, parent, relatives, etcThe choice of marriage partnerWestern countries:? The choice of the sexes and marriage partner is based on love, regardless of background （背景），family, age, social status and other considerations.? With emotion （情感，情绪） get close tog

4、ether. Without it ,they are divided （分裂的） .China : Many factors are consideredEg：? The Romance of Western Bowef 西厢记）? Impressive Plot （情节） ：Zhang Junrui had to meet secretly with Yingying, who was waiting for the moon over the Western Bower, by climbing over the wall into the garden. yingying is the

5、 daughter of a rich businessman， however,zhang is a poor intellectual.? Their love was enthusiastic （热烈的）and sincere（真诚的，诚实的），butunacceptable.Love collide （碰撞）Western countries:? Westerners pay more attention to the external beauty, namely th“lust” （欲 望） in huma n n ature.Example: Romeo and JulietRo

6、meo and Juliet falli ng in love at first sight is based on both sides of the beauty. They don' t have deep com muni cati ons. They make judgme nts accord ing to the impressions （观感） of the opposite （对面的） person' s looks.China:The Oriental （东方人的） pay more attention to the inner beauty, namely

7、“ passion"（激情，热情） side in human nature.Example: Lia ng Sha nbo and Zhu Yin gtaiLia ng Shan bo a nd Zhu Yin gtai have quite a long time for com muni cati ons such as three years classmates readi ng. In daily con tact, Zhu Yin gtai was attracted by Lia ng's tale nt and conno tati on （内涵） and

8、gave him her heart.The expressions of loveWestern countries:Direct and straightforward （坦率的）frankly、open、romantic、egardles（不注意的）of everythingEg： 'I loved you. I never shall. That's the truth, Roy. I never shall.'我爱你，从未爱过别人，永远不会，这是真的，罗伊，永远不会。China: Implicit and veiled（掩饰的）.g： The quiet wo

9、man from The Book of Poetrythe poetry depicts（描述）lover's first date ,the girl sent the boy red-tube writing brush ,the boy was too excited but resp onde（回应）implicitly.Defending of loveWestern countries:Have great initiative （主动权）China: Lack of courage, passively（被动的）receiving （接收） the fates （命运）

10、.? A Dream of Red Mansions （红楼梦）? Impressive Plot : the love tragedy （悲剧） of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu? all the big decisions in young adults' life were made by sonmdenoone else, aone can decide their own future.Pride and Prejudice傲慢与偏见）? when it comes to pursuing （追求） love, it was relatively （相对的） much more bold （大胆的） and free in the west. young adults were allowed to choose their future spous（酉己偶）bythemselves.- the general （普遍的） marriage system -monogamous （